How often do you get wet dreams or or otherwise unintentionally orgasm while giving your wife cunnilingus, etc.?
For me, it might happen about once or a few times a year (though I'm new to the cage, I'm not new to enforced chastity: over a decade now under the honour system though I learnt the terminology recently). Though I get to engage in intercourse only about two days in about a month (I get to only give oral sex the rest of the month), I will usually have multiple opportunities in those few days to significantly reduce the pressure. Call it binging
What has been your experience with unintentional orgasms?
I haven't been able to keep from spontaneously spilling cum if I wait much longer than two and a half weeks. I've gone longer without orgasm, but I always seem to pour out semen involuntarily if I go much longer than two weeks.
It's happened 4 times in that last twelve months. They weren't "ruined" orgasms. There was no touching involved. But they all were when I was unlocked. Perhaps I could go longer if always locked. I'm on the honor system mostly myself.
The thought of ejaculating just from pleasuring my wife sounds awesome, by the way. Congrats.
Never. After 40+ years my wife knows my body very well. She can stop two strokes away from an orgasm. I even learned some of the things I do right before I cum that I was totally unaware of.
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle
