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22 May 2025 Not a long entry this time - the sex was wonderful but not inspiring me to write. But I need to record the event. At 11am SL texted me: “Sexy time 4pm. Your streak ends today.” Moved our Sunday standing date because her best friend arrives tomorrow and is staying through the weekend. And...

2 March 2025 Not sure why I stopped journaling more regularly. Perhaps because things have been moving forward steadily and happily in my intimacy relationship with my wife: no dramatic developments, but positive growth and lots of fun. The “news” as of 2 March is that my longest orgasm denial spell...

Book "club" has been working great for us, Tongue+groove . It gives us a regular topic to discuss during footrub, and has been improving our ability to have intimate conversations on vulnerable topics (in part because we're talking about "a third thing" -- that is, not just "...

I wrote a friend about this morning’s surprising turn of events. Here’s what I wrote to him: “We started a new book for our Sunday morning book club: at SL’s request, *Femdom for Nice Girls*. No complaints from me! Good conversation today on the intro and first chapter - got us talking about some of...

Another amazing morning. We read the last chapter of Nagoski’s book (*Come Together*) which was about experiencing erotic ecstasy (she calls it “the magic trick”; she means something transcendent, well beyond “mere” sexual pleasure. We both thought the chapter a bit woo-woo, though we recognize that...

30 Nov 2024 Another Saturday session (Sunday conflict). Yesterday was travel day (return from Thanksgiving week with son A and his family), and SL was too tired to read a chapter of Nagoski's, so no book club … instead we answered a few questions from the “Our Moments” card deck. (I was a wee bit di...

(Catch up post) 23 Nov 2024 Had a wonderful, and even longer than usual time together this morning (9am - 1:30pm!). Long and interesting conversation about the next to last chapter of Emily Nagoski’s new book, *Come Together.* When we got down and dirty, SL immediately had me uncage, then started of...

3 Nov 2024 Today’s Sunday playtime was different! Same initial routine: I got up to shower, shave, and prepare breakfast in bed (today baked a Sticky Lemon Curd and Blueberry Bread). Then gave my SL the usual 80 minute or so footrub, during which we had “book club” (today talking about chapter 10 in...

20 October 2024 We’re in Ann Arbor for the annual company bbq. SL has brunch at 11.30 with a friend, it wanted an abbreviated Sunday sexytime. I brought breakfast up from the hotel coffee shop, wake up kiss (oral), then gave her a shortened foot rub. Then a lovely romp … with me uncaged. Brief bj to...

9 Aug 2024 SL seems to be growing further into embracing and asserting her sexuality ... and controlling mine. We kept our granddaughter (whom we’re caring for while her parents vacation in Germany) home from childcare all this week so we could have all the time with her, but SL wanted to bring her ...