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by Tom Allen
Thu Sep 10, 2020 9:50 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Initiating Sex in Chastity
Replies: 14
Views: 1546

Re: Initiating Sex in Chastity

We have found that during these Covid-19 times of us both being home during the day that the spur of the moment mid afternoon encounter has been fun. We've had a few of those, except that I'm usually at work M-F and sometimes on Sat. And our daughter lives at home, and she works pretty much the sam...
by Tom Allen
Thu Sep 10, 2020 5:08 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Initiating Sex in Chastity
Replies: 14
Views: 1546

Re: Initiating Sex in Chastity

The idea I'd initiate sex while caged would be just weird. Funny, every relationship is different. I'm often "initiating" even while locked, and even knowing that I'll remain locked. However, our current work/home life is such that we found it easier to make regular date nights... on a weekend morn...
by Tom Allen
Thu Sep 10, 2020 4:57 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Strap On sex Revisited
Replies: 8
Views: 479

Re: Strap On sex Revisited

First, we've taken to call male-wearing dildo as "foxing." This came from various discussion around Twitter, Reddit, and other places - to fox means to fool, decoy, etc, and is a good verbal slide from "Faux," which described the dildo. Anyhow... We experimented with temperatures last year. Tap wate...
by Tom Allen
Fri Aug 28, 2020 8:42 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Love the forum? Donate a buck or two!
Replies: 31
Views: 1550

Re: Love the forum? Donate a buck or two!

“Secure Packaging” it is. I’ll make the change. Edit: Done. Credit card statements should now show as "securepack". Nice. And while we're on the subject, how do we go about making anonymous donations? I'm sure that we have a lot of members who might want to leave as minimal a footprint as possible.
by Tom Allen
Fri Aug 28, 2020 4:32 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Love the forum? Donate a buck or two!
Replies: 31
Views: 1550

Re: Love the forum? Donate a buck or two!

I had started a side thing to sell stainless steel replacement components for the CBx models. I called it "Intimate Security."

Would that show up as "intimatesec"? Is that too racy?

Then how about "Secure Packaging" - figuring 10 to 12 letters would be "securepack" or similar.
by Tom Allen
Fri Aug 21, 2020 3:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: KittensBoyToy Hospitalized
Replies: 28
Views: 1248

Re: KittensBoyToy Hospitalized

Wow. Best wishes for both of you, and condolences on your brother in law.
by Tom Allen
Thu Aug 20, 2020 7:51 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Type of Weld on Stainless Devices
Replies: 6
Views: 652

Re: Type of Weld on Stainless Devices

Generally, silver solder contains: 65% fine silver. 20% copper. 15% zinc. There may also be traces of other metals in the allow to improve flow. Copper and zinc are not approved for long term body contact. They will tarnish, and may cause irritation. Plus, a poor joint will leave burnt Flux which yo...
by Tom Allen
Sun Aug 16, 2020 5:25 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: 100 days club
Replies: 17
Views: 1167

Re: 100 days club

I remember when we first got into this, and it was exciting for the both of us. At three months I told Mrs Edge "OMG,. tomorrow will be 90 days."

She said, "You mean, the first 90 days."
by Tom Allen
Wed Aug 05, 2020 8:28 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Orientation of people on this forum
Replies: 13
Views: 806

Re: Orientation of people on this forum

Adding to that, these forums were specifically set up for newbies and the more vanilla oriented folks to discuss chastity and orgasm denial ina relaxed casual setting like chatting over coffee, and free of the distractions of the more extreme BDSM crowd. We do have a handful of gay men, but I think ...