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by Xileh
Mon Apr 27, 2020 7:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Keys left out. Should thisbe upsetting me?
Replies: 16
Views: 4612

Re: Keys left out. Should thisbe upsetting me?

It would help us respond if you told us what you hope to get out of chastity, and what she gets out of it.
by Xileh
Sun Apr 26, 2020 10:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How much, on how many, and over how long?
Replies: 31
Views: 7115

Re: How much, on how many, and over how long?

About $350. An MCN Contender and an A272.
by Xileh
Mon Apr 20, 2020 8:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Irritation problems with chastity
Replies: 7
Views: 1923

Re: Irritation problems with chastity

I would second the opinion on an open stainless steel cage. They are much easier to keep clean. If you try a Chinese device, make sure it is true stainless steel. Some are chrome plated and should be avoided. With a good fitting cage, you should be able to wear it indefinitely. I guess that is a goo...
by Xileh
Mon Nov 18, 2019 10:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Massages - deep tissue / sport
Replies: 5
Views: 1614

Re: Massages - deep tissue / sport

I get massages monthly and am always caged. I do wear briefs. There was one time she firmly brushed against it and I doubt she missed it. It hasn’t changed anything as far as I can tell.
by Xileh
Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:56 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Caged while riding a Motorcycle
Replies: 9
Views: 2021

Re: Caged while riding a Motorcycle

I think it will depend greatly on the type of riding you do. Are you riding on a cruiser, or a more aggressive, bent forward style like a sport bike? Additionally, as a veteran of many 1000 mile days, completely removing my Aerostich for bathroom breaks every 200 miles would be a royal pain and a ti...
by Xileh
Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Least threatening (male) devices to vanilla women
Replies: 7
Views: 1804

Re: Least threatening (male) devices to vanilla women

We have a MCN cage, and an A272 tube style device. She prefers the MCN cage. She likes seeing me extruding through the bars, and she likes to push her finger tips through the bars to play with the animal inside. It took a while for her to get used to seeing it. Then she decided she liked it.
by Xileh
Wed Sep 11, 2019 8:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Consent & Sensibility, or Is chastity all in your head?
Replies: 13
Views: 3133

Re: Consent & Sensibility, or Is chastity all in your head?

Tom, your posts are often thought provoking and as usual, spot on. I view the chastity device as a symbol of transferring power to my wife. She enjoys the control and for her, it has been transformative. As I wear the device, and she exercises and expands her control, there is a great deal of trust ...
by Xileh
Wed May 08, 2019 2:19 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot dildo sex
Replies: 16
Views: 5425

Re: Hot dildo sex

We use a SpareParts Deuce harness and a Vixen Maverick. Wow. My cage fits nicely in the pouch. As mentioned above, I warm it in hot water in advance, use plenty of warmed lube, and keep a towel nearby to wipe my hands before proceeding. With a large dildo, I warm her up with a few O’s first. She lov...
by Xileh
Tue Apr 16, 2019 9:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 38
Views: 7743

Re: Matrix of chastity

I guess I started thinking in very general terms when I saw some discussions on the use of the term "permanent chastity," and how some people were disagreeing on it. "Permanent" requires some personal definition of the "foreseeable future." For many, the future is a week out when the next paycheck ...
by Xileh
Tue Jan 29, 2019 12:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 716
Views: 295749

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

Can you give us a link to the particular unit ? The harness is a SpareParts Deuce, the dildo a Vixskin Mustang. A high quality combination. The harness is great. It is very comfortable, cradling your cage safely in a pouch. The straps are soft and do not loosen during use. The dildo is securely hel...