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We've got kids too and other than finding time alone to enjoy our kinky stuff, our sex life isn't their business. We keep it private, we sleep naked but have clothes next to the bed, hubby is careful not to get bumped and in the event he ever has, it's his phone in his pocket or something. He's been...

This is part of a relationship like any other part of a relationship and there needs to be communication. Someone cannot force you to do something you genuinely do not want to do. I was going to just comment that it sounds like a chastity contract or even a D/s contract may be something you need but...

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There is a lot of trial and error that comes with chastity and wearing a device, sometimes! Good luck!

Hi Antipatear

The best place to look is the Devices forum and you can use the search function of the forums to find certain topics.

Welcome!

We had tried a few off the shelf devices and ended up going custom because of hubby's size. We did find the "bird cage" online which was a larger device but ultimately going with the MatureMetal Jailbird and knowing what metal was touching hubby's skin etc was best. The Curve (if it's still around) ...

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It can be normal to have some discomfort with those night time erections... As for reproductive harm, none of us are doctors so we can't actually say if it is or isn't but I wouldn't think so... I can't compare anything because my hubby has had a vasectomy so no more reproducing for us than goodness...

Hi there and welcome (again) I'm about to leave for work but I quickly wanted to write and ask if you guys actually talked about what this dynamic would look like for you? Every relationship is different and works the way it works that is best for the couple involved. The only way to know what works...

Hello there and welcome to you both!

Tom, I was just about to say that... You'd be surprised at the difference!