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Very special Valentine's. Off-site meeting ended early, came home early. Took an hour nap next to sweetie. We cuddled and kissed after, but then she abruptly pulled away, she said she wanted to tease me. "Apparently that's what you like." Dinner at a gourmet Peruvian restaurant. Presents at home aft...

I can believe that. She has an extremely sensitive (good) g-spot and stimulating that drives her wild. We accordingly use positions that maximize P contact with the g-spot -- a good sized barbell seems like it would add to that. (Indeed, her 2nd favorite toy is the Njoy, which is essentially a *real...

A few days ago my wife said in no uncertain terms that I had better never get a tongue piercing. (I have 4 ear piercings, and both nipples.) She said she could think of nothing worse. I laughed and said that I would have thought she'd object more to a dick piercing. I was surprised, and intrigued th...

Tom is probably our most experienced and expert person, so I'm loathe to offer different advice, but personally I've had better (indeed, very good) luck with baby oil gel. Last longer and is more slippery than lotion. (As I recall Tom is concerned, perhaps reasonably, about oil creating a better env...

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The flaccid penis is very squishable without discomfort so a shorter cage is fine when you’re flaccid. And if it prevents the shaft that is inside the cage from erecting, then you can reduce the ball tug discomfort too.

Upon seeing my new Contender (which has a very open cage): “Oh good, now I can really tease you!”

Wonderful, wonderful news. Welcome home to Kitten!

If your wife is anything like mine don't bother! My best estimate is that I won't get to use half of them out of the cage before they expire. And I'm not about to use them as she suggested! :lol: Not so simple -- she expects me to be ready at least for our regular Sunday morning playtime...whether ...

It sounds like you're experiencing the dreaded ring chafing when a wannabe erection pushes the cage forward. Have you tried lubing (e.g., with baby oil gel or vaseline)? From following threads here, it doesn't seem that any ball trap device avoids the problem you're describing, it's just a question ...