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by michaelnmelissa
Wed Feb 18, 2015 1:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: A Little Older & A Little Humbler
Replies: 4
Views: 1353

A Little Older & A Little Humbler

Hi, I haven't been here in awhile. I didn't see a reason as I haven't been in chastity for some time. Melissa and I have had some difficult times. This past year especially I wasn't sure if we'd make it. Family problems, as usual. And then trying to balance work, school, and the home between the two...
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Aug 30, 2013 4:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Zen and The Art of Male Chastity
Replies: 5
Views: 1807

Re: Zen and The Art of Male Chastity

Finn, Our rule for swinging was no intercourse. Everything else was allowed. (We knew the more kinkier ideas wouldn't come up in the settings we were in). We hope to play with another couple this December. That's when our Fall semester is over and our chastity play will go on hiatus. So far our play...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Aug 29, 2013 6:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Thanks for all the support and best of luck to all of you!
Replies: 5
Views: 1353

Re: Thanks for all the support and best of luck to all of yo

In case you should check back... I've taken breaks too. There is a lot of good advice here, but I've seen what you mean about the way some respond. This kink is not practiced by a large group and is often considered odd even by those who like many other kinks. So you'd think those of us who do it wo...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Aug 29, 2013 11:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Imagine Being Arrested
Replies: 7
Views: 2225

Imagine Being Arrested

I was driving home last night and passed what looked like a routine traffic stop. That got me to imagining what would happen if I were to be stopped and, through some strange turn of events, I was arrested. Since I wear a Mature Metal device 24/7 when practicing it would be a highly awkward situatio...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Aug 29, 2013 11:23 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: jacking off/cumming in cb...cheating?
Replies: 8
Views: 2696

Re: jacking off/cumming in cb...cheating?

What would she think?

Usually, our intuition knows the right answer but we are more than capable of rationalizing what we want.

Michael
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Aug 29, 2013 11:20 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Just an Illusion? Release w/o Orgasm
Replies: 5
Views: 1421

Re: Just an Illusion? Release w/o Orgasm

I have always had a lot of pre-cum. Former girlfriends have commented on it. My wife has always said I have the most of any man she's been with. All of them have greatly enjoyed it. It has aroused them to see me so aroused. In chastity I have even more. During play I will leak a lot. We both love it...
by michaelnmelissa
Thu Aug 29, 2013 11:14 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Zen and The Art of Male Chastity
Replies: 5
Views: 1807

Re: Zen and The Art of Male Chastity

Wishful4: Thank you for your kind words. One of the teachings of Zen is that every person has that feeling of dissatisfaction. It is a part of life. It's also unique for each of us since we are all unique. I was frustrated with my sex life before chastity. Then I was frustrated because I wanted chas...
by michaelnmelissa
Mon Aug 26, 2013 10:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Zen and The Art of Male Chastity
Replies: 5
Views: 1807

Zen and The Art of Male Chastity

Today, after eighteen months out, I am back in chastity. I will be in the device until our Fall semester ends in December. Then I will be free during the Winter break. After that, we'll see. I have been studying the practice of Zen this Summer and I am looking forward to applying what I've learned i...
by michaelnmelissa
Mon Aug 26, 2013 9:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Are any couples here open with others about lifestyle?
Replies: 27
Views: 6958

Re: Are any couples here open with others about lifestyle?

My wife's best friend knows. And her almost best friend and her wife know too.

Michael
by michaelnmelissa
Fri Aug 16, 2013 10:44 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How Male Chastity Led Us To Swinging...
Replies: 2
Views: 1526

How Male Chastity Led Us To Swinging...

...and being completely open about male chastity with our friends. I haven't been on here much since I haven't been in chastity much for some time. I've been catching up since I think we'll be taking it up again here soon. I'm glad to see so many enjoying this wonderful kink! If you've ever read my ...