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by sirmebane
Mon Nov 25, 2019 10:50 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Trim vs shaving
Replies: 23
Views: 862

Re: Trim vs shaving

I prefer shorter hair simply because it is neater and when in chastity there are fewer situations where the metal snags something and jerks it out by the root like a weed. Ow!

My regime is to shave once a quarter and use a hair trimmer once a month. My wife seems to have no opinion or preference.
by sirmebane
Mon Nov 18, 2019 12:08 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 521
Views: 197032

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

My wife unlocked me for some PIV sex and as I got closer to orgasm, she gave that little satisfied moan with a "this feels so good." I was nearing a month of being locked up and really had my own ideas of what I wanted to happen, I was in a denial euphoria and didn't want to lose it. I asked her to ...
by sirmebane
Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:16 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Metal Detectors
Replies: 32
Views: 6972

Re: Metal Detectors

I have intentionally taken the small brass lock common to so many cylinder cages through metal detectors to see if they would go off. Airports, government offices, courts all fail to detect such a minimal amount of metal.
by sirmebane
Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 521
Views: 197032

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

My wife offered to drop my car off at the airport so I wouldn't have to Uber home late at night when I returned from a business trip. I told her that I appreciated the offer but I didn't have my car key so I couldn't get into the car if she took the time to drop it off. "You should always take your ...
by sirmebane
Tue Oct 29, 2019 10:03 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Are you more "relaxed" in chastity?
Replies: 7
Views: 810

Re: Are you more "relaxed" in chastity?

So much of chastity is realizing that you want and need the chase, but regret the 'win.' I cannot deny my KH when she wants me to cum, because that is what she wants and also because my primitive brain is designed to seek orgasm and all that accompanies it. If you can convince your KH to be less len...
by sirmebane
Sat Oct 26, 2019 7:30 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 521
Views: 197032

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

I returned from a business trip and brought some items from the hotel that she enjoys having on hand (scented lotion, makeup scrubs, etc) which I put on her vanity as I unpacked. I always caged myself and slid the key into her top vanity drawer once I was locked. She came in and was delighted to fin...
by sirmebane
Wed Oct 23, 2019 9:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?
Replies: 12
Views: 1337

Re: How did you first learn about orgasm denial / chastity devices?

BDSM erotica which mentioned chastity and denial which lead me to search the web which lead me like many here to Altairboy's website on chastity. A lot of what was there was $1,000 and up, custom made from Europe and wildly out of a curious newbie's price range. I really started getting serious abou...
by sirmebane
Wed Oct 23, 2019 8:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Time without orgasm
Replies: 50
Views: 5898

Re: Time without orgasm

My personal record is 104 days but it was at my request and my wife will usually not keep me from having an orgasm for more than 3-4 weeks at a time.
by sirmebane
Wed Oct 23, 2019 8:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Don't Cum Challenge
Replies: 7
Views: 1632

Re: Don't Cum Challenge

I like the idea behind these types of challenges but as some have pointed out most of us wouldn't last very long with that kind of stimulation. Perhaps you could work up the game to include a ruined orgasm if you fail and an extended lockup before you're allowed to play the game again.
by sirmebane
Wed Oct 23, 2019 8:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: SOOOOO close to P-Orgasm
Replies: 4
Views: 840

Re: SOOOOO close to P-Orgasm

I have both vibrating and non-vibrating prostate stimulators and I honestly don't think vibration is the way to get there. I would encourage you to investigate the Aneros line of toys and even better, read the forums and wiki their users have put together to help you get where you're trying to go. T...