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by nebman
Fri Apr 01, 2016 3:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where to go from here
Replies: 31
Views: 5867

Re: Where to go from here

This has been our exact experience, too! She'll cuddle with me for a long time afterward. She even gets upset if I have to get up to pee or something. That's one of the things I had to learn through observation. She won't just tell me that she really wants to hold me after her orgasms, I had to lea...
by nebman
Fri Apr 01, 2016 3:21 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where to go from here
Replies: 31
Views: 5867

Re: Where to go from here

My wife has been far more turned on when we are being intimate than I can remember. She responds more to my touch, and makes her body more available to me by repositioning herself and really "offering" herself to me. I've really noticed that. Also, after we're done she seems more gentle and loving ...
by nebman
Fri Apr 01, 2016 2:47 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where to go from here
Replies: 31
Views: 5867

Re: Where to go from here

I replied that giving her pleasure gave me great pleasure, and that I would rather remain turned on for longer periods of time than have an orgasm when there would certainly be a let-down of sorts immediately following. Very much the same with me. I love the intense horniness of being sexually invo...
by nebman
Fri Apr 01, 2016 1:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where to go from here
Replies: 31
Views: 5867

Re: Where to go from here

When it comes to sex, my wife seems either unaware of what gets her going, or feels embarrassed talking about it. I suspect many women are like that. My wife is quite like that. Sometimes the most frustrating thing for me is that she was a lot more open about the topic when we were younger. We are ...
by nebman
Fri Apr 01, 2016 1:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Where to go from here
Replies: 31
Views: 5867

Re: Where to go from here

I've read most of your "Journey" and found the recent posts about your wife being more interested in sex and her personal pleasure since you've been locked in her presence at night. I've had a similar week myself. We had a long dry spell, beginning early in February. My wife's travel and a long bad ...
by nebman
Mon Feb 08, 2016 3:25 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Vasectomy - what kind of anesthetics did they use?
Replies: 21
Views: 8472

Re: Vasectomy - what kind of anesthetics did they use?

So many voices answered the same that I can't add a lot. I was provided a sedative pill to take an hour or so in advance that made me loopy during the procedure. I'm not even sure if they did a local beyond that. I don't recall getting any shots, but again, I was plenty loopy. After the doctor asked...
by nebman
Mon Feb 08, 2016 3:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Mind the gap
Replies: 5
Views: 1460

Re: Mind the gap

Night erections are always a challenge. It is possible that if your balls are pulling up into the gap, almost to the point of popping through, they my be getting pinched pretty hard as they start to go through. That pinch is the most painful thing I've every experienced with a device. If the gap is ...
by nebman
Mon Feb 08, 2016 3:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Permanent hair removal
Replies: 10
Views: 3395

Re: Permanent hair removal

I had my back treated during 2014 and 2015. After several treatments, the results were quite good. I was at a brand new start-up shop that was a bit more male friendly than average. They focus on hair removal and some other skin treatments, so there is not that "ladies day at the spa" aspect to it. ...
by nebman
Fri Feb 05, 2016 4:02 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Padlock or integral lock? Which do you prefer and why?
Replies: 14
Views: 5001

Re: Padlock or integral lock? Which do you prefer and why?

Time for me to break the streak. We prefer the padlock. The security screw on both our JB and WM were just too cumbersome at times to put on and take off. I also found, over time the screw became loose. She likes being able to grab the padlock, look into my eyes and just before she clicks it shut (...
by nebman
Fri Feb 05, 2016 3:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Cock Rings Staying On
Replies: 4
Views: 1356

Cock Rings Staying On

Getting myself into my fairly tight 1.5" solid stainless steel base ring can be a little challenging. I can't wear my cage all the time under all clothing. I'd like to leave the base ring on, but not if the risk of it falling off is too high. I am wearing tight pouch underwear that should provide a ...