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by danj
Wed Aug 21, 2019 2:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Don't Cum Challenge
Replies: 3
Views: 224

Re: Don't Cum Challenge

A nice thing about not remaining chaste for weeks or months (or longer) is I can really enjoy a good tease and usually won't just spurt in a few minutes. I can tell if she's getting impatient as she strokes if she asks, "are you getting close?!" when I've been allowed to orgasm, which is by her hand...
by danj
Tue Aug 20, 2019 10:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: We need a new term for "reverse pegging"
Replies: 25
Views: 1770

Re: We need a new term for "reverse pegging"

Three words, but I kinda like "chaste love making." For the record, I've never had the pleasure of doing this for my wife. She doesn't want PIV very often, so even though we bought a strap-on harness she's never wanted us to use it. I hope she decides to try it sometime. I think it would be a pretty...
by danj
Mon Aug 19, 2019 5:07 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dreams
Replies: 9
Views: 297

Re: Dreams

I think I'm having more erotic dreams, or at least remembering them more(??). My neighbor was in one the other night. It was very sexual. My wife allows me to freely/openly (with her) fantasize about other women, and this woman has my interest (fantasy only, of course...only she gets to play outside...
by danj
Mon Aug 19, 2019 8:50 am
Forum: CF Marketplace
Topic: How to use PM for selling/buying
Replies: 9
Views: 180

Re: How to use PM for selling/buying

I always sit when caged, less risk of a mess. I don't mind that much, just another reminder I'm a kept hubby. :)
by danj
Thu Aug 15, 2019 8:56 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: How does the body adapt?
Replies: 18
Views: 2914

Re: How does the body adapt?

Ring and gap size have been key for me. 42mm seems to be my sweet spot for the ring. And I found out 15mm on my first Steelworxx was too much since one ball escapes at 15mm. I went down to 10mm on my second device, my Looker 3 and it's just about perfect. I need a custom sized device for the right f...
by danj
Thu Aug 15, 2019 9:07 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [danj] After long break, feels so good to be locked
Replies: 19
Views: 3402

Re: [danj] After long break, feels so good to be locked

So are you sleeping more whilst caged now? How are you handling that? Thanks for the update! Any bulls on the horizon? Yes, I've been sleeping in the Looker 3 most nights. A this point, I'm locked about 6 days a week, averaging maybe 1 day free each week, though sometimes that's more like a half-da...
by danj
Tue Aug 13, 2019 4:19 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [danj] After long break, feels so good to be locked
Replies: 19
Views: 3402

Re: [danj] After long break, feels so good to be locked

Well, I was finally invited to penetrate my Goddess wife! It ended at 75 days, so I'm a bit tardy with this post. And she invited me to have sex with her a few more times that week. The first time was a little overwhelming for me, and I didn't last long. I'm guessing maybe 2-3 minutes, a pretty weak...
by danj
Sat Aug 10, 2019 10:15 am
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Site maintenance completed
Replies: 5
Views: 217

Re: Site maintenance completed

Yes, thanks to you and all the admins/mods. Nice to see everything working well here again, including searches!
by danj
Sat Aug 10, 2019 10:11 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Thinking of buying another Steelworxx Steelheart
Replies: 5
Views: 474

Re: Thinking of buying another Steelworxx Steelheart

It's been about a month since I ordered. I hope to see it in my mail sometime later this month. I have the sizing down pretty good with Steelworxx devices, so I'm excited to receive it. It will be nice to have a properly fitting Steelheart!
by danj
Thu Aug 08, 2019 12:32 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?
Replies: 11
Views: 882

Re: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?

I'm returning to this because I had another thought. Yes, I do feel "sated", as you ask, and at some point over the years, I've lost the "need" to have an orgasm. Not the desire, which always remains with me, but that almost overwhelming need for release. I don't know if it's age (although I almost...