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by justplaying
Thu Jan 06, 2011 5:39 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Phoenix Xannadu
Replies: 11
Views: 7823

Re: Phoenix Xannadu

Dear ocbear; Thanks for giving such a detailed explanation of how it all works. I was very curious about the roller and the oblong backing ring, because no other design has that. Most of the comments on the forum were fairly negative about the "boxy" design, because it would be bulky to wear and har...
by justplaying
Mon Jan 03, 2011 9:40 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Contracts
Replies: 23
Views: 10599

Re: Contracts

Hi Belle; There is a post by MichaelandMellissa on 12-22 that talks about Agreements. I liked the content of it very much and am thinking of using it as a starting point for my wife KH and myself to have a talk about MC. We also just recently hit a lull in the chastity play. With all the holiday gue...
by justplaying
Sun Jan 02, 2011 8:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: She Won't Go Back
Replies: 51
Views: 21283

Re: She Won't Go Back

Has anyone else read this article in the NY Times: "The Happy Marriage is the Me Marriage" here's the link: http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/02/weekinreview/02parkerpope.html The premise is that couples have happier relationships when their partner helps them get more out of their own life....hmmm, th...
by justplaying
Fri Dec 31, 2010 5:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where is everyone from?
Replies: 203
Views: 74489

Re: Where is everyone from?

Yes, she's a movie fanatic and loves the Cabot Street Theater. She goes twice a week. It's her big indulgence. :D It's a great theater...way back when I was growing up in NYC, I was an usher...great job for watching movies for free! Pay was horrible, but I did get to see Jackie O right up close...s...
by justplaying
Fri Dec 31, 2010 12:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where is everyone from?
Replies: 203
Views: 74489

Re: Where is everyone from?

Hey Dev...Do you mean the Cabot Street Theater? My KH and I live on the North Shore in MA.... Danj; yeah, we can actually walk outside without body parts freezing... How do the steel devices behave in the cold? That's something I haven't thought about until now.... They look so cool I am hoping that...
by justplaying
Wed Dec 22, 2010 5:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Depression?
Replies: 7
Views: 3842

Re: Depression?

Hi Dev; My KH has this problem too. I bought her a light last year and it takes a few weeks before your body registers anything. It worked really well. She sits about 2 feet away from it while reading in the morning for 20 minutes. I wasn't convinced it would do anything, but she so hates the New En...
by justplaying
Sun Dec 19, 2010 9:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Night time attempted erections keep me awake.
Replies: 8
Views: 7687

Re: Night time attempted erections keep me awake.

Yep! Know the feeling well. Just a couple nights ago, I was thinking about my spouse and it started to swell and started throbbing in the tube. I was restless and she asked if anything was wrong. I told her it was swelled and throbbing in the tube. She gave me a kiss and said, let it throb for me. ...
by justplaying
Sun Dec 19, 2010 9:33 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Jailbird pain
Replies: 13
Views: 6522

Re: Jailbird pain

I get really annoyed about the head moving and then having to align it every time I need to pee. I finally got tired of all that, so before I put the tube on (CB6ks) I slide a rubber cock ring over the end of my penis (just past the head). In order to position it in the tube I take a piece of string...
by justplaying
Fri Nov 19, 2010 6:31 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: This issue of Control
Replies: 14
Views: 4146

Re: This issue of Control

I agree with mikecb. I really find that wearing the device is erotic. It is a turn on, knowing that only me and my key holder know that I have it on. I also find that it makes me feel more submissive. I can't actually explain why. Maybe just the fact that I cannot get an erection while wearing it, o...
by justplaying
Fri Nov 19, 2010 6:19 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Jumpstarting Communication.............
Replies: 42
Views: 16172

Re: Jumpstarting Communication.............

I would second Dev's advice about Sarah Jameson's 12 part Guide. I didn't sign up for it until after we already had the "awkward" conversation. Then when the Guide was emailed to me, one part every day or so, I would read it and pass it on for my wife to read. Since our goal was to improve our intim...