Yesterday I asked her what I could do to earn getting out as it has been 30 days without any type of relief. I wasn’t even asking for an orgasm, but just being allowed to have an erection outside of the cage.
She told me she’ll unlock it when she has the desire, not when she feels obligated because of my behavior or length of time.
Wow. I didn’t expect that out of my (used to be) vanilla wife! And no, I wasn’t allowed to get out or allowed any other type of relief.
On we go….
[inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
As of Friday, September 6th, I had been locked for 31 days. As usual, I took a shower right before bed. I fully expected our normal routine – watch a TV show before fun or bed. I propped up on my pillow and got comfortable. My wife was already in bed and rolled toward me as I grabbed the remote.
She grabbed my pajama pants and asked me “I get it out whenever I want, right?” I told her that was correct as she pulled down my pants. She told me to get her favorite toy and some lubricant. I leaned over and got them out of the nightstand. When I gave it to her, she set them aside and she pushed my chest back making me lie down.
She bent over, unlocked me, removed the lock, and then pulled the cage off. I instantly got excited. The way she was positioned bent over me I thought I may get some very rare oral treatment. Instead, I felt her hands lube me up. Then she did something I didn’t expect - she mounted me while I was on my back. She must have been excited because I slipped all the way in very quickly. As I was fully in her, she grabbed her favorite toy and turned it on. When she placed her toy on her clit it also buzzed the base of my penis. This added with her movements caused me to finish very quickly.
After I was completely spent, she lifted herself off me and surprised me again. She rubbed her very wet crotch on my belly. Not only did she rub it on me, but she also even said “Can you feel that? I’m cleaning up by rubbing that mess on you.” WOW! She has NEVER said anything like that!
When she was satisfied that she was “clean” enough, she rolled off, grabbed her toy and my hand, and directed me to make her finish. Which she did.
There hasn’t been any fun since Friday except her grabbing my crotch once or twice over the weekend. And I’m still unlocked.
On we go….
She grabbed my pajama pants and asked me “I get it out whenever I want, right?” I told her that was correct as she pulled down my pants. She told me to get her favorite toy and some lubricant. I leaned over and got them out of the nightstand. When I gave it to her, she set them aside and she pushed my chest back making me lie down.
She bent over, unlocked me, removed the lock, and then pulled the cage off. I instantly got excited. The way she was positioned bent over me I thought I may get some very rare oral treatment. Instead, I felt her hands lube me up. Then she did something I didn’t expect - she mounted me while I was on my back. She must have been excited because I slipped all the way in very quickly. As I was fully in her, she grabbed her favorite toy and turned it on. When she placed her toy on her clit it also buzzed the base of my penis. This added with her movements caused me to finish very quickly.
After I was completely spent, she lifted herself off me and surprised me again. She rubbed her very wet crotch on my belly. Not only did she rub it on me, but she also even said “Can you feel that? I’m cleaning up by rubbing that mess on you.” WOW! She has NEVER said anything like that!
When she was satisfied that she was “clean” enough, she rolled off, grabbed her toy and my hand, and directed me to make her finish. Which she did.
There hasn’t been any fun since Friday except her grabbing my crotch once or twice over the weekend. And I’m still unlocked.
On we go….
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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
I haven’t posted in several months because not much has been happening. Since my last post she has kept me mostly out including all of January 2024.
She has noticed a change in me and decided that although she’s really not in chastity, she likes my behavior, attitude, and attention I give her when I’m locked up. This is a result of a few frank and open discussions. She knows I preferred to be locked in chastity, but she’s torn because she likes to be able to touch and play with me without hindrance whenever she wants. Getting the key and unlocking me is an extra step and mood killer to her.
After promising to lock me up several times in the past month, it finally happened! She made me actually beg her to lock me in chastity and not EVER ask to be unlocked. She made me promise that it was 100% up to her, if, when,and how I would have my next orgasm. Also had to promise not to mention chastity, send any text or images about chastity, and keep my cage out of her sight. She doesn’t find it attractive or sexy, but likes the benefits of me wearing it.
