So why am I here?
Because I used to have the most vanilla wife on this site and now she’s become spumoni. Spumoni ice cream is my favorite but difficult to find here in the Midwest USA. It’s a flavor without description, which is what she is becoming.
We started this journey on Jan 11, 20224 with a two week trial. Then we were on and off with chastity for the next two months. Somewhere in there we merged into a 24/7 lifestyle. Even though she takes her kh role seriously she has refused to do any research on her own. She has always said I need to talk to her and teach her how to be a kh. I think it’s more that she’s worried about stumbling onto some porn site, which is something she despises. I’ve tried to get her to visit this forum, but she says this is my personal space and she doesn’t want to violate it. She is a very “traditional” wife who is continually concerned with my welfare.
Thing is she’s a natural born kh and has come along for the ride whole heartedly. She has really become quite the creative thinker as a kh. I have journaled our journey with pen and paper and when I review it I am shocked at some of her behavioral changes. I have kept my journal on paper because it’s our venture and I’m really not a blogger of any sorts. In fact this is the first forum of any nature that I have ever visited much less become a member of. I’m not even on Facebook and everyone knows it. The world would stop spinning if anyone knew I was on an online forum.
The most I have shared about our journey is in the thread “Hot things your kh has said”. However today Mrs. Groove gave me some instructions that really messed with both of my heads. Then she said I needed to share my thoughts with my online friends. Sorry for the background ramble but it appears that I am here with the touch of the submit button.
So yesterdays discourse went a little something like this:
Her: I need you to be naked all day.
Me: Ok, no problem I like being naked. (We live quite rural so not a problem. In fact I spend a lot of time naked. )
Her: I mean completely naked as in no cage either. I want a show, I want to see it flopping around.
What a total head game for me and Mr. wanky. She wants a show!? I’m 21 days into a 28 day lockup and she wants to see me flop around.
Me: But I planned to work in my wood shop today.
Her: Then you better be careful about the tools you choose to use. Now get naked and don’t make me resort to the naughty points idea.
Me: yes ma’am.
Her while unlocking me: keep it firm and not too soft. Kinda pointing down and out, but no erections.
Me: I can’t control that.
Her:Don’t worry I’ll help you, and you need to tell your online friends about it too.
Me: Tell my online friends about it?
She wants to respect my privacy but at the same time she wants me to share my personal feelings about chastity. Not sure what she is up to, but that is why I am here.
So the only tools I used were a paintbrush and a garden hose, nice and safe.
Her: yes tell your online friends about today.
Me: ok but only because you said too.
Her giggling: oh look at how much he’s leaking. Why is he leaking so much.
Me: because he hasn’t felt anything in the nub for weeks, the feel of the molecules in the air is enough to excite him.
This drooling went on for about 2 hours, her snickering about it didn’t help either.
Later in the afternoon:
Her: You have been so good today about not playing with your self you might get a treat later. Now, he looks sad, make him hard for me.
Me: I can’t just make it hard.
Her talking to mr. Wanky: oh I bet you can get hard for me. Come on big guy and show me what you got. She kept talking to it like this and gently caressing and kissing it
And at the point of a nearly full erection. She stops and says: that’s a little too hard for my show, make it go down for me.
Me: yes ma’am I’ll do my best.
This sort of thing went on for the rest of the evening. At bed time she gives me my treat of pleasuring her.
At one point she says: I want to feel you inside, but no coming. That’s a week away.
I know how cruel she can be with piv edging and at the moment of entrance it happened, I went soft. Omg, what’s happening to my mind.
Her giggling: it’s ok I’m sure you’re just confused about will and will not happen.
I roll off of her frustrated and sit up on the side of the bed.
Her: come lie down with me. I know you can get it hard just stroke it for me. I like watching and you can add to my show today.
I’m holding her in on arm and rubbing mr. Wanky back to life when she pulls my arm from around her and in a demanding voice says.
“Use two hands!! Make it big, hard, red and shiny for me!!
Me: no I’ll cum
Her: No you won’t, just see how close you can get
Me: but
Her: no buts! Now do it, use both hands and get it close for me!
Needless to say my mind couldn’t comprehend what was happening. I was stroking away mentally avoiding cuming. Then she did the unexpected.
Her in her demanding voice: Cum! Cum for me NOW!! Do it don’t wait any longer, NOW!!
