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Good idea @Ircane. You may find that your piercing isn't comfortable for securing a chastity device until it's had time to heal and been stretched to 6ga and that had time to heal. The greater the surface area of the jewelry, the more comfortable it is.

Welcome to the forums, and congratulations!

What gauge will that initial piercing be at?

Hey @janus_lead , welcome! No doubt you can find fellow gearheads

does it simply come down to having to mentally control my excitement? The amazing abilities of some Swamis notwithstanding, erections are involuntary. And also a normal part of your nightly "dick maintenance / repair routine" that your body runs. You can't avoid erections - you can control how your...

> The first of these is orgasm denial to varying degrees, otherwise the term "chastity" would be inapplicable and we'd be calling ourselves something else. I actually think it’s hilarious that the kink is called “chastity”, when the behavior is anything but chaste. I’m cool with it, I just think it’...

Good point, and —- denial of what? Genital pleasure? Orgasm? Which is to say, that also varies.

I may have a “dimension” to add: frequency of genital stimulation / teasing. Is the couple looking to give the denied party genital pleasure rarely, or frequently? I’ve read accounts of people who may go weeks or months without genital stimulation. Usually caged. And my own experience is the opposit...

You wrote about control va denial at one point, Tom, and what you wrote then made sense to me: Control involves a device, the direct exertion of control; denial may not, here the direct control is in the hands of the denied party, and the kink is about refraining from orgasm regardless. The way you ...

mr_faithful , just a quick note on the PA. A heavy device, such as stainless steel, would irritate the piercing. Something made of synthetics (evotion) or titanium (steelwerks) is light enough that I expect it to be fine, and by many accounts is. I should know firsthand in 2-3 months. It is importa...

Haha, well that’s not very surprising. There are also fewer men with genital piercings than gay ones. “Gay” is an orientation, “born this way”, really nothing people can do about that. Chastity, or piercing ones dick, is very much a choice. Often a heartfelt one that becomes part of identity, and st...