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by _lj_
Tue Aug 27, 2019 4:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Struggling with some feelings
Replies: 12
Views: 736

Re: Struggling with some feelings

I suspect I may be a bit further along the line towards BDSM than most of the people on this site (apologies if that sounds judgemental, it isn't intended to be, after all the mantra of BDSM is YKIOK = Your Kink Is OK) The OP doesn't describe the "other kink stuff" which she finds difficult, so anyt...
by _lj_
Wed Jan 02, 2019 11:07 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Mature Metal Jail Bird Security
Replies: 21
Views: 3000

Re: Mature Metal Jail Bird Security

A Hitachi Magic Wand is likely to trigger an orgasm when locked in any device - it certainly works with a JailBird but the result is pretty close to a ruined orgasm and frankly not worth the effort! Years ago I did make a full metal belt as an experiment, the genitals enclosed a bit like a sports pr...
by _lj_
Thu Sep 27, 2018 3:25 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Jailbird gap issue??
Replies: 6
Views: 874

Re: Jailbird gap issue??

I had a similar problem with one testicle escaping, and very painful it is too! You can close the gap a little by bending the "post", I did that by gripping the ring in a vice and tapping the post with a hammer (wrap each part with some masking tape to reduce the risk of damaging the metal) It doesn...
by _lj_
Mon Sep 10, 2018 3:35 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: UK maker or customiser of chastity devices sought
Replies: 18
Views: 2576

Re: UK maker or customiser of chastity devices sought

I think it depends how up-front you are prepared to be with a craftsman. If you look around for someone who has the necessary skills, simply show them an actual device or some photos and ask if they can help. Most craftsmen like a challenge. Or you can do what I did when I wanted to try a different ...
by _lj_
Wed Sep 05, 2018 5:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Common Terms and Abbreviations
Replies: 67
Views: 68154

Re: Common Terms and Abbreviations

I believe figging started as an aid to the spanking of naughty ladies - the plug of ginger was intended to stop them clenching their buttocks in an attempt to reduce the effect of the spanking, but clenching increased the release of the "hot" effect so gave the victim the choice of increased "burnin...
by _lj_
Fri Aug 24, 2018 8:54 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lost motivation
Replies: 10
Views: 1500

Re: Lost motivation

There's a fundamental flaw in the "get a PA" argument. If the OPs wife isn't interested in his chastity now, she is unlikely to become interested in the future, it's not like this was an overnight thing, it has been ongoing for "a few years". All a PA will achieve is that the OP is locked up and can...
by _lj_
Fri Jul 27, 2018 4:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Nocturnal Issues
Replies: 19
Views: 3042

Re: Nocturnal Issues

I can only assume that the device isn't correctly sized. If the tip of your penis touches the end of the cage, and the diameter of the cage means it gently touches the sides of the penis, then you won't get the "pulling" problem as the shaft cannot expand and extend - an erection simply doesn't happ...
by _lj_
Tue Jun 26, 2018 3:25 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Getting the Sizing Right
Replies: 26
Views: 2977

Re: Getting the Sizing Right

Go for the solid A ring, avoids all the problems of a hinged ring. I was a bit doubtful about a solid ring, having worries about needing to get the fire service out with bolt cutters, or a rapid visit to A&E! But if you know you fit into a particular plastic device A ring, that size will work with a...
by _lj_
Wed Feb 21, 2018 5:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: new to chastity
Replies: 9
Views: 3249

Re: new to chastity

I don't know, he's not really acting like the 'classic' troll type. At a first guess, judging by the writing- run-on sentences and a lack of punctuation, I'd have to say poorly educated and/or not very bright. There could be a remote chance that it is our multi-alias pal with a new schtick, but I'm...
by _lj_
Mon Jan 22, 2018 10:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Some input on my (our) situation
Replies: 6
Views: 2363

Re: Some input on my (our) situation

A few ideas,not all from my own experience get a custom device that fits properly - for example a MM JailBird - mine stops erections ever starting, so I get none of the night-time problems. If the OPs wife is too easy to persuade, try adding an extra level of separation - for example, if she works a...