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by SteveOD
Sat Nov 28, 2020 1:52 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked up again.
Replies: 0
Views: 311
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Locked up again.

I updated my original post to reflect that I am once again locked up 24/7 due to my wife's desire to control me via my orgasms when she realized I could jerk off easily if I wanted to. I cannot jerk off when locked because after 10 years of 24/7 lockup it takes me a very long time to cum when I jerk...
by SteveOD
Sun Nov 22, 2020 10:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Have to give up chastity
Replies: 12
Views: 1061
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Have to give up chastity

Update. My wife found out that I was jerking off and realized that she lost control over me since I could orgasms whenever I wanted to. She also noticed my lack of libido and desire for her sexually which she misses. So I am locked up again. She will release me during sex. Saw the surgeon and my doc...
by SteveOD
Fri Nov 20, 2020 11:05 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First day wearing cage
Replies: 4
Views: 767
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Re: First day wearing cage

Good for you. I cringe and red flags go off when I read about a guy wearing a chastity cage for the first time and doing it 24/7. Not a good idea at all. What you need to do is wear it a little longer each day. What I did was wear it until it became uncomfortable. Then I wore it that long until it n...
by SteveOD
Fri Nov 20, 2020 10:40 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity challenges?
Replies: 5
Views: 818
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Re: Chastity challenges?

He can compete with me, I just stared my 11th year locked 24/7. It is called the taking a fetish too far competition. Actually chastity should not be viewed as a game. It is a power exchanger between you and him in which you decided when he an orgasm, not anyone else or dice or games. He should stay...
by SteveOD
Thu Nov 19, 2020 10:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Having another go
Replies: 6
Views: 670
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Re: Having another go

It took us three attempts before we made it our sexual lifestyle for the next 10 years. As my wife got used to sex without me orgasming every time my orgasm denial periods increased to the point where in the 10 year, I only had one. Next step was permanent orgasm denial and my wife is dead serious a...
by SteveOD
Thu Nov 19, 2020 9:50 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Advice on an alternative to the most popular cage
Replies: 10
Views: 1123
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Re: Advice on an alternative to the most popular cage

After spending over $400 buying all the popular cages at the time, I still did not find one I could wear 24/7 for years at a time. So I bit the bullet and got a custom Jailbird cage from Mature Metal. They made it so that it fit like a glove and will accommodate an uncut penis. Wore it 24/7 for 7 ye...
by SteveOD
Thu Nov 19, 2020 9:44 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Looking for best durable alternative for cb6000s
Replies: 9
Views: 691
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Re: Looking for best durable alternative for cb6000s

I started with the CB2000 and it broke twice. Was told that it really is not for 24/7 full time use. Then I bought all the popular brands sold off the shelf and none worked for me. Too heavy, not a good fit, smallest cage was still too large for me, etc. Spent about $400 on off the shelf cages. Then...
by SteveOD
Thu Nov 19, 2020 9:30 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Cylinder Lock Jammed by Corrosion - Evotion Orion
Replies: 9
Views: 627
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Re: Cylinder Lock Jammed by Corrosion - Evotion Orion

I had one beak. The cylinder turned but not the end which held it in place. Luckily it was an open design and I could stick a screwdriver under the end piece and force it up. For this reason I only use a padlock from now on. As Tom suggested, buy one of the German ones. I did, but still do not trust...
by SteveOD
Wed Nov 18, 2020 10:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Big down after
Replies: 14
Views: 1725
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Re: The Big down after

I have always preferred not to orgasm for the same reasons as you. Just not worth the 10 seconds of pleasure followed by boredom, low energy, irritable and generally wishing I did not cum. Funny that it was my wife who wanted me to cum because she felt is was an indication of how sexually desirable ...
by SteveOD
Wed Nov 18, 2020 9:58 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix
Replies: 66
Views: 11165
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Re: The Permanent Chastity/Denial Matrix

You can try a simple:

U - unlocked at times
N- never unlocked except for medical and travel
O - get some orgasms
D - Denied orgasms

I would be ND. Simple without going into levels and degrees of locking or orgasms.