Chastity Forums

> My wife loves to be penetrated by me, a dildo doesn’t feel the same, but I feel it is too much of a privilege to enjoy too often Hmm. So - who’s in charge? You are, or she is? If she is, and she likes PiV, then that’s what she gets. If you are in charge, the equation changes. If you’re both equall...

chaste_cock , it sounds like you both are well on your way! I get the concern about your dick being bent. In practical terms, you could try a device that anchors through a PA piercing and doesn’t bend. Evotion makes these as does steelwerks in Canada. Steelwerks is really expensive; evotion more af...

Good question, chaste_cock ! I’d start with what dominance and submission mean for you two. A common and easy answer is “the Dominant knows what he wants, and demands it without shame; the submissive adheres to the wishes of the Dominant”. There are degrees to this though, how far the “slant” in the...

Welcome Ruined1 ! You haven’t found the world of chastity, but a very small subset of it: Focused on “how this works” with job, kids, marriage, exercise, flight travel, etc. I’d offer a language-of-choice section of the forum, but we are so small here I am pretty certain it wouldn’t sustain itself. ...

I like it, but while my partner loves the look of it, it comes out for sex as it can be painful for her. I don't really get that much extra pleasure (if any) when its in and I'm in.... I got it with one eye on getting a PA chastity device, but now have the fear that there would be some sort of acci...

@Excited+Scared1 , are you looking to keep a blog? We can move these messages to the Journal portion of the forum, where you can keep your posts together.

Welcome @bluerhombus . You’re not alone. Not a whole lot of gay folk on this forum, and, we’re definitely present.

> I am still a man and the desire to cum is ingrained in our genes. That can be handled. It’s taking us a long time because we’re feeling our way along, and, it’s doable. I still desire orgasm. Of course I do. This play wouldn’t be any fun if I didn’t, either. That said, not having a device does mak...

Good idea @Ircane. You may find that your piercing isn't comfortable for securing a chastity device until it's had time to heal and been stretched to 6ga and that had time to heal. The greater the surface area of the jewelry, the more comfortable it is.

Welcome to the forums, and congratulations!

What gauge will that initial piercing be at?