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by Len51
Thu Feb 26, 2015 1:35 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New for 2015
Replies: 7
Views: 2126

Re: New for 2015

@Subinmemphis - Glad to entertain you. :) Writing has always helped me to deal with my feelings and emotions. Most posts I delete after writing them. I went over 40 years without ever telling a non kinky friend that I had two lovers and engage in all the fetishes that I did. No one but me and her gi...
by Len51
Thu Feb 26, 2015 12:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Bondage and chastity
Replies: 1
Views: 1001

Re: Bondage and chastity

Sounds like you are living the fantasy. Good for you. My wife would find all that too much work. She is bi so she has had girlfriends but does not want to date guys or make my chastity feel like work for her so we keep it simple. I am locked up and released in 3 or 4 months. When I used to be unlock...
by Len51
Thu Feb 26, 2015 12:31 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Insomnia
Replies: 1
Views: 641

Re: Insomnia

I have been medically treated for insomnia since I got back from Vietnam in 1971. I usually am up until 2-4am each night, even with sleeping pills. I cannot shut off my mind. My wife used to give me orgasms more frequently than she wanted to, thinking that it would make me sleep better. Sometimes it...
by Len51
Wed Feb 25, 2015 8:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is erection denial a thing?
Replies: 14
Views: 5403

Re: Is erection denial a thing?

It is done. No more erections allowed until she decides to give me a ruined orgasm. That is usually on a special occasions. The next occasion is in June. My testicles are sore from the cage pushing out from my body. My wife thought it would be fun for me to take a Viagra. I never bulged out on all s...
by Len51
Wed Feb 25, 2015 4:14 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New for 2015
Replies: 7
Views: 2126

New for 2015

My wife and I have led an alternate lifestyle for over 4 decades that included a poly triad and numerous fetishes. We are just a couple again after 38 years. Chastity came to the rescue as vanilla sex is not enjoyable for us. As with everything else, including a few thousand threesomes, things becom...
by Len51
Wed Feb 25, 2015 2:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Negative effects
Replies: 14
Views: 3874

Re: Negative effects

This is right up my alley as I have tried about a dozen anti depressants for about 15 years and used both Viagra and Cialis for erectile dysfunction. Most anti depressants cause erectile dysfunction and most times even Viagra and Cialis does not work. They did not work for me. Some drugs prevented e...
by Len51
Wed Feb 25, 2015 2:31 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is erection denial a thing?
Replies: 14
Views: 5403

Re: Is erection denial a thing?

I saw that doctor on TV too and although he made a splashy show of it, he basically said "it could" and not that it will. He really did not know but was postulating based on his knowledge of the penis. He also had an anti chastity bias and made fun of it. Never showed a chastity device and instead h...
by Len51
Wed Feb 25, 2015 11:10 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Jailbird on its way
Replies: 4
Views: 1201

Re: Jailbird on its way

It arrived and is better than I hoped for. I wasted money buying a second smaller ring. My original sizing is spot on. It is truly much more comfortable than even my CB and Holy Trainer. Cage barely touches the sides and front of my penis to prevent erections. Wife loves it because she can feel me w...
by Len51
Wed Feb 25, 2015 11:02 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked for the world not to see.
Replies: 3
Views: 1027

Re: Locked for the world not to see.

It used to be a strange feeling but now I no longer even think about it when I am out. Then again at my age, I forget a lot of things. :)
by Len51
Wed Feb 25, 2015 10:32 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Cleanliness
Replies: 8
Views: 1578

Re: Cleanliness

I've gone for months in the CB3k, no getting out at all. A daily shower with liquid soap and a high-pressure hand-held shower head worked for me- no odor issues at all. My guess is that your penis is close to the end of the tube. Mine was far back so when I peed, it splashed back and sometimes came...