There was no time to think or question her. She had taken over my mind and my hands. I hadn’t exploded like that in 30 years. I was in a state of euphoric bliss. Then the second unexpected event. While I was milking out the last bit and my eyes were rolled into the back of my head, in one swift motion she scooped up my mess and forced it into my mouth.
From vanilla to spumoni because I asked her one day to be my key holder…
Oh where will this go?
[tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni
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She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub.
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My initial posts may appear strange on the timeline. It took me an extra day to get it loaded. Thanks to admin for your help. Still not sure what the issue was. I just started fresh and all went well.
Anyway, Mrs. Groove got home from work yesterday and the first thing she says to me is, “ did you get your post done?”
I can’t believe she actually wants me sharing these things. I have to wonder if she is actually seeking kh feedback on how she is handling her role in this lifestyle.
Either way I’m here, all the while wondering about a digital footprint that can never be erased.
Anyway, Mrs. Groove got home from work yesterday and the first thing she says to me is, “ did you get your post done?”
I can’t believe she actually wants me sharing these things. I have to wonder if she is actually seeking kh feedback on how she is handling her role in this lifestyle.
Either way I’m here, all the while wondering about a digital footprint that can never be erased.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub.
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Re: [tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni
Wow. From your description she seems to be flexing her role as kh. My wife and kh are also new to this. I have told her I am not sure where this is all going but it feels right for me. Take time and talk to me about what you are feeling about this.
Since starting this new play in our lives, I feel it has opened a line of communication we had never crossed before. Awkward at times but more truthful than the past. I like truth over awkward.
What I do like is how quickly my thoughts have changed from my wants to putting her first. She seems ok as long as I am not too pushy with my new feelings and actions for her. The feelings are not new but repressed in my selfishness, thus new to her.
I look forward to hearing more about your journey. Best wishes to you and Miss Spumoni.
Since starting this new play in our lives, I feel it has opened a line of communication we had never crossed before. Awkward at times but more truthful than the past. I like truth over awkward.
What I do like is how quickly my thoughts have changed from my wants to putting her first. She seems ok as long as I am not too pushy with my new feelings and actions for her. The feelings are not new but repressed in my selfishness, thus new to her.
I look forward to hearing more about your journey. Best wishes to you and Miss Spumoni.
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Mrs. Spumoni, that’s a good one, she liked it too. Maybe I’ll use it as code for the times she flexes her kh muscles.
This upcoming Sunday will be day 28 and my scheduled PIV release date. Honestly I’m a little nervous about it.
It has been an odd four days, Mrs. groove went back to work this week after a four week break. She wasn’t too interested in me doing her any favors I guess she was just consumed with work stuff. Really kind of strange when you consider her Sunday free-for-all this last week and how it really jacked up my mind. I don’t know what her intentions were giving me that six hour, give her a show, completely naked freedom. I do know it was out of character for her to talk to Mr. Wanky as if I wasn’t even in the room.
She left early this morning for a four-day excursion with our daughter hopefully day 28 will be an enjoyable reunion. With her lack if intimate interests this week it will be 8 days since we’ve had any play time when she returns. I’m expecting her to be too exhausted to be interested in my needs. Until then it’s just me and her little dog.
I will say that right before she left she took the key off, held it high and said, “I won’t be needing this for a while” . I had a sudden fear she was going to leave it on the table. Then with a smile she dropped it into the bottom of her large handbag.
Probably never find it again. There’s been more things disappear in there than could fit in it.
I am thankful that she gave me a few loose minutes to shave up last night. She used to unlock me for every shower but since I’ve learned how to effectively cage clean it’s now only twice a week to shave.
Her dog looks depressed, this could be a long 4 days.
This upcoming Sunday will be day 28 and my scheduled PIV release date. Honestly I’m a little nervous about it.
It has been an odd four days, Mrs. groove went back to work this week after a four week break. She wasn’t too interested in me doing her any favors I guess she was just consumed with work stuff. Really kind of strange when you consider her Sunday free-for-all this last week and how it really jacked up my mind. I don’t know what her intentions were giving me that six hour, give her a show, completely naked freedom. I do know it was out of character for her to talk to Mr. Wanky as if I wasn’t even in the room.
She left early this morning for a four-day excursion with our daughter hopefully day 28 will be an enjoyable reunion. With her lack if intimate interests this week it will be 8 days since we’ve had any play time when she returns. I’m expecting her to be too exhausted to be interested in my needs. Until then it’s just me and her little dog.
