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by poor
Wed Feb 19, 2014 10:56 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is this site recommended for wary new keyholders?
Replies: 23
Views: 5218

Re: Is this site recommended for wary new keyholders?

Sarah Jameson's book 'Be Careful What You Wish For' is an excellent primer for her. The website that you have to negotiate to purchase it is uber-tacky but the book/download is great at explaining this 'odd' thing and what it needs to thrive in a relationship. My 2c: when you have 'the talk' be cert...
by poor
Tue Feb 11, 2014 3:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locked Cock In One Gleaming Barrel
Replies: 9
Views: 2674

Re: Locked Cock In One Gleaming Barrel

Having your balls dragged up your shaft when erect may be due to having too large a back ring diameter which can be made worse by having a tube that allows the erection to gather steam. If you can easily slip 2 fingers under the back ring whilst flaccid then you will benefit from getting a smaller s...
by poor
Mon Feb 03, 2014 12:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Frustration
Replies: 11
Views: 3295

Re: Frustration

It's a bit like trying to push start a car on a slope by yourself; it takes so much to get the thing moving in the first place, then it's quite easy and all of a sudden you realise that if you don't jump in NOW you'll be watching an accident. That's where the OP is. It's a scary moment; but if you d...
by poor
Thu Jan 30, 2014 2:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Might just be Newbie soreness Problems ?
Replies: 14
Views: 2623

Re: Might just be Newbie soreness Problems ?

Take an emery board nail file to the rings and polish out the production welds and any other imperfections you can feel.

I use Hemp Hand Protector Creme from The Body Shop as lube.
by poor
Mon Jan 13, 2014 3:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity Social January 23rd San Francisco CA
Replies: 5
Views: 1471

Re: Chastity Social January 23rd San Francisco CA

Can you provide a bit more detail. Does the venue have a full menu? Is constant nudity permitted, or is the fashion show more show and tell? 'Wicked Grounds' is a small coffee shop (near to the Mr S fetish superstore) it's 'kink friendly' but on a public street with a big glass window so there is a...
by poor
Sun Jan 12, 2014 10:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: device unnecessary?
Replies: 9
Views: 2041

Re: device unnecessary?

Short answer: No.

Longer answer: It depends what you kink on; if it's purely the submission aspect then you might be OK with no device. If however, like myself, you find yourself identifying with this blog entry by Thumper: http://wp.me/pnj9j-1ZH you will need lockdown to be part of your lovestyle.
by poor
Sat Jan 04, 2014 11:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What did you do today in your CD?
Replies: 2
Views: 1068

Re: What did you do today in your CD?

20 mile trail running event; 2nd place in a mountain bike event; tall tree rope obstacle course in climbing harness; laughed; loved; lived (but still manage to crush my nuts getting into the car once in a while).
by poor
Fri Dec 27, 2013 1:49 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How Long Did You Wander?
Replies: 6
Views: 1700

Re: How Long Did You Wander?

In the days before the Internet, I tried to infibulate myself after getting far too interested in a 'Forum' magazine article on the subject and before that I can remember feeling the same about a 'Knave' magazine piece on historic female chastity belts (but I was in shared accommodation in the Army ...
by poor
Thu Dec 26, 2013 8:16 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do you suspect any Coworkers, friends are in chastity
Replies: 9
Views: 2338

Re: Do you suspect any Coworkers, friends are in chastity

There is a friend who I used to work with that has a much more obvious FLR than myself and whose wife has made comments that would fit the role of a Keyholder. I've paid closer attention to them at social gatherings but nothing definitive has ever happened and it's not like she wears a key or anythi...
by poor
Wed Dec 25, 2013 3:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: too far?
Replies: 2
Views: 986

Re: too far?

It's really a matter for the one who was massaging your prostate to decide.