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by bondinchas
Thu Aug 20, 2020 8:09 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The night you told her
Replies: 7
Views: 2174

Re: The night you told her

I didn't tell her. I went to bed with it on, and she discovered it under the blankets in the dark. 3 seconds later the light was on, and her eyes were out on stalks! With a huge look of astonishment and amusement. That was a huge clunky old plastic Curve device, 5 or 6 years ago. and now? Well, a co...
by bondinchas
Sun Aug 16, 2020 1:01 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife and device
Replies: 25
Views: 4573

Re: Wife and device

Initially we used plastic cages, and after a few years decided to get a custom stainless steel cage.
My wife's reaction when she saw it on me for the first time...
"Oh, it looks like jewellery!"

Sounded like she definitely preferred it to the plastic which was all she knew before.
by bondinchas
Sun Aug 16, 2020 11:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Security screw loosening?
Replies: 9
Views: 507

Re: Security screw loosening?

You can use some plumber's PTFE tape to stop the screw working loose.
Just wrap a number of turns of tape around the screw, and screw it in.
The advantage of PTFE is while it restricts the thread, it also acts as a lubricant rather than a glue so it ensures you can get the screw out easily again.
by bondinchas
Sun Aug 16, 2020 11:04 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anyone else miss being locked up when their KH lets them out?
Replies: 5
Views: 438

Re: Anyone else miss being locked up when their KH lets them out?

Yes, I get a really strong feeling of wanting to be in the cage again whenever I am let out. It's much stronger and quite a contrast to any rare feeling of wanting to be unlocked while I'm locked up. I often don't think about the cage and am completely unaware of it for days except when I need to pee.
by bondinchas
Sun Aug 16, 2020 10:44 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Emergency keys are important!
Replies: 13
Views: 1921

Re: Emergency keys are important!

If you have a normal padlock on your device, then here is a simple way to break the padlock off. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rl8154zT67I With laminated locks, the action shatters the shackle, with brass locks, put the spanners next to the brass body and the sides of the body will split even easi...
by bondinchas
Sun Aug 18, 2019 12:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Personal Best
Replies: 62
Views: 20765

Re: Personal Best

My personal best is 106 days. That's just over 3 months of being continuously locked, no orgasm, no masturbation, no unlocking at all. I've only managed to do that with my steel cage, for me it's impossible to use a plastic device without having to take it off at least twice a week for cleaning, but...
by bondinchas
Sun Jun 23, 2019 6:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Who puts it on ?
Replies: 37
Views: 11465

Re: Who puts it on ?

I need to cage myself to stand any chance of having junk in working order ... Yes, but why do you need it in working order? You're locked up! :lol: Another vote here for putting my package in myself, and only she touches the key and locks the padlock. But that happens ever less frequently now, you ...
by bondinchas
Sun Jun 23, 2019 5:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 735
Views: 298717

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

My wife, who is otherwise very vanilla and never uses "bedroom talk" gets amused when she sees after I have given her oral that I have swollen inside my cage. When we have finished she now frequently inspects me to see if I am swollen and pushing through the bars of my cage, and delights in saying "...
by bondinchas
Sun Jun 23, 2019 12:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 38
Views: 7776

Re: Matrix of chastity

There's another aspect, that's not quite the same as orgasm denial and emission denial. I've realised it's more important to me than either of those... and that is the need to avoid that "downer" that you get after an orgasm. If my keyholder wife indicates her intent to have PIV, while I have the no...
by bondinchas
Sun Jun 23, 2019 12:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Gay Dom/sub couple looking for unlocking/release goals
Replies: 8
Views: 2070

Re: Gay Dom/sub couple looking for unlocking/release goals

My keyholder wife writes lists of jobs for me to do, and there's no unlocking until the list is complete. The problem is, she never actually writes the list down, she keeps adding things to the list, and one item on the list is a weight loss goal that I've had but not been able to achieve for the la...