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by michaelnmelissa
Thu Nov 11, 2010 12:15 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Melissa In Control
Replies: 10
Views: 6594

Re: Melissa In Control

I have always had a lot of pre-cum during arousal. Melissa says she didn't know a man could put out so much. Now with chastity involved it's nearly constant. I never lose desire because of it.

Michael
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Nov 11, 2010 12:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity in all its guises
Replies: 24
Views: 10460

Re: Chastity in all its guises

Melissa and I are new to this, but we both agree that it is more than a game. It is a change of how we do things sexually speaking. She is in the driver's seat and she likes it - and so do I. No humiliation and no one else but the two of us. Right now, we'd like to see this become how we are for alw...
by michaelnmelissa
Sun Nov 07, 2010 7:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Cock Ownership
Replies: 9
Views: 8204

Cock Ownership

It's strange to look down at my cock and realize it no longer belongs to me. Part of our understanding of male chastity is that Melissa owns my cock. It's no longer mine to do what I want with it. I've been playing with that thing since...well, since forever. It used to be pretty hairy. Now I keep i...
by michaelnmelissa
Sun Nov 07, 2010 8:19 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: A Normal Couple Doing Chastity
Replies: 11
Views: 5716

A Normal Couple Doing Chastity

I wonder if those of us who practice male chastity will ever become more open about it? I wonder if it will ever become less kinky in the general view? I suppose all of us on here have wondered that before. I mean, Melissa and I are normal people. We both work. We have kids. I'm a veteran. We vote, ...
by michaelnmelissa
Sun Nov 07, 2010 8:08 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I Can See Us Talking About It
Replies: 14
Views: 7557

I Can See Us Talking About It

Eight years ago a friend of ours came to us distraught. She and her husband, also our friend, were recently separated and it wasn't looking hopeful for their reconciling. She was just talking and talking and soon enough troubles with their sex life came up. She told us how it always had to be one ce...
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Nov 05, 2010 5:07 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Day to Day
Replies: 10
Views: 5650

Day to Day

Hi everyone, I love the teasing and denial and giving more than I am receiving (physically). But I am wondering how often that will happen in our day to day lives once it's not so new anymore? I mean, with jobs and kids and obligations to meet - how long might you go when nothing is mentioned about ...
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Nov 05, 2010 4:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Melissa In Control
Replies: 10
Views: 6594

Melissa In Control

So Melissa and I were drifting off to sleep the other night when I mentioned to her how I was always dripping pre-cum now. She said really? And I said yes, especially watching you shower this morning and seeing what I cannot have right now...my boxer briefs were soaked with it. She told me she'd lik...
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Nov 05, 2010 4:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Male orgasm frequency
Replies: 31
Views: 13908

Re: Orgasm frequency

I certainly have less than I used to! Today is my 22nd day in chastity and I have had one orgasm in that time and it's been 16 days since that one. I used to have at least one a day and sometimes 2 or 3. Most of those were through masturbation, but still...more orgasms? No way. A LOT less!

Michael
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Nov 04, 2010 5:03 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Honor system vs. wearing a device
Replies: 75
Views: 28905

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Right now Melissa and I are using the honor system, but after a positive conversation yesterday I think a Jailbird is in our future. Last night I did sleep in an athletic supporter with a cup. It was surprisingly comfortable as well as a bit maddening as it did not allow me any sensation to my cock ...
by michaelnmelissa
Wed Nov 03, 2010 10:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Why Chastity For Us?
Replies: 22
Views: 9177

Re: Why Chastity For Us?

Jnuts: I've read through your blog and I was encouraged to see we were not the only couple that saw chastity as helping to end the fighting. Dev: I've read through your blog too and it's also been most helpful to me. I do hope Melissa will join the discussion. I think it may be awhile. I am much mor...