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It took my husband a good long while - I want to say a year of longer - to get over his feeling that he was somehow depriving me if he came, and I didn’t. It just took speaking about my feelings, until he believed it in his core. There were some longer explanations, where I talked about my feeling o...

It can also be about degree of control. As Sky remarked to us at one point: “Why would I use some device when I can have control over his mind?” She got turned on by controlling a partner’s sexual pleasure, but through training and obedience, not a device.

“Anomaly” is harsh lol. An unusual participant, hows that.

If you want something truly gorgeous and money is not an issue: Steelwerks Extreme in Canada. For example this creature cage at https://mobile.twitter.com/steelwerks/status/994383554233667584 or the Crucible reviewed at https://thedrewduality.com/2018/03/20/the-forever-penis-the-steelwerks-crucible-...

That’s really affectionate, and hot. Love it! I may steal that.

A phrase comes to mind that Joshua says a lot: “It’s not service when your partner doesn’t want it.” She doesn’t want a cage. I like that she’s very clear about that. Moreover, she’s clear about what she does want. That’s great, you have something there! Stating “this is what I want”, with an expect...

Good luck!

Honor system definitely works. It took me about 4 years to be able to keep my word reasonably successfully. The lessons learned along the way were good, I think this can be done much faster. It’s definitely a journey.

How do people with innie genitalia lock? Mostly involving multiple piercings through the labia majora it seems. Nothing easy or inexpensive here. I’ve seen some examples from Steelwerks in Canada and love them. Gives me cunt envy - I want one of those, and one of these :). 2016 creature cage: https:...

I highly recommend a piercing. I would, of course :). Not only does it make the chastity quite secure, it also adds pleasure for your wife - after a while that is. That’s about a larger gauge (2ga) with larger end balls and a curved barbell, which adds sensation for the receiving partner. While a PA...

Welcome @ marmion . You will find a welcoming community here to discuss your interests. We are not a dating site at all. I think you’d be the first woman on the site who wants a chastity device for herself. That said, we can definitely share what we know. I’ve seen some gorgeous work by the Canadian...