I also can’t mention or ask her to wear the keys on the necklace or anything else related to the situation. I had to agree that when she wants any sexual attention, she would be the one that instigates it, not me. However, I am expected to rub on her shoulders, back, and bottom nightly.
She closed the lock at 9:45 pm on February 3, 2024.
On we go….
She has noticed a change in me and decided that although she’s really not in chastity, she likes my behavior, attitude, and attention I give her when I’m locked up. This is a result of a few frank and open discussions. She knows I preferred to be locked in chastity, but she’s torn because she likes to be able to touch and play with me without hindrance whenever she wants. Getting the key and unlocking me is an extra step and mood killer to her.
After promising to lock me up several times in the past month, it finally happened! She made me actually beg her to lock me in chastity and not EVER ask to be unlocked. She made me promise that it was 100% up to her, if, when,and how I would have my next orgasm. Also had to promise not to mention chastity, send any text or images about chastity, and keep my cage out of her sight. She doesn’t find it attractive or sexy, but likes the benefits of me wearing it.
I also can’t mention or ask her to wear the keys on the necklace or anything else related to the situation. I had to agree that when she wants any sexual attention, she would be the one that instigates it, not me. However, I am expected to rub on her shoulders, back, and bottom nightly.
She closed the lock at 9:45 pm on February 3, 2024.
On we go….
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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
Last night she was on her back with her arms over her head while I was over her buzzing her clit. The first edge was accidental as I moved to get more comfortable. She said “please make me finish” and the idea quickly formed. I held the wand just above her so she had to push her pelvis up to feel it. After she finally finished I kept it on low and just barely touching her when she had her second orgasm. She said I would get paid back tonight.
Afterwards we were having skin on skin (I was wearing pajama pants only) cuddle time and she asked me if was ok. I said “yes!” and inquired why she asked and she said she could feel me throbbing.
She went on to say she still feels a little guilty denying me because she can tell I’m excited.
I reminded her I asked for it. Multiple times. Repeatedly. I want it. She loves to orgasm but doesn’t like penetration because it’s painful. So, staying locked (what I want) makes me want to buzz her clit and make her orgasm (what she wants).
Being vanilla, she is worried that it’s “different” than her normal. I told her it’s a perfect arrangement and we both get what we want and she shouldn’t feel guilty. She agreed, but I’ll need to reinforce it a lot for her to feel 100% comfortable.
On we go….
Afterwards we were having skin on skin (I was wearing pajama pants only) cuddle time and she asked me if was ok. I said “yes!” and inquired why she asked and she said she could feel me throbbing.
She went on to say she still feels a little guilty denying me because she can tell I’m excited.
I reminded her I asked for it. Multiple times. Repeatedly. I want it. She loves to orgasm but doesn’t like penetration because it’s painful. So, staying locked (what I want) makes me want to buzz her clit and make her orgasm (what she wants).
Being vanilla, she is worried that it’s “different” than her normal. I told her it’s a perfect arrangement and we both get what we want and she shouldn’t feel guilty. She agreed, but I’ll need to reinforce it a lot for her to feel 100% comfortable.
On we go….
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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
I apologize for the extended absence- things have been busy.
Here is the short version: It was decided that I would remain locked indefinitely beginning Jan 1, 2025 and be allowed no more than 12 orgasms for the year.
For all of 2024, I was locked 282 days and she had 70 orgasms to my 12. I was allowed inside her 9 times last year with 4 of them being during one week while we were in Mexico on vacation. I had to stay locked over 100 days to earn it, though! I even got 2 blowjobs (not to completion) that week as a bonus - the first time in nearly a year!!
I have to keep my groin completely smooth at all times. We have switched cages to a knock-off Holy Trainer. We have both the Nano (1.18 inches long) and the Nub (0.87 inches long). She prefers the Nub because it makes me super horny very quickly.
