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by Tom Allen
Thu Jul 17, 2025 10:01 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Long term cage issues
Replies: 6
Views: 459

Re: Long term cage issues

Then, when I get out, I use Q-tips to dry out the inside of the tube, and then I use a drop or two of silicone lube, but, after reading Tom's post, I may try gold bond cream. Silicone, like baby oil, etc, is not water soluble, and will retain body stuff which will grow bacteria resulting in that fu...
by Tom Allen
Mon Jul 14, 2025 9:11 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Long term cage issues
Replies: 6
Views: 459

Re: Long term cage issues

Interestingly, for more than 8 years I have also been wearing an A272, and the last 7+ of that permanently. I have found it to be comfortable and convenient for my long term wear, which has included a lot of physical work. Note that there is a slightly shorter version called the A271. Because I spen...
by Tom Allen
Mon Jul 14, 2025 7:57 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Should we switch the forum software?
Replies: 14
Views: 415

Re: Should we switch the forum software?

I've been looking at it, and it seems pretty decent. The basic pricing does not look too bad, and would be more than enough to meet our needs.
by Tom Allen
Mon Jul 14, 2025 7:05 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: How are you reading the forums?
Replies: 9
Views: 271

How are you reading the forums?

Back when we created this forum, a lot of users came here via their home PCs or laptops. But there is better technology for mobile browsing, tablets & phones have gotten better, and more people now pick that option. As we look to possibly change our forum software from PHBBB to something more mo...
by Tom Allen
Mon Jul 14, 2025 6:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is this happening to anyone else? Loss of website
Replies: 13
Views: 687

Re: Is this happening to anyone else? Loss of website

Hey @Schnoff did you mean "Discord?"

Edit: No, you meant Discourse. Well, dang. I'm off to read about it.
by Tom Allen
Mon Jul 14, 2025 6:35 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Should we switch the forum software?
Replies: 14
Views: 415

Re: Should we switch the forum software?

Ugh, I hate Discord. Maybe it was too early along for me, but I did not like navigating a group with a bunch of different channels. And it's not great for searching old information that was posted ages ago. An alternative could be setting up a dedicated Reddit sub. You can use it with a PC or their ...
by Tom Allen
Sun Jul 13, 2025 5:57 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [denied_one] No Idea What To Call This...
Replies: 188
Views: 233241

Re: [denied_one] No Idea What To Call This...

A message Thursday on the Chastity Mansion boards left by @MrsLockNkey:
I am heart broken to have to make this announcement but my husband Jason @denied_one passed away very suddenly we believe from a heart attack. Plz say a prayer for us
Our deepest condolences to her and her family
by Tom Allen
Mon Jul 07, 2025 11:16 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 6019
Views: 5218756

Re: "Hello world" thread

Though not caged, I'm pretty much pussy free these days, with fauxing and vibrators being central to our sex life. Over the past few years, I have become more and more aware of this kind of dynamic. Interestingly, my wife considers foxing to be "regular PIV" for us, and does not consider ...
by Tom Allen
Mon Jul 07, 2025 6:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: chaster.app recs - good doms, good locks etc
Replies: 4
Views: 1349

Re: chaster.app recs - good doms, good locks etc

Have you checked the demographics here? Most of the active members have a partner. The online locking services are mainly for those who self lock. Also, we discourage those soliciting for keyholders and for lockees. I can imagine an open thread like that leading to "Chastity Mistress seeking su...
by Tom Allen
Tue Jun 10, 2025 5:03 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHAT A CS-500 CAGE IS?
Replies: 4
Views: 11445

Re: CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHAT A CS-500 CAGE IS?

Is this like an obsolete website and product?
The idea behind it is really very good. I have no idea if they are still operating. Have you emailed them to see if they are still in business?