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by lockedbywife
Sun Jun 01, 2014 8:06 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife playing the game well...
Replies: 7
Views: 2805

Re: Wife playing the game well...

Sounds like a great start. I can definitely relate to your situation in that I approached the subject with my wife and it does takes a little convincing and exploring at first. Usually though I have to point my wife in the direction of the literature about the subject. The fact that she's reading up...
by lockedbywife
Sun Jun 01, 2014 6:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

Been away a while, sorry! Our interaction has definitely died down over the past week. Combination of a few things, but the most obvious thing is that in most situations I'm more focused on our interactions in the chastity department than she is. We had a recent anniversary and she decided to let me...
by lockedbywife
Sat May 24, 2014 10:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

This remains on my boundary list lol. Funny how we can have different reactions to different things- for me "fart play" is one of the [few] things that is "out of bounds" on my list of hard limits, as is "red wings" (no longer a concern with her anymore)...going "Golden" however, makes me hard as a...
by lockedbywife
Sat May 24, 2014 10:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

The expectations, or maybe not expectations but goals are sometimes on the unreasonable side. At the same time, it may be just a part of my personality but I tend to shoot for the stars. Worst case you don't quite get there but have fun in the process. Whether it's bedroom experiences, vacations, e...
by lockedbywife
Fri May 23, 2014 5:54 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

Long story short, I didn't get a choice in the matter- she decided to do it on her own and I was restrained to the bed and couldn't stop her (we hadn't even discussed "safewords" then, and I literally had no means of escape). When she told me what was going to happen [if I came inside her] it was i...
by lockedbywife
Fri May 23, 2014 5:20 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

My main concern about you situation is that the two of you may be moving a little too quickly by chasing unrealistic expectations. I understand wanting your chastity play to be in the forefront of your mind all day every day, and 8-hour tease-a-thons can be pretty freaking awesome... but in reality...
by lockedbywife
Tue May 20, 2014 8:27 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

If I'm this far off base from what you're used to, what's the value in responding? Fair call, i'll just be quiet and leave you to it. d No hard feelings on this as I'm more than happy to try to explain the psychological reasons why we do what we do. I find it interesting what works for others wheth...
by lockedbywife
Tue May 20, 2014 8:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

I have no problem believing all this is true! My wife and I had similar adventure and now she only gives me one real O per month (12 per year). I don't think she will every deny me more but then I never thought we'd get to this point. She says just on real O for me per month is just about right as ...
by lockedbywife
Tue May 20, 2014 8:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

I disagree. It *is* about *both*. Both partners need to get something out of this for it to work. We don't all go about this in the same way, and that's OK... Thanks for this post. I cut off most of it in the quote due to length but truly almost every word you said was gold as far as my viewpoint i...
by lockedbywife
Tue May 20, 2014 7:55 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Used to be a game, now she's serious
Replies: 57
Views: 19373

Re: Used to be a game, now she's serious

I have no idea of how it would feel to not orgasm a whole month, but I can imagine I'd also feel really frustrated! lol :D A month is the longest I've gone. If there's a lot of teasing it's unbearable. I could feel the ache during a normal work day even if not aroused. If there isn't as much teasin...