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by happilylockedman
Fri Feb 01, 2019 8:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Conflicted
Replies: 6
Views: 514

Re: Conflicted

This story is developing. This afternoon I took a shower, removed the cage and found that I had considerable abrasion under the base ring. I decided to not put the cage back on. My wife and I had to run an errand and while in the car I told her about my current state. She reached over to "confirm fo...
by happilylockedman
Fri Feb 01, 2019 8:40 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Conflicted
Replies: 6
Views: 514

Re: Conflicted

- It's more satisfying for me to play with and excite my wife than to be the recipient of her attention. - My erections are unreliable. When I wilt during sexual activity I feel disappointed and ashamed. My wife says it doesn't bother her but it bothers me. - When I initiate sex play and I'm in chas...
by happilylockedman
Mon Jan 28, 2019 8:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: A Chastity Lesson for Me
Replies: 2
Views: 455

A Chastity Lesson for Me

Sunday morning at around 5 AM I awoke with a raging hard on. The pull of the ring on my balls was really painful and lay in bed going back and forth between "It'll go down soon" and "I can just unlock the cage". Unlocking the cage won. I unlocked with the key that I use when I'm showering and off po...
by happilylockedman
Sat Jan 26, 2019 9:01 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Teetering on the edge of Resentment
Replies: 7
Views: 384

Re: Teetering on the edge of Resentment

Thank you all again for your responses. Last night she and I had another wonderful conversation. I realized that I need very frequent physical sexual intimacy to reaffirm our closeness. Her occasional loving touch isn't enough for me; I need the exchange of sexual energy. Even more precisely, I need...
by happilylockedman
Fri Jan 25, 2019 6:39 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Teetering on the edge of Resentment
Replies: 7
Views: 384

Re: Teetering on the edge of Resentment

Thank you both, Slave D and KBT, I actually do an amazing amount of the housework; not in a F/m kind of way but just because I do all of the cooking, most of the dish washing, almost all of the food shopping, frequent massages, etc. I don't mind doing these things and I know that they are appreciate...
by happilylockedman
Fri Jan 25, 2019 3:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Teetering on the edge of Resentment
Replies: 7
Views: 384

Teetering on the edge of Resentment

Maybe I'm high maintenance. My wife has fairly long cycles of not being particularly interested in sexual play and then short periods of more active desire. When she's just going about her business and not responding to my discreet caresses or grabbing my chaste cock or anything I start to feel negl...
by happilylockedman
Wed Jan 23, 2019 4:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Masturbation while Caged
Replies: 7
Views: 649

Re: Masturbation while Caged

My KH isn't exactly a KH. by that I mean that she has a key that she wears sometimes but I have a key as well, which I use when I'm taking a shower. All things being equal she would just as soon have me not in chastity but she accepts it as something that I want because I need it. Disciplining me is...
by happilylockedman
Wed Jan 23, 2019 7:30 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Masturbation while Caged
Replies: 7
Views: 649

Masturbation while Caged

I wear the cage virtually 24/7. I remove it in the shower to wash and put it back on while still in the shower. On the rare periods of time that I'm not caged my urges to masturbate to orgasm are difficult to resist. One of the benefits of the cage for me is not being able to cum. But I still play w...
by happilylockedman
Tue Jan 22, 2019 10:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Post Orgasm Blues
Replies: 16
Views: 739

Re: Post Orgasm Blues

FuzzyDunlop, Those are wise words.
by happilylockedman
Tue Jan 22, 2019 12:59 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity, Laps and Kids
Replies: 6
Views: 536

Re: Chastity, Laps and Kids

Lady M, Could you write more about what happened when your daughter found the cage?

How old was she? How old is she now? What was said then? Do you and your husband speak with her about your current activities?

Thanks