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by Jon Descer
Sun Sep 08, 2019 8:20 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ideas for Single Man in Chastity?
Replies: 2
Views: 287

Re: Ideas for Single Man in Chastity?

Thanks for the response. Thing is, I'm not talking about how long to be locked up; outside of the need to remove the device to clean once a week (it's a very closed device, I don't have much choice), I have worked up to going weeks and weeks without orgasm just fine. That's actually my dilemma; it's...
by Jon Descer
Fri Sep 06, 2019 9:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Struggling with some feelings
Replies: 12
Views: 736

Re: Struggling with some feelings

With some of the other kink stuff that hes wanting to do I'm having a really hard time coping. I feel overwhelmed, ashamed of him and disgusted by him, which makes me feel ashamed of myself and absolutely disgusted with myself and honestly hate myself. Maybe you should reconsider whether you were a...
by Jon Descer
Wed Sep 04, 2019 4:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ideas for Single Man in Chastity?
Replies: 2
Views: 287

Ideas for Single Man in Chastity?

Hi! So I've gotten really used to my chastity belt, finally got one that works wonders (the Halfshell). I've been wearing it for months on end except to take it off once a week to clean it, a little play time, usually without orgasm if I have the willpower. I am enjoying it. But, being single, I don...
by Jon Descer
Wed Sep 04, 2019 4:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Struggling with some feelings
Replies: 12
Views: 736

Re: Struggling with some feelings

As a person who has gone to therapy for troublesome thoughts from my own childhood, I would recommend talking to a professional. Doesn't mean your crazy, they can just help you figure out exactly what you're feeling and why, and help you put it in context and work through it. You don't have to take ...
by Jon Descer
Wed Aug 14, 2019 10:07 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Got your HeartOn?
Replies: 6
Views: 441

Re: Got your HeartOn?

I can't imagine how uncomfortable it feels when everything is locked in solid, unbreathable plastic, dripping in sweat.
by Jon Descer
Tue Aug 06, 2019 10:25 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: How does the body adapt?
Replies: 18
Views: 3237

Re: How does the body adapt?

I have a cage and a separate c-ring of the same diameters; the cage fits great, the ring is too tight and becomes painful with erections. But I think this is normal; the cage itself should keep your excitement under control enough that it's not as big a problem, no pun intended. But no way to know w...
by Jon Descer
Tue Aug 06, 2019 10:10 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: diameter of devices
Replies: 12
Views: 770

Re: diameter of devices

Usually, yes, the advice is to go short and go wide. You do want room to grow out, in order to prevent constriction, and also to make it easier to clean and moisturize. As far as pre-made devices, they probably just go extra wide to ensure it fits the vast majority of men, because there isn't really...
by Jon Descer
Thu Jun 27, 2019 2:07 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Urethral Tube - Will I be incontinent?
Replies: 14
Views: 1963

Re: Urethral Tube - Will I be incontinent?

Probably fine for short term use. Urine itself is a decent inhibitor of bacterial growth, so when you take the tube out and hit the head, you should do a good job of flushing out whatever might have started to grow in there. The problem with long term is precisely that the cleaning is prevented when...
by Jon Descer
Thu Jun 27, 2019 1:58 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Locks operated via computer
Replies: 11
Views: 1526

Re: Locks operated via computer

I remember seeing such a device that hooked directly to a PC. It was a plastic base with a plastic locking hemisphere cover that could hold a key or some other tiny objects. It was exorbitantly expensive however.