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by attentive_husband
Mon Jan 06, 2020 7:27 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [attentive_husband] And I've started the journey
Replies: 47
Views: 24929

Re: [attentive_husband] And I've started the journey

Ok, I screwed up telling her I didn't want to cum. That's her decision, not mine. So I apologized to her and said over the weekend it was going to be 100% what she wanted. This was scary. I was worried that I was going to have to watch 6 hours of chic-flicks on TV or go with her as she got a pedicar...
by attentive_husband
Mon Jan 06, 2020 7:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I now feel like it's wrong for me to orgasm
Replies: 7
Views: 579

Re: I now feel like it's wrong for me to orgasm

focUSed wrote:
Sun Jan 05, 2020 3:42 pm
What if instead of 'take away' you thought about it as 'control' or 'be in charge of'?
That's the conclusion I came to also. And I told her this - and apologized.

And you're right, having her own my orgasms is giving her even more power. Scary, but intense.
by attentive_husband
Sat Jan 04, 2020 7:44 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I now feel like it's wrong for me to orgasm
Replies: 7
Views: 579

Re: I now feel like it's wrong for me to orgasm

Thank you all and very good point - if she's in charge this is not my decision. I do hold out hope she'll get to the point where she never wants me to cum. Over the 4 years we've been doing this she (and I) have evolved a lot around chastity. ps - We all top from the bottom to some extent, even if i...
by attentive_husband
Fri Jan 03, 2020 8:06 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Master locks - replace yearly
Replies: 7
Views: 557

Master locks - replace yearly

My wife recently let me out. When she handed me the key - it didn't work. We both tried multiple times. I finally had to go to Home Depot and buy a bolt cutter. That worked. And you can cut anywhere, once it's cut you can turn the hasp in the lock and then it pops out. We had a master lock, the smal...
by attentive_husband
Fri Jan 03, 2020 8:01 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [attentive_husband] And I've started the journey
Replies: 47
Views: 24929

Re: [attentive_husband] And I've started the journey

Ok 45 days and then she decided to let me out the other morning. Details here. This was very weird. Our lovemaking was enjoyable but it ended on a complex note when I couldn't bring myself to cum in her. Not bad, but it wasn't great either. I don't want to be unlocked again ever (I think). When I'm ...
by attentive_husband
Fri Jan 03, 2020 7:57 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I now feel like it's wrong for me to orgasm
Replies: 7
Views: 579

I now feel like it's wrong for me to orgasm

My wife has come to appreciate keeping me in chastity. But she still will occasionally let me out. She did the other day after 45 days of having me locked up. And it was weird. She gave me privacy to masturbate and I did. But several times while doing so I wanted to stop and go find her and give her...
by attentive_husband
Thu Dec 26, 2019 9:15 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Balls keep popping out/burning in scrotum
Replies: 11
Views: 2297

Re: Balls keep popping out/burning in scrotum

I put Vaseline along the bottom both morning & night. Makes the ball burning go away in about 3 minutes.
by attentive_husband
Thu Dec 26, 2019 9:04 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How many came into chastity backwards?
Replies: 5
Views: 830

How many came into chastity backwards?

By that I mean, how many found chastity as a way to improve their relationship as opposed to having this kink and from it discovering that it improved the relationship (or just want it for the turn on)? I had never considered it for all the decades I have had sex. When I did hear of it, I always tho...
by attentive_husband
Thu Dec 26, 2019 8:56 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [attentive_husband] And I've started the journey
Replies: 47
Views: 24929

Re: [attentive_husband] And I've started the journey

40 days (record is 100). We've been at this for a bit over 4 years. And it clearly is a journey for both parties. When we started she would let me out every 7 - 10 days. Partially because I was going nuts and partially because I was driving her nuts. As we've gone on the times have tended to get lon...
by attentive_husband
Wed Nov 27, 2019 1:46 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [attentive_husband] And I've started the journey
Replies: 47
Views: 24929

Re: [attentive_husband] And I've started the journey

So we went 40 days and then she let me out for a trip (airport security) and left me unlocked for several days when we got back. We made love and it was wonderful. But she then decided that I was not as focused and attentive to her as she was used to. So 11 days ago locked back up. And she was talki...