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by belocked
Tue Oct 06, 2020 11:16 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity in the news
Replies: 1
Views: 489

Chastity in the news

Interesting article on the BBC web site today. I guess chastity is becoming more mainstream, but perhaps this isn't the best way to encourage more people to try it out. https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-54436575
by belocked
Mon Sep 28, 2020 11:38 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dating and chastity advice
Replies: 8
Views: 722

Re: Dating and chastity advice

Thanks for the advice so far. I can see that it make sense to bring it up fairly early in a relationship to make sure it's not a show-stopper for her, together with the other mild kinks. Critter228, it's nice to know that someone has been there already and survived. Steve2059, Fetlife sounds an inte...
by belocked
Sun Sep 27, 2020 11:05 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dating and chastity advice
Replies: 8
Views: 722

Dating and chastity advice

As I've just posted in my journey, I'm coming out of a divorce and wanting to re-engage with the world. Part of that is dating. I haven't dated in more than two decades so the whole social media part of it is new to me but I can already see the benefits for finding people who might be interested/int...
by belocked
Sun Sep 27, 2020 10:55 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [belocked] What have I started?
Replies: 105
Views: 75269

Re: [belocked] What have I started?

A long time has passed since my last posting. The divorce took a long time and left me pretty empty, and I'm only just getting over it. COVID hasn't helped either. I do keep locking myself at times. The duration varies between a few hours and a few days, usually 1-3 days, sometimes enforced via the ...
by belocked
Sat Apr 06, 2019 6:10 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions
Replies: 13
Views: 3887

Re: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions

I'm swapping between the JB and the Saint to see what else needs changing if I go for a custom Saint. One thing I forgot to mention above is the wonderful ability to pee standing up in the Saint.

Is it possible to "tweak" a Saint? I bent my JB fairly easily but don't know if the nylon will bend.
by belocked
Sat Mar 30, 2019 3:23 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions
Replies: 13
Views: 3887

Re: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions

I've come to like the Saint, but the fitting isn't right. I need a shorter cage but more importantly a larger gap. I'm wondering if I'm willing to spring the money to buy a custom one; in the meantime my started set is mostly unused and I'm back in the old JailBird. The longest time in the Saint was...
by belocked
Wed Mar 06, 2019 11:08 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions
Replies: 13
Views: 3887

Re: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions

My first overnighter and it's at least as comfortable as the JB. Woke up really early trying to have an erection, but that would probably have been true in any other device on the first night caged for a long time (I also have a lot of stress in my life right now and wake early anyway). I love how l...
by belocked
Tue Mar 05, 2019 3:28 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions
Replies: 13
Views: 3887

Re: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions

Much gentle sanding later I've got it to fit okay. Perhaps a little tight but we'll see. I've had to go a size down on the base ring from the JB so I'm glad I ordered the starter pack. Today's the first time to try the whole thing for an hour or so, including the integrated lock. It's very comfortab...
by belocked
Sun Mar 03, 2019 3:18 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions
Replies: 13
Views: 3887

Re: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions

Lady Fox wrote back to say they had some rings made that were out of tolerance so too tight, and that I should sandpaper it down a bit (2mm). I've been slow and careful so I don't go too far, and now it's better but still tighter than I'm willing to try. What? Oh, come on, where's your sense of adve...
by belocked
Sat Mar 02, 2019 2:48 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions
Replies: 13
Views: 3887

Custom Chastity Saint - first impressions

I've had a Jailbird for a while but find it heavy and I'm always concerned about metal detectors. So I finally decided to order a Saint from Custom Chastity. I'm a grower and always struggle with the measurements, so I ordered the starter pack with the regular cage and 3 different base rings thinkin...