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Confirmed last night, I’m still under control. Fun entanglement, giving her an orgasm, and I was “denied”. (I didn’t want to have an orgasm, obviously, lol.) Two orgasms in a row definitely dropped me out of the mood this week, but I made a conscious effort to not withdraw, to find those moments tha...

I briefly looked at the one designated as small. The open design like that is great for long term wear, as it’s very easy to keep yourself clean. One of my experiment cages was a similar open bar design, and had a wide gap between the front two bars. In one exciting moment, I grew longer before I gr...

I was caged until after the party, late evening. Then we laid down together, she told me to take it off because she wanted to have sex, and she wanted me to orgasm. She made it clear that even though she was going to let me, I still had to wait until she actually gave me permission. She then spent a...

Hot things your keyholder has said : We were cooking together Sunday night, and she was telling me about this upcoming Saturday. We had plans to have a couple over for the afternoon and dinner, and through a rather long story, it’s now something like ten people. There were details about who was brin...

On the 10th, that night after I made that last post, we were entangled and she let me orgasm. It had only been about a week, and a couple of caged days in there, but it was a good time, good evening, good surroundings on vacation, etc. She made it clear that it was one and done, and I was still unde...

At the end of February, beginning of March, a problem arose in our relationship that resulted in a long discussion of where we were at, and how we felt about it. I hadn’t wanted to bring up one year of no teases initiated by her, and eighteen months since the last time she had told me to put the cag...

Although, I must say, the conversation following the original post is always good for a re-read. And a reminder, in every aspect of life, to take the small extra effort to do something correctly.

I am not a medical expert. I get the appeal of an insertable tube to help keep things in place, but nothing will convince me that they are safe for long term wear. I always remember reading about Thumper’s experience. At first, he thought the idea was very, very exciting. He justified it by saying ...

I have a “dp” harness like the one pictured. Worked really well for me. When I’m caged, I can’t get balls and cage through the hole, only the cage, but that will be based on sizes (the hole and you).

I say “dp” harness, as it’s designed for using two dildos at once. Have never tried it for that, lol.

I can’t set a goal like that. If I know the cage isn’t coming off, if I know there’s no chance of an orgasm at whatever moment, it isn’t exciting for me, it’s just depressing. There needs to be a “it could happen at any moment” aspect, or I become withdrawn and defensive. But I did count, when she w...