Thanks for the advice. I have several cages. CB which is very uncomfortable and broke when I got hard. A larger steel one which let me get hard and was very very painful and protruded. I bought a smaller steel one which feels great and I can wear it for extended periods. Until I get hard. Then it is extremely painful. During sex with my wife my penis was so hard and trying to escape I couldn't really do anything. Again this protruded and things were going blue. My wife insisted I remove it. I have ordered a flat one to try and prevent an erection from even starting. I do listen fellas. I want to be able to make love to my wife with a strap on. ATM I can't.. I will buy a nub too.. hopefully preventing any erection beginning.. that would be the goal.
Bob