She now enjoys holding/squeezing my balls when we make out or she’s buzzing her clit with her Magic Wand. That is her preferred way to orgasm - especially if I have a finger slightly in her bottom.
So far this year, she’s had two orgasms and I had one. She unlocked me and stroked me as she buzzed her clit. After her orgasm, she allowed me to put just the tip inside her. I was OK until she coughed and the contractions sent me over the edge. I tried to hold back because I wasn’t supposed to finish, so it was ruined and barely inside her. Whenever I am allowed to finish, I have to lock back up after a shower.
Now you’re all caught up!
On we go…
Here is the short version: It was decided that I would remain locked indefinitely beginning Jan 1, 2025 and be allowed no more than 12 orgasms for the year.
For all of 2024, I was locked 282 days and she had 70 orgasms to my 12. I was allowed inside her 9 times last year with 4 of them being during one week while we were in Mexico on vacation. I had to stay locked over 100 days to earn it, though! I even got 2 blowjobs (not to completion) that week as a bonus - the first time in nearly a year!!
I have to keep my groin completely smooth at all times. We have switched cages to a knock-off Holy Trainer. We have both the Nano (1.18 inches long) and the Nub (0.87 inches long). She prefers the Nub because it makes me super horny very quickly.
She now enjoys holding/squeezing my balls when we make out or she’s buzzing her clit with her Magic Wand. That is her preferred way to orgasm - especially if I have a finger slightly in her bottom.
So far this year, she’s had two orgasms and I had one. She unlocked me and stroked me as she buzzed her clit. After her orgasm, she allowed me to put just the tip inside her. I was OK until she coughed and the contractions sent me over the edge. I tried to hold back because I wasn’t supposed to finish, so it was ruined and barely inside her. Whenever I am allowed to finish, I have to lock back up after a shower.
Now you’re all caught up!
On we go…
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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
This is what our relationship has evolved to:
Last night was our typical night when I get lucky. She comes to bed and we watch a TV show. As we’re watching the show her pants come off and she spreads her legs signaling me she wants some attention.
I rub on her upper thighs, bottom (her favorite) and get close to her vagina, but never touch it while the tv is on. After the show (and she wants it) she will either move my hand where she wants it or tell me to get her wand. Last night it was hand first and I could feel her swollen clit and her getting very wet. My fingers barely go in at all unless she pushes them in. Last night she didn’t. After a few minutes the wand was requested.
She holds the wand on her clit while I tease her bottom by barely pushing a finger in. This is her preferred way to orgasm. It didn’t take long.
Last night I got really lucky! She could feel me throbbing in the cage and asked if I wanted the wand on my cage (over my pajama pants) but reminded me I couldn’t finish. I told her “yes!” It has been a week since my last ruined orgasm. She put the wand on me and instructed me to tell her when I was getting close. I did and she removed it. I was wanting more and she said I could do it for 10 more seconds (no cumming) but she would squeeze my balls afterwards.
She gave me the wand and when I turned it on, she counted to 10 and then took it away from me. Then she squeezed my balls pretty tightly. I told her “Thank you.”
She leaned over, gave me a kiss goodnight, then headed to the bathroom as I put everything away.
2025 orgasms: her 3, me 1 (ruined)
On we go…
Last night was our typical night when I get lucky. She comes to bed and we watch a TV show. As we’re watching the show her pants come off and she spreads her legs signaling me she wants some attention.
I rub on her upper thighs, bottom (her favorite) and get close to her vagina, but never touch it while the tv is on. After the show (and she wants it) she will either move my hand where she wants it or tell me to get her wand. Last night it was hand first and I could feel her swollen clit and her getting very wet. My fingers barely go in at all unless she pushes them in. Last night she didn’t. After a few minutes the wand was requested.
She holds the wand on her clit while I tease her bottom by barely pushing a finger in. This is her preferred way to orgasm. It didn’t take long.
