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by danj
Wed Oct 16, 2019 9:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Time without orgasm
Replies: 39
Views: 2935

Re: Time without orgasm

@Steve2059 Sounds familiar ;). I keep reminding myself that the whole point of the game is that my orgasm belongs to my spouse. That can mean having me come for his amusement, or to not come because he wants to reward me that way. My job is to be grateful either way. Well said, I need to remember t...
by danj
Thu Oct 10, 2019 9:03 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Ring Size - How Tight is Too Tight
Replies: 6
Views: 248

Re: Ring Size - How Tight is Too Tight

It sounds like you have the wrong ring size. Dark red would make me think the ring/device is too tight. I'm in custom devices now, but started in the cb-6000s and once I found the right fit with that, went down a little in ring size for the smooth and thinner steel ring made by Steelworxx. You might...
by danj
Fri Oct 04, 2019 12:33 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Handsfree finally
Replies: 3
Views: 895

Re: Handsfree finally

What is it with 6 days in?! I had another release today while caged with no stimulation (beside what the cage itself can provide). I was perusing Reddit and some other erotica and suddenly felt it...and soon was catching my release into my hand. It was "ruined", but a sizable load. If I had been ful...
by danj
Thu Oct 03, 2019 4:00 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [danj] After long break, feels so good to be locked
Replies: 23
Views: 4274

Re: [danj] After long break, feels so good to be locked

We're off to a good start this "Loctober". I told Goddess that I was interested in "celebrating" it, if she is. I've been locked almost full-time since September 28th. It's doubtful I'll stay locked too long, as she'll probably want to play with her penis in some way before too long! I've been swapp...
by danj
Tue Oct 01, 2019 9:18 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Balls keep popping out/burning in scrotum
Replies: 8
Views: 594

Re: Balls keep popping out/burning in scrotum

A body good cream (rather than a lotion), like Cetaphil, can be helpful with scrotum burn. I put some on the scrotum at the base ring every night before bed, and sometimes in the morning. It helps. As for ball escapes, you need to nail down the correct gap. And as slave d said above, you have to wor...
by danj
Mon Sep 30, 2019 1:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Supporting the Cage
Replies: 8
Views: 460

Re: Supporting the Cage

When I'm caged, I never sleep with underwear. I really like how it feels sleeping naked caged. When I'm uncaged, I usually sleep with underwear. It's not as comfortable with "her penis" flopping around. My Steelworxx cages are so comfortable without underwear and pants, I'd probably consider going n...
by danj
Mon Sep 30, 2019 9:24 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Supporting the Cage
Replies: 8
Views: 460

Re: Supporting the Cage

Nothing fancy...I just wear boxer briefs. They lend enough support for me.
by danj
Sun Sep 29, 2019 10:36 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: ... for some value of "vanilla."
Replies: 59
Views: 31436

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

Hey sherulestherooster... We've been doing this, and hubby has been caged, daily for 6 years without shrinkage or any issues. As for the urologist, he basically said he didn't see any issues with using the device. He said, from a urology standpoint, there shouldn't be problems, not ejaculating is n...
by danj
Fri Sep 27, 2019 8:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wow!
Replies: 2
Views: 377

Re: Wow!

Welcome to the club!
by danj
Wed Sep 25, 2019 7:57 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Locktober & NOvember
Replies: 14
Views: 1040

Re: Locktober & NOvember

Good question. I haven't given it a lot of thought, but I may request (as it's always her call) some extra lock-up time. After some time off earlier this month, I'm very happy to be back in chastity almost full-time the past week+. I missed it. A predominately locked October sounds wonderful. With s...