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It’s us. I feel so glamorous.

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When we take a break, DH has anxiety and will often ask to be relocked.

How about a hand written letter thanking her for being your key holder which itemizes the ways she has made your lives together better by agreeing to enforce chastity.

We are probably due for a shorter cage this Summer. I look through the drawer of cages we’ve gone through and the Greenday song “Boulevard of Broken Dreams” rings through my head.

My husband and I play long-term, and as many of you know, long term play does cause temporary shrinkage. In the series of our play, we have a series of smaller cages that we cycle through, although it interestingly isn’t always a linear progression. While my interest in chastity is purely the contro...

Rubberband around the lock. Or you could try crotchless panties.

My DH (Dear Husband) has been locked since the beginning of the year. This will be the longest lock-up period in the 8 years since we started playing with chastity, so 'Locktober 2022' is just another month. He surprised me this morning with a handwritten note thanking me for caring enough to lock a...

Haven't had that problem -- he does have wet dreams -- aka nature's plumber.

This varies so much I don't think it is predictable. I don't think there's a set time, but find what works for you both and then try to improve on that. When we started this journey, 2-3 weeks between orgasms was a long time for DH. Right now... we're 195 days into a 365 day orgasm-free period for D...

Sounds like you're enjoying this. One thing to consider is that after a long lock-up, he's likely to go off with a feather touch. One way to estalish your control is to anticipate this. Promise him an orgasm, and then when he cums too quickly just say "Sorry hon... deal's a deal" and lock ...