Last night I got really lucky! She could feel me throbbing in the cage and asked if I wanted the wand on my cage (over my pajama pants) but reminded me I couldn’t finish. I told her “yes!” It has been a week since my last ruined orgasm. She put the wand on me and instructed me to tell her when I was getting close. I did and she removed it. I was wanting more and she said I could do it for 10 more seconds (no cumming) but she would squeeze my balls afterwards.
She gave me the wand and when I turned it on, she counted to 10 and then took it away from me. Then she squeezed my balls pretty tightly. I told her “Thank you.”
She leaned over, gave me a kiss goodnight, then headed to the bathroom as I put everything away.
2025 orgasms: her 3, me 1 (ruined)
On we go…
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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
Last night was like every other night. Until it wasn’t.
Yesterday afternoon and evening were normal. We got in the bed and watched our nightly TV show as I rubbed on her back and bottom over her pajamas. When the TV was turned off, she removed her pajama pants signaling she wanted more attention.
She told me she had a surprise for me as she showed me she had shaved smooth! This only happens a couple of times a year, so I was very pleased. Then she shocked me by saying “If you lick it good, I’ll let you get another 10 seconds!” She doesn’t really enjoy receiving or giving oral, so this was a double treat!
“10 seconds” is becoming her favorite reward for making her orgasm. I can put the wand on my cage while she counts to 10. Then she takes the wand out of my hand and turns it off. It feels amazing but nowhere near enough to orgasm, but makes me buzz for awhile. It also helps her not feel as guilty because she’s not totally denying me - I get something in return.
I quickly retrieved the wand as she spread her legs. I got between them and began to kiss, lick, and suck away as she buzzed her clit. As she was getting close, I lubed my finger with her juices and slid it into her bottom just a little bit - just the way she likes.
She orgasmed on my face - something I REALLY like but isn’t her favorite. She collapsed and enjoyed the afterglow of her orgasm as I held her. When she recovered, she told me to go brush my teeth and wash my face because I smelled like her.
When I returned, she gave me the wand and told me I earned 15 seconds. I held the wand on my cage as she slowly counted to 15, then she took it away, turned it off, and kissed me passionately as she squeezed my balls.
I thought to myself: I had to convince her to let me try chastity 5 years ago. She was totally against the idea and so vanilla and innocent. Look what it has evolved to!
2025 orgasms: her 6, me 1 (ruined)
On we go….
Yesterday afternoon and evening were normal. We got in the bed and watched our nightly TV show as I rubbed on her back and bottom over her pajamas. When the TV was turned off, she removed her pajama pants signaling she wanted more attention.
She told me she had a surprise for me as she showed me she had shaved smooth! This only happens a couple of times a year, so I was very pleased. Then she shocked me by saying “If you lick it good, I’ll let you get another 10 seconds!” She doesn’t really enjoy receiving or giving oral, so this was a double treat!
“10 seconds” is becoming her favorite reward for making her orgasm. I can put the wand on my cage while she counts to 10. Then she takes the wand out of my hand and turns it off. It feels amazing but nowhere near enough to orgasm, but makes me buzz for awhile. It also helps her not feel as guilty because she’s not totally denying me - I get something in return.
I quickly retrieved the wand as she spread her legs. I got between them and began to kiss, lick, and suck away as she buzzed her clit. As she was getting close, I lubed my finger with her juices and slid it into her bottom just a little bit - just the way she likes.
She orgasmed on my face - something I REALLY like but isn’t her favorite. She collapsed and enjoyed the afterglow of her orgasm as I held her. When she recovered, she told me to go brush my teeth and wash my face because I smelled like her.
When I returned, she gave me the wand and told me I earned 15 seconds. I held the wand on my cage as she slowly counted to 15, then she took it away, turned it off, and kissed me passionately as she squeezed my balls.
I thought to myself: I had to convince her to let me try chastity 5 years ago. She was totally against the idea and so vanilla and innocent. Look what it has evolved to!
2025 orgasms: her 6, me 1 (ruined)
On we go….
