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by sirmebane
Tue Aug 14, 2018 9:41 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 122
Views: 43318

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

We had our talk and she apologized again for letting things linger so long without playing "the game." I was very honest about masturbating when I wasn't locked which she didn't seem to have the least bit of concern over. We talked about being caged and what it meant for me, how it changed the urgen...
by sirmebane
Sun Aug 12, 2018 1:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tether
Replies: 7
Views: 519

Re: Tether

I also have another ring that is two halves that when placed together is secured by an Allen screw so if you dont have access to the tool it’s definitely not coming off. I guess that is my question... this isn't a 'locking' device. You can remove it at will with an allen wrench. If it is an extra l...
by sirmebane
Sun Aug 12, 2018 1:42 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 122
Views: 43318

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

I have been unlocked for a while now and starting to think she has lost interest so I have begun to have solo sessions. A few of them and enough to think maybe I should let her know. She went to bed and I couldn't sleep so I spent some time composing an e-mail about my thoughts, my concerns and how ...
by sirmebane
Sun Aug 12, 2018 6:47 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Tether
Replies: 7
Views: 519

Re: Tether

REALLY IGNORANT QUESTION COMING...

How do you "lock" a captive bead? If it just screws on, what prevents you from simply unscrewing it and removing the piercing?
by sirmebane
Wed Aug 08, 2018 10:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Great New App
Replies: 19
Views: 618

Re: Great New App

So I downloaded it and I totally get using it if you're without a keyholder, I mean you have to surrender your control to someone/something. I also get the idea that you could use this to give ideas to a 'new keyholder' who doesn't know what to do with this new superpower. I'm a fan of handing a bad...
by sirmebane
Tue Aug 07, 2018 9:38 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 122
Views: 43318

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Not locked and having way too much solo sex. My wife hasn't been neglecting me but she hasn't locked me up recently. We were traveling, the kids keep us busy with school about to start, life keeps busy. I was locked for a brief window but I think it was just to check a box and make me happy. The ent...
by sirmebane
Fri Jul 27, 2018 4:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Nocturnal Issues
Replies: 13
Views: 412

Re: Nocturnal Issues

Nocturnal erections are (or can be) challenging but there is an easy fix. Getting the right size cage helps a lot, more than I realized when I started. A cage as small as possible is important because once it has an opportunity to grow, it is worse. Secondly, your body adapts to confined erections b...
by sirmebane
Fri Jul 06, 2018 8:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Necklaces for keyholder
Replies: 13
Views: 1309

Re: Necklaces for keyholder

I feel like I'm going to need to go the "proper jewelry" route to have a hope of her wearing it. Maybe not even but at least my chances are better.


There are some options just over $100 that she might consider.
https://www.helzberg.com/search.do?query=key
by sirmebane
Wed Jun 27, 2018 9:22 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?
Replies: 28
Views: 1590

Re: Has anyone in a relationship ever left chastity?

I'm sure the answer to this question is yes and people who left may not be here to answer in the affirmative. I get the sense that most people who try chastity stay with chastity, we certainly have. My wife praises me when she forgets to lock me up and I do it myself. "Good boy." She does take break...
by sirmebane
Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:58 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 122
Views: 43318

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Saturday she was true to her word but she normally feels it is her duty to satisfy my carnal urges. She is a loving wife and is genuinely concerned about me being happy. Who am I to turn down an orgasm when she wants me to have one. I asked her to take me 90+ days in chastity at the beginning just t...