What size strap on ?

[gggxthree]

What size dildo for a strap on to use while caged for my wife? I don't want too big or too long.
We have a 7" and she said it's too long.
Width?
Guessing that 6" or 5" is about the right length ....

Bonus if the ladies could chime in!!

[Mr Pickle]

Are you taking it or the wife?

[Sam3655]

We use the Vixskin Tex which is 5.25 inches in length and about 1.6 inches in girth. Tried the Ranger but too big for the wife.

[gggxthree]

Are you taking it or the wife?

Yes, for me to use in chastity on the wife.

[Mr Pickle]

Thought it best to ask. I'm at a party and a bit fizzed up.

In effect You're asking us what size pussy your wife has?
And I think that has more variation than penis size considering the size of a babys head lol.

Realistically though. Lovehoney does actually catagorise them by size.
Large is usually 7" upwards and girthy from 4.5" diameter.

I'm not sure what normal is.

So just below below this large should feel snug and my view is women like to feel a fulmess. Sometimes a stretch even.

Im sure the ladies will confirm that the only way to really know is try one for size.

C has a selection from 8 to 9" insertable and up to 6" girth.

Originally she went with those that were my size. Then stepped girth up a little so she is almost constantly on 8 and 5.5"

I don't int know if the vigina adapts and gets used to longer lengh because she didn't want to go longer than my own.

Good luck.
I would love to go through a period of dildo trials again.

[Keeping Him]

Length will be just short of banging on her cervix. Ouch.
Girth will depend on her and how warmed up she is. Or maybe the phase of the moon. Sometimes thin as a finger is delicious. Sometimes I want to be properly stretched, fucked hard and sore after.
Have fun figuring it out!

[Tongue+groove]

@ gggxthree

Keeping him, put it quite well. The variety in a woman’s pleasures are as many as the stars in the sky.

If my kh/wife would let me use a Strapon on her I would let her spend what she wanted in order to have every option available on a moments notice. Unfortunately for me she doesn’t care for dildos.

Consider yourself a fortunate man and take her shopping. I guarantee both of you will have fun.

[Tom Allen]

Back in the early days, we tried a number of them, most of which were crap, and landed up with a pricey but worth the money Vixskin Tex - which is roughly the same size and shape as my own equipment.

My wife enjoyed it for many years, but when it became apparent that my locked situation would be permanent, I offered to see if a slightly larger Vixskin would increase her pleasure. We looked at them online together, and settled on the Ranger. Online, just based on the measurements, it did not seem to be much larger - an inch longer, and maybe a half inch thicker in diameter.

In person, though, it was noticeably bigger and beefier than the Tex. I had to relearn how to gauge the depth, because that extra inch was just enough to bottom out. However, after a few weeks of practice, she told me that I could toss out all the other ones, and that the Ranger was her favorite.

Three years later, she reminds me every time.

[Nikki6]

Speaking of dildo preference (which is effectively the same as a strap on) I have three sizes I use. For the longest time I only used one 6” long and about 4.5” circumference. About the same size as my husband J. I never felt I’d want bigger.

But then J got me another, same circumference but longer. And I’d find as I was getting really close to orgasm he could give me an extra inch or so and really get me off. So I asked him to try just one more, also 7” long or so but just a hair thicker.

He got me a dildo that’s 8” long (no matter, you can use as much as you want in length) and 5.5” circumference. I was a little embarrassed how hard I came on that thing while J licked my clit.

I now mostly prefer the big one, but it is too big if we’ve had a long interval since our previous sex.

[Tongue+groove]

. I was a little embarrassed how hard I came on that thing while J licked my clit.

A lady should never be embarrassed about cumming. The method doesn’t matter. Lady orgasms are the most beautiful thing to witness. I guarantee your husband was quite impressed and proud of your orgasm. I would also place bets he felt honored to be a part of it.

FWIW a woman should never orgasm in private, she should always have a witness and be proud of what her body can do. It’s a magnificent thing you girls have. So hold your head high and wear that badge with honor.