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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
We had a new experience last night. It was relatively minor, but I thought it was hot!!
After our normal bed routine (watching TV show while I rubbed on her back and bottom), she took off her pajama pants signaling she wanted more intimate attention.
She was on her stomach as I rubbed her bottom and working my way slowly to the middle. As I played with her bottom, I felt movement that I wasn’t causing. I discovered she was rubbing her clit. She never does that - at least in front of me! I slid my fingers forward and discovered her clit was very swollen and she was VERY wet!!! Wow! She asked for her wand and also what did I want her to do while I got it. I told her to keep her fingers active and make sure she’s ready.
She was lying face down on the bed humping the wand as I held it between her legs and she continued to rub on her clit. She told me to quit only watching because she wanted my finger in her bottom. I knew it would take me a few seconds to get up, get the lube, and return - and she was CLOSE!! I told her I would, but not to orgasm until my finger was in her bottom and she replied she would try.
I returned and slid my lubed finger in and felt her muscles contract around my finger as she gasped. I told her I would count to 10 then she could orgasm. As I slowly counted to 10 I could tell this was going to be a big one!
After I reached 10, I told her to finish for me - dirty talk really isn’t our thing - and she did. Loudly and long as her body shook and I throbbed in my cage. It was either one very long orgasm, or two back to back.
Afterwards as we cuddled, I told her “Thank you” and reminded her she wasn’t being selfish or gross - two things that bother her since she’s “vanilla.”
After a few minutes she went to the bathroom and I started thinking as I put everything away. That was all about her. She told me exactly what she wanted and never even touched me or mentioned my pleasure. There’s no telling what was going through her mind as she was face down with my finger in her bottom. I can say one thing, she wasn’t worried about me.
2025 orgasm: her 7, me 1 (ruined)
On we go….
After our normal bed routine (watching TV show while I rubbed on her back and bottom), she took off her pajama pants signaling she wanted more intimate attention.
She was on her stomach as I rubbed her bottom and working my way slowly to the middle. As I played with her bottom, I felt movement that I wasn’t causing. I discovered she was rubbing her clit. She never does that - at least in front of me! I slid my fingers forward and discovered her clit was very swollen and she was VERY wet!!! Wow! She asked for her wand and also what did I want her to do while I got it. I told her to keep her fingers active and make sure she’s ready.
She was lying face down on the bed humping the wand as I held it between her legs and she continued to rub on her clit. She told me to quit only watching because she wanted my finger in her bottom. I knew it would take me a few seconds to get up, get the lube, and return - and she was CLOSE!! I told her I would, but not to orgasm until my finger was in her bottom and she replied she would try.
I returned and slid my lubed finger in and felt her muscles contract around my finger as she gasped. I told her I would count to 10 then she could orgasm. As I slowly counted to 10 I could tell this was going to be a big one!
After I reached 10, I told her to finish for me - dirty talk really isn’t our thing - and she did. Loudly and long as her body shook and I throbbed in my cage. It was either one very long orgasm, or two back to back.
Afterwards as we cuddled, I told her “Thank you” and reminded her she wasn’t being selfish or gross - two things that bother her since she’s “vanilla.”
After a few minutes she went to the bathroom and I started thinking as I put everything away. That was all about her. She told me exactly what she wanted and never even touched me or mentioned my pleasure. There’s no telling what was going through her mind as she was face down with my finger in her bottom. I can say one thing, she wasn’t worried about me.
2025 orgasm: her 7, me 1 (ruined)
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Re: [inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked
I work from home and start working before she leaves for work. She normally yells “Bye, I love you” from downstairs as she’s leaving. However, this morning she came upstairs and kissed me passionately (with tongue) while squeezing my balls before telling me she was leaving.
With her being very vanilla, we often text about adult topics since she’s not comfortable taking about them face to face. Here is todays conversation:
With her being very vanilla, we often text about adult topics since she’s not comfortable taking about them face to face. Here is todays conversation:
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