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by CT_locked
Thu Apr 17, 2025 6:42 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: TIL my wife didn’t know about “morning wood”
Replies: 5
Views: 18549

TIL my wife didn’t know about “morning wood”

I debated whether to add this to the other “morning wood” thread or start a new one, but decided on a new because I didn’t want to derail the original which is a good question and discussion on its own. So about fifteen minutes ago I learned my wife of 37 years had no idea that “morning wood” was a ...
by CT_locked
Wed Apr 16, 2025 5:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Who Knows?
Replies: 20
Views: 55140

Re: Who Knows?

No one. But I kind of wish she had a friend who knew. Not for any kink or fantasy reason at all but rather so that she had someone to talk to about it if she wanted to.
by CT_locked
Wed Apr 16, 2025 5:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Does Morning Wood *ever* become less painful?
Replies: 19
Views: 32127

Re: Does Morning Wood *ever* become less painful?

I have also found that a short cage (about 2.5” shorter than flaccid length) with a diameter that leaves no room to grow at all has been very helpful in reducing morning discomfort. On a related note, my wife/KH asked me to put my cage on yesterday morning (out of the blue) after a few months of bei...
by CT_locked
Sat Apr 05, 2025 8:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Does Morning Wood *ever* become less painful?
Replies: 19
Views: 32127

Re: Does Morning Wood *ever* become less painful?

Everyone is different. For me, it takes 5-7 nights before my body “re-trains” itself to either not get that morning wood or my brain ignores it and I sleep through the night. My cage is titanium and I agree metal slips a bit better on the skin. For the first couple of nights a little moisturizer on ...
by CT_locked
Mon Mar 31, 2025 4:39 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What Role does Chastity play in your life?
Replies: 9
Views: 30331

Re: What Role does Chastity play in your life?

We are an alternate 2. It’s actually not directly sexual for us, but it is emotionally satisfying for me in a few ways to be in chastity with her controlling the release.
by CT_locked
Fri Mar 28, 2025 6:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lump
Replies: 7
Views: 14069

Re: Lump

Nothing like that. But glad you were smart enough to see a doctor. It does sound like your base ring might be too tight.
by CT_locked
Thu Mar 06, 2025 8:13 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is it okay to make deals?
Replies: 15
Views: 40886

Re: Is it okay to make deals?

I agree with the sentiments above. Making chastity a transaction, especially as a quid pro quo for a financial commitment is probably not a good idea in a marriage. BUT, you might have opened up the opportunity for a fantastic discussion. You can say (honestly) that you regret your comment that mixe...
by CT_locked
Thu Jan 30, 2025 9:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How deep does the rabbit hole go?
Replies: 10
Views: 8703

Re: How deep does the rabbit hole go?

@lockedforfun makes a good point and I think he’s right….cuckoldry and sissification points toward the addition of chastity, not the other way around.
by CT_locked
Wed Jan 29, 2025 2:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How deep does the rabbit hole go?
Replies: 10
Views: 8703

Re: How deep does the rabbit hole go?

The rabbit hole only goes as deep as you want it to. I agree that if you read what’s online it sure seems like it ends up with cuckoldry and sissification, but remember, the people who post online are not a “representative sample” of the chastity enjoying population. Much of it is fantasy, either wr...
by CT_locked
Wed Dec 11, 2024 4:24 pm
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish
Replies: 127
Views: 1232128

Re: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish

Sounds fun. I have kinks. Please add me too.