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That’s awesome. I want to be somewhere between Hard and Flirty.

... and that’s a dirty sentence.

I like where Steve2059 went with it. It’s similar to my feelings on it. I think of my sex life (and all of my desires and processes) as one sheet of paper that exists by itself. It is always there. Sometimes, another sheet gets laid in top, called denial. The first sheet shod still be there, but und...

That’s funny. I was going to suggest someone should start a website. How naive of me to not realize someone would’ve already. It’s 2018. It’s all out there...

I can say that on my JB, the security screw has never come loose. Five to seven days, non-stop 24/7 wear, and I find it completely seated when I go to remove it. I don’t know why, but it was just never a problem for me. I had an extra bar added, and I found that when I was being teased, I swelled so...

Thumper eventually got a UTI, and that changed his opinion. He was miserable, and re-assessed his risk vs. reward paradygm. Also, the inserts that are plastic tube with the metal end pieces ... those metal end pieces are threaded into the plastic tube. While there’s a 90% chance of nothing happening...

Every penis is different from every other penis. Even better, your penis is different at 8AM vs 2PM vs 8PM. There is absolutely no chastity device that works for every penis. This ... hobby? fetish? lifestyle? ... can become expensive quickly. My personal experience says that you should measure as b...

Thank you all, and also the number of private messages I’ve received. This is a great, supportive and caring community. There is a long standing issue in my marriage, unrelated to denial and chastity. It’s something I’ve tried unsuccessfully to address in the past. I thought I could ignore it. Denia...

Something has gone very wrong ...

Thank you all. I think Chapter Two has ended. When I’m further away from this, maybe I’ll be able to collate my thoughts and emotions into something I can write about.

Right now, I’m just very sad.

“You see, I need a locking cage to keep the rabbits away from my very small carrot. Yes, there’s just one carrot...”

A couple or more years ago, during a denial period in our sex life, my wife was out of town for an evening, and texted me sexy instructions to tease myself. Nothing intricate, just “take it off”, do this many edges, edges again, put it back on. For years, I’ve wished she would do that again. For a f...