Explaining Male Chastity to the Reluctant KeyHolder

[wishful4]

Need to talk to your wife/SO about your desire for Male Chastity? Here is a straightforward way to explain it to her.

“Many women have a hard time understanding male chastity. Why does your man want his penis locked up and you to hold the key? The first thing is, don’t over analyze this. He is not dissatisfied with you or making any statements about your relationship. Quite the opposite is true. He loves you and trusts you enough to share a desire that he would never tell anyone else. Simply put, he is giving you a gift.

You have plenty of time to research what Male Chastity is all about, but here is a straightforward way to think of it and fit it into your relationship in the beginning. Accept the gift he is offering. Once you lock him up, his penis is yours. One way to think about it is that his penis is your toy. He doesn’t own it, it belongs to you. It’s just parked on his body. It exists for your pleasure and amusement. If you allow him to play with it excessively, it distracts from your quality time together and may affect his sexual performance. This may be why he is offering this gift to you to begin with. Unknown to you, he may be overindulging in self pleasuring.

Now that you have taken control of it, you can take it out and play with it anytime you wish, and then put it safely back in its cage when you are done. The two of you spend valuable time together and become closer. It’s a win-win for both of you. If you think of it this way, you will find it much easier to incorporate chastity in your relationship. You aren’t locking something of his up. You are keeping your toy safe. You’ll be surprised how powerful this concept is.”

[Linus]

Good post.
Precise and effective!

[greecemonkey]

My lady was unsure at first but very quicly came to find that she felt empowered by no longer feeling the need (her words) to deliver the goods and satisfy me. Now she does just what she wants, regardless of how it leaves me and we both find this hugey erotic. I'm horny and attentive all the time and whilst enjoying the attention, she does her own thing, which often includes a good amount of cbt which gets her off, but on her own terms. She finds herself more confident in her sexuality and takes this attitude outside the relationship, dressing and behaving much more sexually with other males, which drives me wild as well.