To "VI" or not to Viagra, that is the ...

[longing4it]

So the question is this, without taking Viagra, my cock does not spontaneously enlarge, it is less sensitive, and it doesn't feel very responsive. Coaxing it to become engorged is a chore. It can be done, but at the cost of spontaneity. I also think my general arousal level is reduced. The consequence of this would be a much reduced sense of urgency for release when locked up. Sort of an unfair advantage, don't you think. It takes the "T" out of T&D.

Don't you think that She should require me to dose myself regularly during my locked periods? Doing it safely, of course.

I'd appreciate any comments or opinions.

[Dannyboy]

Will you be self medicating or going to a doctor for the drugs. I don't think there is any harm in taking viagra or one of its other generic drugs assuming you don't suffer any serious side effects. I'm not a doctor but is it really safe to be taking day after day or are you on about just taking regularly as and when the situation required.

[longing4it]

Thanks for the question. I do have a prescription for Viagra. It warns only about taking more than one in 24 hours. I'll have to check with Urologist.

I've been thinking about it, and I think the answer lies in how our fantasies and goals reveal themselves as we go along. We're just beginning this journey. She hasn't committed to being my KH in any formal way. She's playing along, but hasn't "embraced" the idea. Neither have we had the time to experiment and come to understand our roles and desires. Neither have we developed the habits and rituals to allow us to sink into that altered state of consciousness where our passion takes over.

For example, I like frequent contact and stimulation. Having an orgasm is not my goal. I'm a journey guy, not a destination one. She is definitely a destination gal. I don't like having an orgasm when she does not. I love seeing her role her eyes back and come. So one fantasy is that she will only let me come if she has come, and then only if she decides. She could then set the agenda and instruct me to take the pills on her schedule.

I also think that at this stage there may seem to be a lot of topping from the bottom, as it were. However, I think that is normal given the stage of development we're in. In part that's why I pose the question to more experienced people.

[Dannyboy]

Especially in the early stages I don't think there is any problem in what may be classed as topping from the bottom. If some one is new to this and learning then there is no problem in suggesting things to try and finding your boundaries and limits this is how you will find our what works for the both of you and you will find as time progreses things will change.

[longing4it]

Thanks. I appreciate the support and encouragement.

[Locked by LRC]

I don't take any of these so I'm just asking based on what I've read and understand about them.

To make your experience longer would Cialis make a better choice? Instead of lasting for about 6 hours the effect would last for about 36 hours. If I'm understanding it correctly, with Cialis there needs to be stimulation (visual or touch) for an erection. Viagra is more spontaneous.

If what I understand is true this would seem to put the T&D in the control of the KH and not the pill.

[longing4it]

You're idea about being more regularly available to Her for T&D is very interesting.

Cialis is fine. I took it for several years. It is, however, expensive. A script for 27 tablets cost $250 - $300. My health care provider changed the script to the generic Viagra, Sildenafil, at a much reduced cost. My health plan's contract with my retirement program allows them to prescribe generics as a cost saving strategy. I've been fine with that, but they would revert to Cialis again, if I asked. I don't know if that is the way She wants ro travel. Something to discuss with Her.

Daily use would probably be counter productive, anyway. It is used for treatment of pulmonary hypertension. My blood pressure is low enough, now. I also wonder if my response to it would diminish over time.

[TwistedMister]

Cialis has the 'daily use' pill now, could look into that.

[longing4it]

As I've had the opportunity to experience the effects of Viagra while caged and teased, I would have to say that to be required to take it daily, and particularly in the evening, would border on sadism.

Until recently, I'd been jacking off three or four times a day. Since beginning this experience of chastity (or in my case, chastity being relative), the longest I've gone without an orgasm is only 3 days and change. More recently, I've been self denying, in the hopes that not having orgasms for several days would improve the chances of being able to achieve an erection sufficient to have penetrative sex with She Who Must Be Obeyed.

Last night, before dinner, She came to me with a Viagra tablet. She put it on the coffee table, and she walked away without saying a word. I took it. Mistake?

We went to bed, and She promptly rolled over and went to sleep. Jake with me, but ..., sometime later, I woke up bulging out through the bars of the cage. I iced down, only to wake an hour later, my cock bulging again. It was a long night. Did she know this would happen when she brought out the tablet?

One night = Kinky
Two nights = Challenging
Three nights = Whimpering

When she saw my cock bulging when she woke up, and I'd told her it had been happening all night, she thought it a good idea to take the cage off to stretch. My cock instantly shot up a gazillion inches. The good news is that it was hard enough to hang my bath towel on it. The bad news was that she had to go to work.

What if she does it again, tonight?

I need to take a nap.

[Grizzly228]

Tried it a few times as I was having side effects from an antidepressant. It DID enable me to have sex easier than I had yet my face was flushes for two days and felt like I was going to have a heart attack. Also at my next eye appt they said I might have beginning stages of glaucoma in one eye. I don't know if it's related or not but I'd suggest not taking it. At least based on my reactions and risks.