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by Schnoff
Tue Mar 19, 2019 8:19 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 3904
Views: 654180
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Good idea @Ircane. You may find that your piercing isn't comfortable for securing a chastity device until it's had time to heal and been stretched to 6ga and that had time to heal. The greater the surface area of the jewelry, the more comfortable it is.
by Schnoff
Mon Mar 18, 2019 2:49 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 3904
Views: 654180
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Welcome to the forums, and congratulations!

What gauge will that initial piercing be at?
by Schnoff
Sat Mar 16, 2019 8:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 3904
Views: 654180
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Hey @janus_lead , welcome! No doubt you can find fellow gearheads :)
by Schnoff
Fri Mar 15, 2019 1:43 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: FULL CIRCLE BACK TO HOLYTRAINER
Replies: 7
Views: 473
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Re: FULL CIRCLE BACK TO HOLYTRAINER

does it simply come down to having to mentally control my excitement? The amazing abilities of some Swamis notwithstanding, erections are involuntary. And also a normal part of your nightly "dick maintenance / repair routine" that your body runs. You can't avoid erections - you can control how your...
by Schnoff
Sat Mar 09, 2019 11:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 950
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Re: Matrix of chastity

> The first of these is orgasm denial to varying degrees, otherwise the term "chastity" would be inapplicable and we'd be calling ourselves something else. I actually think it’s hilarious that the kink is called “chastity”, when the behavior is anything but chaste. I’m cool with it, I just think it’...
by Schnoff
Thu Mar 07, 2019 1:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 950
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Re: Matrix of chastity

Good point, and —- denial of what? Genital pleasure? Orgasm? Which is to say, that also varies.
by Schnoff
Wed Mar 06, 2019 6:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 950
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Re: Matrix of chastity

I may have a “dimension” to add: frequency of genital stimulation / teasing. Is the couple looking to give the denied party genital pleasure rarely, or frequently? I’ve read accounts of people who may go weeks or months without genital stimulation. Usually caged. And my own experience is the opposit...
by Schnoff
Wed Mar 06, 2019 6:22 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 22
Views: 950
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Re: Matrix of chastity

You wrote about control va denial at one point, Tom, and what you wrote then made sense to me: Control involves a device, the direct exertion of control; denial may not, here the direct control is in the hands of the denied party, and the kink is about refraining from orgasm regardless. The way you ...
by Schnoff
Mon Feb 25, 2019 3:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Them and Us
Replies: 9
Views: 617
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Re: Them and Us

mr_faithful , just a quick note on the PA. A heavy device, such as stainless steel, would irritate the piercing. Something made of synthetics (evotion) or titanium (steelwerks) is light enough that I expect it to be fine, and by many accounts is. I should know firsthand in 2-3 months. It is importa...
by Schnoff
Mon Feb 25, 2019 3:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What % of men are into chastity? Anybody got sales figures?
Replies: 24
Views: 2201
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Re: What % of men are into chastity? Anybody got sales figures?

Haha, well that’s not very surprising. There are also fewer men with genital piercings than gay ones. “Gay” is an orientation, “born this way”, really nothing people can do about that. Chastity, or piercing ones dick, is very much a choice. Often a heartfelt one that becomes part of identity, and st...