Bruising and Width

[notbeinfringed85]

I am wondering what I can do about brusing on the underside of my penis where the cage ends. I am currently taking a break from my Bon4 because of this. The length is right, according to what others suggest, just slightly shorter than my flaccid length. However, I can get a lot if pressure when I become aroused in the device width wise. I tend to grow "out" significantly. A metal cage is out of the question due to my career. I go from 4 1/2" (114mm) soft at this place to 6 1/2" (165mm) in circumference at the base. Is there a trick too keep this from brusing or do I need to man up and deal with it?

[Michele]

Are you very new to your device? I can't think of anything specific - but maybe the guys who actually wear a device do lol. I know that over time in a device guys have said they get used to them and they kinda stop fighting against the cage. Almost like your dick trains itself not to get so hard in there, if that makes sense?

Wish I had some better advice for you! Good luck and don't give up!

[notbeinfringed85]

I am new to chastity all together. I hope that time I it will help. We kinda jumped into this thing headlong, not taking advice to ease into it. I went 5 days straight for the first time. She decided I'm out till Monday, then back in when I'm unsupervised. She tends to set deadlines and dates, so she said by May 1st, I need to be adjusted for long term wear. This really is my desire for her, so I'm gonna stick with it.

[Michele]

I am new to chastity all together. I hope that time I it will help. We kinda jumped into this thing headlong, not taking advice to ease into it. I went 5 days straight for the first time. She decided I'm out till Monday, then back in when I'm unsupervised. She tends to set deadlines and dates, so she said by May 1st, I need to be adjusted for long term wear. This really is my desire for her, so I'm gonna stick with it.

That could totally be it too! Definitely need a little lead up... a few hours, a day, a couple days, a week... etc.

Good luck and be good!

[Tame Lion]

It is likely you just get overexcited by being caged. Give it some time. The Bon 4 gave me trouble too. That silicone is too grabby.