Chastity Forums

I would second the opinion on an open stainless steel cage. They are much easier to keep clean. If you try a Chinese device, make sure it is true stainless steel. Some are chrome plated and should be avoided. With a good fitting cage, you should be able to wear it indefinitely. I guess that is a goo...

I get massages monthly and am always caged. I do wear briefs. There was one time she firmly brushed against it and I doubt she missed it. It hasn’t changed anything as far as I can tell.

I think it will depend greatly on the type of riding you do. Are you riding on a cruiser, or a more aggressive, bent forward style like a sport bike? Additionally, as a veteran of many 1000 mile days, completely removing my Aerostich for bathroom breaks every 200 miles would be a royal pain and a ti...

We have a MCN cage, and an A272 tube style device. She prefers the MCN cage. She likes seeing me extruding through the bars, and she likes to push her finger tips through the bars to play with the animal inside. It took a while for her to get used to seeing it. Then she decided she liked it.

Tom, your posts are often thought provoking and as usual, spot on. I view the chastity device as a symbol of transferring power to my wife. She enjoys the control and for her, it has been transformative. As I wear the device, and she exercises and expands her control, there is a great deal of trust ...

We use a SpareParts Deuce harness and a Vixen Maverick. Wow. My cage fits nicely in the pouch. As mentioned above, I warm it in hot water in advance, use plenty of warmed lube, and keep a towel nearby to wipe my hands before proceeding. With a large dildo, I warm her up with a few O’s first. She lov...

I guess I started thinking in very general terms when I saw some discussions on the use of the term "permanent chastity," and how some people were disagreeing on it. "Permanent" requires some personal definition of the "foreseeable future." For many, the future is a we...

Can you give us a link to the particular unit ? The harness is a SpareParts Deuce, the dildo a Vixskin Mustang. A high quality combination. The harness is great. It is very comfortable, cradling your cage safely in a pouch. The straps are soft and do not loosen during use. The dildo is securely hel...

A while ago, I proposed buying a strapon for me to wear while locked up. The reason being, she wouldn't be denied, and would be able to totally relax and be selfish about her pleasure. I mentioned that one review for the harness/dildo combination I looked at, written by a woman, said that after tryi...

After a while, even an allowed 'full' orgasms seems to feel as though it is mostly 'ruined', and if the cage is replaced immediately after there is little or no 'drop' and by the next day I feel like I'm just as horny as I was before. I discovered this too. The last time she let me out to play, she...