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by _lj_
Fri Nov 22, 2019 8:51 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [gehngus] one step forwards, two steps back
Replies: 32
Views: 1245

Re: [gehngus] one step forwards, two steps back

I'm with slave_d on this. The OP has managed to con his wife into thinking a cock cage is going to protect him from genital injury. When she finds the truth, she will not just feel foolish but will have a major trust issue with the OP. As she has already expressed a strong antipathy to "toys" this r...
by _lj_
Thu Oct 31, 2019 6:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: a different route to chastity
Replies: 8
Views: 1324

Re: a different route to chastity

Interesting viewpoint Bunny, that's what I'm asking for, so I can consider what I do next The way I look at it, most men here have wanted to be in chastity and have asked their partners to enforce it, which is what I am after too. It is the way this is "enforced" that I am querying. Clearly I won't ...
by _lj_
Wed Oct 30, 2019 6:13 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Want2B_Locked] - A Very British Journey
Replies: 17
Views: 1689

Re: [Want2B_Locked] - A Very British Journey

Perhaps I am being a bit hard-core, but I can see very very few reasons to have an emergency key. Obviously official security scans could lead to problems, so wearing a device likely to trigger a scan would be un-necessarily awkward for all concerned, and any medical treatment you know is going to r...
by _lj_
Wed Oct 30, 2019 4:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: a different route to chastity
Replies: 8
Views: 1324

a different route to chastity

I'd appreciate your thoughts. Coming from the BDSM background, my wife and I tried male chastity with varying success. The basic problem became her increasing dislike of having to maintain the D/s relationship in all matters, not just chastity. I was basically happy with being her submissive, but th...
by _lj_
Thu Sep 26, 2019 5:20 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Any ideas?
Replies: 10
Views: 1097

Re: Any ideas?

try entering "munch kink town-of-your-choice " into Google. You could replace "kink" with "bdsm" in the UK you are rarely more than 30 miles from a Munch. As Schnoff says, you won't get invited to private parties until people know and trust you. Paid-entry parties are far less choosy, but in my expe...
by _lj_
Tue Aug 27, 2019 4:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Struggling with some feelings
Replies: 14
Views: 1511

Re: Struggling with some feelings

I suspect I may be a bit further along the line towards BDSM than most of the people on this site (apologies if that sounds judgemental, it isn't intended to be, after all the mantra of BDSM is YKIOK = Your Kink Is OK) The OP doesn't describe the "other kink stuff" which she finds difficult, so anyt...
by _lj_
Wed Jan 02, 2019 11:07 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Mature Metal Jail Bird Security
Replies: 21
Views: 3524

Re: Mature Metal Jail Bird Security

A Hitachi Magic Wand is likely to trigger an orgasm when locked in any device - it certainly works with a JailBird but the result is pretty close to a ruined orgasm and frankly not worth the effort! Years ago I did make a full metal belt as an experiment, the genitals enclosed a bit like a sports pr...
by _lj_
Thu Sep 27, 2018 3:25 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Jailbird gap issue??
Replies: 6
Views: 1050

Re: Jailbird gap issue??

I had a similar problem with one testicle escaping, and very painful it is too! You can close the gap a little by bending the "post", I did that by gripping the ring in a vice and tapping the post with a hammer (wrap each part with some masking tape to reduce the risk of damaging the metal) It doesn...
by _lj_
Mon Sep 10, 2018 3:35 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: UK maker or customiser of chastity devices sought
Replies: 18
Views: 2995

Re: UK maker or customiser of chastity devices sought

I think it depends how up-front you are prepared to be with a craftsman. If you look around for someone who has the necessary skills, simply show them an actual device or some photos and ask if they can help. Most craftsmen like a challenge. Or you can do what I did when I wanted to try a different ...
by _lj_
Wed Sep 05, 2018 5:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Common Terms and Abbreviations
Replies: 67
Views: 72600

Re: Common Terms and Abbreviations

I believe figging started as an aid to the spanking of naughty ladies - the plug of ginger was intended to stop them clenching their buttocks in an attempt to reduce the effect of the spanking, but clenching increased the release of the "hot" effect so gave the victim the choice of increased "burnin...