[tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni

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@knownasherbert

I look forward to a time when she will tease me like this. As it is it doesn’t take much from her to get me worked up. Trouble is she says she feels bad about getting me worked up and feeling uncomfortable. I can’t seem to convince her that I enjoy it.

She’s getting there, only time will tell how far.

[Ontosomething]

Always comes down to the “what do you want” question.

Being that we are here, that’s fairly clear. So the next question is what action(s) can you take to accomplish said goal and are they within your control.

In this case, rather than trying to convince her (logical realm), help her feel the difference (emotional realm).

She lets you ejaculate…consciously be a little off the next day. Don’t go full asshole, but be just a little edgy maybe. Take a little longer to reply to texts, be a little less attentive, etc. … this is all subtle but it will be noticed.

If you really want to play with fire (I’d be scared to personally), the nuclear option is; and idk how a KH would respond here: “Will you xyz?” “No, I’m just not feeling it today.”

Keep in mind that this may very well piss her off and I’m not exactly sure how upset you’d like to make your wife/KH. My guess is you’ll get something along the lines of “WHAT?!? Are you sure you want to say that?” “You’re right, I’m sorry.” NOW do whatever it was she asked. (Even though your wife/KH is more to the vanilla side, expect a punishment if you go this route and I take no responsibility for that punishment)

She doesn’t let you cum, and you’re naturally in a mindset to take care of her any want/need/desire. Nothing needed here, it’s just natural.

Now rather than talking and using logic, you are letting your actions speak for themselves and guide her decision making. Yes it’s manufactured, FOR NOW, until it’s not necessary. You are still letting her ultimately make that link and you can’t give it to her. It has to come from within her being. The only thing you’re actually doing is helping connect those dots. AND once they connect …

NOTE: There’s really almost no talking in this process. It’s just your overall demeanor. This will happen naturally, or you can make the choice to consciously speed up the process as long as you STFU about it. Keep in mind that all of the above is fully within your control as I see it and you can choose to use any of it or absolutely none of it as well.

My thoughts are only worth what you paid for them.

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, expect a punishment if you go this route and I take no responsibility for that punishment)

I have considered going down the road you propose. It seems that when I take care of stuff, (household etc.) it has become a norm and not a rewarding experience.

She has been teasing me with threats of punishment. She also knows I would enjoy that. I just can’t seem to push her over the edge of punishing me for real and not for play. I actually made her a nice walnut paddle with hearts cut out. However the first sign of redness and she backs off. I crave more from her.

It’s a fine line of thoroughly pissing her off and play time. For her a spanking Is playtime but I need her to be pissed off and beat my ass.

Thanks for the input. It sounds like you’ve been down this road and I relish your input, hopefully it will help.

[Ontosomething]

It’s a fine line of thoroughly pissing her off and play time. For her a spanking Is playtime but I need her to be pissed off and beat my ass.

Thanks for the input. It sounds like you’ve been down this road and I relish your input, hopefully it will help.

Usually only takes once. This 10% a be careful what you wish for. I can recall both like they were yesterday.

I have been on the other side dealing with a bratty bitchy gf (my now Wife) and I have been the one receiving it from Her as well. Be aware that it also hurts the one giving it too. It’s actually super emotional.

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Be aware that it also hurts the one giving it too. It’s actually super emotional.

You said a mouthful there. It took her several attempts to realize what she was doing for me by warming my seat. She couldn’t grasp my pleasure from pain. In her mind she was hitting me, something she has never done nor would ever do. Hitting has never happened because it was never an option in our relationship.

So yes a super emotional hurdle for her, but one she is willing to attempt for me.

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Our son came in last night for the opening weekend of deer season. He doesn’t make it in too often as he works a lot and he lives 2 hours away. He texted when he was about an hour away. I knew there would be no hanky Panay this weekend, but that’s ok.

Mrs. G got up to make some preparations for him when he got here. She took little dog outside to do her business in the process. As she walks past me she holds up the dog leash to me and says.

Maybe I should get a leash to lead you around by.

With a surprised look I’m sure. I responded. maybe you should, but I doubt you will.

For someone who refuses to research anything the least bit sexual or taboo. she sure can shock me with some of her ideas and comments.

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If you heard a wild creature howling last night it was me.

It all started with the house being empty again. Mrs. G said she was headed to the shower and when she returned she would be looking for some special treatment. And she expected to be able to ogle some hard cock too.

So off to work I went, lights, music, bed prepared and a backup protector just in case.

She came in with just a towel and commented on what a nice job I did.

Some cuddles and down I went to stoke the fountain of youth. Several o’s later and,

Her. Get unlocked I want to see some cock.
Me. Yes ma’am. I hope you like it.
Her. Bring it closer I want to kiss it.
Me. Yes ma’am anything you want.

She proceeded to kiss and lick mr. Wanky to shine in all his glory. She even French kissed him, ran her pointy tongue into his little mouth. That nearly sent me to my knees.

Her. It’s nice that I still excite him so. Now bring him around so I can feel him inside me.
Me. Yes ma’am!

A few strokes inside her and even with my increased stamina from piv edging I almost lost it.

Her. Oh that feels so good. Cum inside me, fill me up.

