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by Shepherdsflock
Fri Apr 28, 2017 7:33 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: A fundamental conflict for the significant other
Replies: 14
Views: 6677

Re: A fundamental conflict for the significant other

My comment about her hating intercourse in the first paragraph of my post.
by Shepherdsflock
Fri Apr 28, 2017 7:30 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ghost or mirror orgasm after servicing gf/key holder?
Replies: 22
Views: 8932

Re: Ghost or mirror orgasm after servicing gf/key holder?

Yes, I experience the same thing, and somehow my wife can tell. It makes her happy because she knows I'm not being denied anything.
by Shepherdsflock
Wed Apr 26, 2017 8:24 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: A fundamental conflict for the significant other
Replies: 14
Views: 6677

Re: A fundamental conflict for the significant other

This isn't really the case for us. My wife much prefers driving me wild in chastity. First, she has always hated intercourse, and intercourse is the only way I can cum with her. Her using her hands on me doesn't work, and We both find the idea of her giving me oral disgusting. She also loves how res...
by Shepherdsflock
Sat Mar 11, 2017 10:24 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [JS_ITR] is this what I wanted?
Replies: 8
Views: 5120

Re: [JS_ITR] is this what I wanted?

Wow, 3 weeks in a Holy Trainer without cleaning? You must have been incredibly stinky and nasty down there! I start getting pretty smelly after only a few days without cleaning.

Sorry to hear things went badly. Maybe when things get more normal the two of you could start again.
by Shepherdsflock
Sat Feb 25, 2017 7:23 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [belocked] What have I started?
Replies: 103
Views: 58999

Re: [belocked] What have I started?

chastity is supposed to be about her and her needs - not yours. I know, which is why I haven't asked her to do anything. I'm just saying that it's tough when her needs are so low that I feel like I'm not needed. Some people have affairs, some masturbate lots, but I'm trying to be a good husband. I ...
by Shepherdsflock
Mon Feb 20, 2017 6:48 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control
Replies: 99
Views: 33533

Re: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control

So, things were interesting last night. I've posted before about my wife's vaginismus. A few weeks ago she had a routine gyno exam and the doctor told her that the combination of her vaginal muscles being super tight all the time and the fact that she's had 5 kids in rapid succession is causing her ...
by Shepherdsflock
Sun Feb 19, 2017 7:02 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control
Replies: 99
Views: 33533

Re: [Shepherdsflock] New experience in self control

Haven't been very active on here lately. Been really busy traveling for work. Had an incident a week ago where I was feeling neglected by my wife, got really discouraged, unlocked myself and masturbated. She found out and things are changing now. First, we agreed that me holding the keys so I can un...
by Shepherdsflock
Fri Feb 17, 2017 4:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long do you go without stimulation?
Replies: 7
Views: 3574

Re: How long do you go without stimulation?

I agree with the comments about needing played with in some way, you can't just be locked and left. My wife does not like me having erections, so I am almost always locked for love making. Which, of course, means months at a time with no penile stimulation. When things are good and she's giving me p...
by Shepherdsflock
Mon Jan 02, 2017 3:44 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New to this Life Style
Replies: 3
Views: 1442

Re: New to this Life Style

My advice for you as the woman in the relationship is to find something about it that you like and try to focus on it. Otherwise it can become a chore for you to indulge his fantasy and maintain his desires. If it's not fun for you, it will become a burden. Once you two start going for lockups longe...
by Shepherdsflock
Wed Dec 28, 2016 3:38 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Reinest] My journey
Replies: 4
Views: 2013

Re: [Reinest] My journey

Keep at it. My wife loves knowing I'm chaste for her, but she's completely hands-off about it. She expects me to do it for her; it's not something she does to me. She won't force me to lock up, but I catch heck if she finds out I'm unlocked for anything other than hygiene or exercise. Since I essent...