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When my SL put me in a ball gag for the first time today, I realized I wouldn't be able to speak my safe word if needed. I gesticulated for her to take it off, and after she did explained that I should have a safe gesture. "How about I tap the top of my head 3 times?" "What makes you think your hand...

Fun, long session today. We seem to regularly go from 9am - sometime after 12pm now (much of that for breakfast in bed and a long foot rub). I won't go through all the details. Just want to record for my journey tracking that today was the first day ever that I was ball gagged. As we transitioned fr...

I've never heard that a foot massage is an American thing, @timmyboy38, but may be. It certainly has become standard in our household: every Sunday morning without fail.

We had a lovely, long play session today. When I count the nearly two hours of prep time for me (toilet, shower, shave, feed cats, anal douching, prepare breakfast to serve in bed) it was a full five hours — as SL pointed out, the weekly foot rub now often last close to 90 minutes. Today was a more ...

9 January 2021 I've been quite frustrated and rather unhappy for the past week. Same problem that afflicted me last spring / summer, though it really hasn't lasted very long thus far. Yet, I've been quite down about it. It's the lack of attention, or lack of generosity by SL in attending to my sexua...

[Warning: wall of text] Well, got my wish for (day after) Xmas (and didn't ask for it or hint in any way. Christmas Eve, at bedtime, the drought was over: she turned off her book, took off her glasses, and silently pointed to my spot on the floor. I hopped up, scurried over, got on my knees, and gle...

Quoting a participant in another forum: "As long as there is a lot intimacy, orgasms aren’t a huge deal. An hour of fun with a numb penis and lots of play is way better than 2 minutes of fun and an orgasm." Agreed. I just wish SL would be more generous with play in both directions. Our regular weeke...

I *am* lucky. It's been a slow journey, patience along the way, and still very much a journey. She's only pegged me thrice in the past 12 months (this was the first time with the big Outlaw).

That was something. I reminded SL yesterday (gently, in appropriate reference to a conversation we had about her earlier) that I would like her to peg me with our new Vixskin, the 10" Outlaw. Sure enough, this morning, after breakfast in bed and a long foot massage, she told me to strap *her* on. I ...

Yesterday was first day in my new custom MCN Contender cage.  I'm a grower with a lot of variation in my flaccid size.  The Contender ive worn nearly two years was completely comfortable, but much of the time had too much room, and it allowed me to get a bit more firm (though several inches away fro...