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by bondinchas
Sun Aug 18, 2019 12:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Personal Best
Replies: 62
Views: 15531

Re: Personal Best

My personal best is 106 days. That's just over 3 months of being continuously locked, no orgasm, no masturbation, no unlocking at all. I've only managed to do that with my steel cage, for me it's impossible to use a plastic device without having to take it off at least twice a week for cleaning, but...
by bondinchas
Sun Jun 23, 2019 6:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Who puts it on ?
Replies: 32
Views: 5771

Re: Who puts it on ?

I need to cage myself to stand any chance of having junk in working order ... Yes, but why do you need it in working order? You're locked up! :lol: Another vote here for putting my package in myself, and only she touches the key and locks the padlock. But that happens ever less frequently now, you ...
by bondinchas
Sun Jun 23, 2019 5:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 498
Views: 183605

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

My wife, who is otherwise very vanilla and never uses "bedroom talk" gets amused when she sees after I have given her oral that I have swollen inside my cage. When we have finished she now frequently inspects me to see if I am swollen and pushing through the bars of my cage, and delights in saying "...
by bondinchas
Sun Jun 23, 2019 12:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 38
Views: 3947

Re: Matrix of chastity

There's another aspect, that's not quite the same as orgasm denial and emission denial. I've realised it's more important to me than either of those... and that is the need to avoid that "downer" that you get after an orgasm. If my keyholder wife indicates her intent to have PIV, while I have the no...
by bondinchas
Sun Jun 23, 2019 12:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Gay Dom/sub couple looking for unlocking/release goals
Replies: 8
Views: 878

Re: Gay Dom/sub couple looking for unlocking/release goals

My keyholder wife writes lists of jobs for me to do, and there's no unlocking until the list is complete. The problem is, she never actually writes the list down, she keeps adding things to the list, and one item on the list is a weight loss goal that I've had but not been able to achieve for the la...
by bondinchas
Tue Mar 12, 2019 8:50 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Modifying a CB6000s into a CB6000ss
Replies: 19
Views: 10607

Re: Modifying a CB6000s into a CB6000ss

My very first device was a Curve, which of course after getting used to chastity turned out to be much too big. I did the same modification with that, using an epoxy resin adhesive and it worked really well. If a device is too long for you, then it's a good thing to do, multiple times if need be, to...
by bondinchas
Tue Mar 12, 2019 8:22 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Comparison between two custom devices
Replies: 6
Views: 1401

Re: Comparison between two custom devices

Red Chili is in France and Spain.
I have one of their devices and the quality is very good.
Customer Service - very good. Once you order, don't expect contact until they get to your job on their list, so be patient. Once they do, they are thorough and careful to ensure you get the product you want.
by bondinchas
Tue Mar 12, 2019 8:18 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Keeping the padlock quiet
Replies: 8
Views: 1623

Re: Keeping the padlock quiet

Another way to stop the lock moving is to use a small blob of Polymorph heat mouldable plastic to fill the 'rattle gap'. Soften the plastic in hot water and press it between the shackle and cage and it will hold the body of the lock away from the cage so preventing the contact and noise. Alternative...
by bondinchas
Sat Dec 15, 2018 12:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: 100+ days in I've stopped counting. Is there an upper limit?
Replies: 16
Views: 2755

Re: 100+ days in I've stopped counting. Is there an upper limit?

Every now and then my wife asks me what the record time is for someone being kept in chastity...

I just say I've looked in the Guinness Book of Records and it's not in there, I have the fear she might be thinking of setting the benchmark.
by bondinchas
Sun Dec 02, 2018 11:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Condundrum
Replies: 10
Views: 2256

Re: Chastity Condundrum

My wife was quite slow to get actively involved, and for many reasons I didn't want to "top from the bottom". So what to do? In the days when we played with chastity lockups for just a day or two at a time, and I wanted to move towards more long term chastity, what I did first was decide to never br...