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by Schnoff
Sat Sep 21, 2019 4:02 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [noob] On my way I hope.
Replies: 5
Views: 162
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Re: [noob] On my way I hope.

It took my husband a good long while - I want to say a year of longer - to get over his feeling that he was somehow depriving me if he came, and I didn’t. It just took speaking about my feelings, until he believed it in his core. There were some longer explanations, where I talked about my feeling o...
by Schnoff
Fri Sep 20, 2019 6:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: And it ends...
Replies: 5
Views: 347
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Re: And it ends...

It can also be about degree of control. As Sky remarked to us at one point: “Why would I use some device when I can have control over his mind?” She got turned on by controlling a partner’s sexual pleasure, but through training and obedience, not a device.
by Schnoff
Fri Sep 20, 2019 5:09 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 4115
Views: 752730
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Re: "Hello world" thread

“Anomaly” is harsh lol. An unusual participant, hows that.
by Schnoff
Fri Sep 20, 2019 7:44 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Looking for a custom stainless steel cage
Replies: 3
Views: 68
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Re: Looking for a custom stainless steel cage

If you want something truly gorgeous and money is not an issue: Steelwerks Extreme in Canada. For example this creature cage at https://mobile.twitter.com/steelwerks/status/994383554233667584 or the Crucible reviewed at https://thedrewduality.com/2018/03/20/the-forever-penis-the-steelwerks-crucible-...
by Schnoff
Thu Sep 19, 2019 10:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Mantra
Replies: 1
Views: 62
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Re: Mantra

That’s really affectionate, and hot. Love it! I may steal that.
by Schnoff
Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:09 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!
Replies: 117
Views: 36950
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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

A phrase comes to mind that Joshua says a lot: “It’s not service when your partner doesn’t want it.” She doesn’t want a cage. I like that she’s very clear about that. Moreover, she’s clear about what she does want. That’s great, you have something there! Stating “this is what I want”, with an expect...
by Schnoff
Thu Sep 19, 2019 4:03 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [noob] On my way I hope.
Replies: 5
Views: 162
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Re: [noob] On my way I hope.

Good luck!

Honor system definitely works. It took me about 4 years to be able to keep my word reasonably successfully. The lessons learned along the way were good, I think this can be done much faster. It’s definitely a journey.
by Schnoff
Thu Sep 19, 2019 3:44 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Female chastity devices
Replies: 0
Views: 94
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Female chastity devices

How do people with innie genitalia lock? Mostly involving multiple piercings through the labia majora it seems. Nothing easy or inexpensive here. I’ve seen some examples from Steelwerks in Canada and love them. Gives me cunt envy - I want one of those, and one of these :). 2016 creature cage: https:...
by Schnoff
Thu Sep 19, 2019 3:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How secure can it get ??
Replies: 22
Views: 826
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Re: How secure can it get ??

I highly recommend a piercing. I would, of course :). Not only does it make the chastity quite secure, it also adds pleasure for your wife - after a while that is. That’s about a larger gauge (2ga) with larger end balls and a curved barbell, which adds sensation for the receiving partner. While a PA...
by Schnoff
Thu Sep 19, 2019 12:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 4115
Views: 752730
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Welcome @ marmion . You will find a welcoming community here to discuss your interests. We are not a dating site at all. I think you’d be the first woman on the site who wants a chastity device for herself. That said, we can definitely share what we know. I’ve seen some gorgeous work by the Canadian...