It’s been 8 weeks and a day since I came by piv. I was beginning to think she was serious about only hotel sex. Over the last 57 days or one sixth of a year I have had limited recreation. Some piv edging, lots of pussy eating and a few ruins. She doesn’t like the word ruin she says it’s not a good term. She calls them dribble cums, and thinks they’re funny because of how I react.

Somewhere in the past 2 months she gave me a dribble then immediately went to a full on handjob with a post o torture. I thought it was verging on going overboard. She just laughed and said it’s so much fun to use my natural lube to calm my hormones.

Oh yeah back to fill me up

Me. You mean I get to cum inside you?
Her giving me a double titty twister. Yes! Cum for me! Cum now!

I haven’t been here in so long and now I can’t savor it. I was forced to cum on demand and she knew just how to get it out of me.

And so I did. I have never unloaded so much at once. I think I may have pulled a muscle. When I finished all I could do was roll off of her. She bounced up and said thank you and left for the bathroom. I fealty like a disposable used sex toy discarded to the side when she was done. It was awesome!

She rewarded me by letting me sleep unlocked. I woke in the early morning with the first awesome feeling morning wood I have felt in a really long time. It was so amazing to just stretch my manhood. That’s when I realized that caged morning wood is like waking from a good night’s sleeping and wanting to reach and stretch every muscle in your body, but only you can’t because you were wrapped up like a mummy in the night.

Side note since I started counting o’s the odds are roughly 27:1

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A brief discussion this evening and I thank her again for last night. I told her it had been 57 days since my previous piv cum. She just said. Awe you mean another 3 days and it would have been an even 60. When I told her not to get any ideas and numbers really don’t matter she just left the room laughing.

Hmm, why the 60 comment. She always says numbers don’t matter. Has she been reading Miss Emmie’s posts?




Living so rural power outages are somewhat common. Had one this morning about 2am. We have to drive about 2 miles to get cel service to call it in. To say the least our sleep was disrupted. I pretty much dozed on and off for the next 2 hours. At 4 am I woke with serious morning wood. I should’ve never slept uncaged the previous night. Mr. Wanky suddenly thinks he’s a free man.

As I lay there listening to her sleep and rubbing her ass I got a sudden urge to relieve myself. Surely a little diy wouldn’t hurt. After all this nub has me in herbi space again. Then I had to kick myself.

Me To self. What are you thinking.
Self. But you would have done it last year this time.
To self. But I’ve made a commitment to her to be a better man.
Self. She already thinks you’re the man. Just ask Mr. Wanky.
Mr. Wanky. Yes she does, she’s proud of us both. So why not get me out for a little relief. Just tell her you fell of the wagon.
Self. Yeah and she might give you some of the punishment you long for.
Me to self. Sure and she might just be so disappointed that she lays on a serious guilt trip and quits this journey.
Self. Now you know that she has intentionally left you to temptations before. So it shouldn’t be that bad.
Mr. Wanky. It’s getting really cramped in here, relief please.
Me. Both of you need to leave me alone. I’m getting up and going outside to cool off.

Outside

Mr.wanky. Help me please. It’s cold out here. Oh my how there is so much room in this nubby thing.
Self. Sorry I lost my head. You did the right thing.


Times like this I struggle to figure me out. But she’s worth it.

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Had a bad day yesterday. Not sure why but I was pissed off about everything. For some reason I was pissed at Mrs. G. She has been busy preparing a biannual report for work and I have felt forgotten for a few days now.

She has been leaving the emergency key visible for some time now. It’s a test I know. She admitted she was playing with my diy guilt. So I fell of the wagon and unlocked to give myself a go. Then I saw the return of some dry skin from the plastic nub. I wore it all summer with no problems and now this for a second time. It really took the thrill out of my notion to wank. So I lotioned up real good and left myself unlocked. I’m wondering if it’s the dry air from the wood heat.

Later in the evening heading to the shower.

Her. Your unlocked, why is that? I hope it’s because of your shower.
Me. Yes and no. It’s because I was pissed off at the world and was done with the cage. Then I saw my skin and came to my senses. And I felt selfishly neglected like it didn’t matter to you anymore.

Her. We’re you a good boy or did you play with yourself?

Me. Well, I wanted to but I didn’t. So I was kind of a good boy. But also a bit bratty too.

Her fondling me. You need to know I do care. Now get your shower. Then we need to get your skin healed up. In the mean time we need to figure out how to keep you healthy in your cage.

Me. So you want me to keep caged.

Her laughing. Absolutely! You’re not going back now. I want you locked for me. Remember that’s my cock you carry around.

She is so amazing. She brought me to my senses. I couldn’t do this without her. I feel so guilty about my attitude. And a metal nub is on order.

This whole leaving me home alone with the key is strange. It causes a feeling of she doesn’t care and at the same time I realize she may care more about me than I know. After all I have never had this much self control before.

The thought of wearing my own key but only able to use it with her permission would demonstrate just how much control she has on me. I doubt I mention the idea to her, just thinking out loud.

Not sure but I may have been experiencing a delayed drop from my piv cum a few days ago. If so I’ll need to learn how to deal with it better or avoid it all together.

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Still dealing with skin issues. I WANT my nub! I cant help it I need herbi space. Oh to have a chastity fairy visit me. And could Miss Vikki stop by on her way to somewhere. What does it take for a Miss Vikki to become a part of Mrs. G’s life.