I will say that right before she left she took the key off, held it high and said, “I won’t be needing this for a while” . I had a sudden fear she was going to leave it on the table. Then with a smile she dropped it into the bottom of her large handbag.
Probably never find it again. There’s been more things disappear in there than could fit in it.
I am thankful that she gave me a few loose minutes to shave up last night. She used to unlock me for every shower but since I’ve learned how to effectively cage clean it’s now only twice a week to shave.
Her dog looks depressed, this could be a long 4 days.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub.
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Awake at 430 as usual. I seldom sleep later than 5. The bed was cold without Mrs. G. Turned her dog out for her morning constitutional. When she returned she searched the house twice then went to her morning spot where Mrs. G drinks her coffee.
I feel bad for her, she’s not eating properly.
I can’t remember the last time we spent a night apart. It’s been at least a year maybe two. One thing is certain, I probably wanked myself silly, not this time though.
Three days left, gonna have to find something to occupy my mind and hands.
I feel bad for her, she’s not eating properly.
I can’t remember the last time we spent a night apart. It’s been at least a year maybe two. One thing is certain, I probably wanked myself silly, not this time though.
Three days left, gonna have to find something to occupy my mind and hands.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub.
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Less than 24 hours to go woo hoo can’t wait till my girl gets home! I’ve been feeling what Herbi calls, the empty void of space, as provided by the nub. It’s rather strange sometimes it gets a little tingly feeling in there like it’s wanting to feel something but it can’t. Mrs. Groove hasn’t asked about how I’m feeling, nor have I volunteered any info. I’m wanting her and our daughter to enjoy their trip to the fullest.
The question will be when she returns, will she be ready for the 28 day PIV release? I have no plans to mention it or bring it up. It’s totally in her hands. If she’s too tired, I’m probably looking at another five or six days. Her having taken time off work last week will cause her to be swamped this week. When she gets swamped, she gets exhausted from the long days and I just wait it out.
Best case scenario, she comes home relaxed and really horny.
Worst case scenario is she wants a show again. Please no! Last Sunday was on the brink of T&D psychological abuse. I would rather have another 5 or 6 days of waiting.
Not sure why I even bother with my preferences, it’s her choice after all.
The question will be when she returns, will she be ready for the 28 day PIV release? I have no plans to mention it or bring it up. It’s totally in her hands. If she’s too tired, I’m probably looking at another five or six days. Her having taken time off work last week will cause her to be swamped this week. When she gets swamped, she gets exhausted from the long days and I just wait it out.
Best case scenario, she comes home relaxed and really horny.
Worst case scenario is she wants a show again. Please no! Last Sunday was on the brink of T&D psychological abuse. I would rather have another 5 or 6 days of waiting.
Not sure why I even bother with my preferences, it’s her choice after all.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub.
Re: [tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni
Almost spooky how similar your experience is to Herbi's.Tongue+groove wrote: ↑Sat Aug 24, 2024 12:45 pm I’ve been feeling what Herbi calls, the empty void of space, as provided by the nub. It’s rather strange sometimes it gets a little tingly feeling in there like it’s wanting to feel something but it can’t.
He has also described that tingly feeling too. As if it "wants to feel something" just as you say!
Sadly (for him at least) it doesn't get beyond 'almost feeling something' Hahaha!!!
I just love the nub.
Everything's better with a locked male. Better still with a nude, locked male.
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So is the tingly feeling what women get when they say they have an itch to be scratched.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub.
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About 6 hours until she returns. I really am not accustomed to her not being here. Forget being unlocked, I just need her presence again. Her little dog is depressed again and has quit searching the house for her.
The outside dog didn’t even want to go for a walk yesterday evening. Depressed also?
I have a feeling I will be waiting in line to reunite with her.
The outside dog didn’t even want to go for a walk yesterday evening. Depressed also?
I have a feeling I will be waiting in line to reunite with her.
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Less than 3 hours to go:
Laundry caught up *
Dishes done *
Floors cleaned *
Bathroom *
Financial records caught up*
Cats fed*
Hanging plants watered *
Counters cleaned and polished*
New linens on the bed (check, check and check again)***
Dog? Where’s her little dog? Find the dog and get it outside before it has an accident!
Laundry caught up *
Dishes done *
Floors cleaned *
Bathroom *
Financial records caught up*
Cats fed*
Hanging plants watered *
Counters cleaned and polished*
New linens on the bed (check, check and check again)***
Dog? Where’s her little dog? Find the dog and get it outside before it has an accident!
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub.