how to cope

[bottombitch91]

hey, im new so if this topic is discussed all the time I appologize

I am 21 and gay and finally found a key holder. its different than when I am my own KH because now I cant take it off when I have a moment of weakness and its difficult

how can i cope? im on day 5 and i feel like im going crazy. especially when i pleasure him and i know i cant have it. im so horny i feel that sleep is the only relief i can get and even then i wake up from my cage

what are psychological ways to handle this new reality of being a chastity slave?

[Aarkey]

Some suggestions: Journaling. Meditation. Cold Showers. And communicate with him. As you are new to the experience, it can take a while to learn to balance the denial with real life. Its a rare person who can jump right into the experience and go for weeks at a time without any release.

Oh, and have fun... you are experiencing what many have referred to as the "careful what you wish for" moment.

[poor]

When you are absolutely sure that you've reached your breaking point and can't take any more, try pushing the tip of your tongue hard into the roof of your mouth until it tires. It works for some (me included) and assists the moment to pass.

[bottombitch91]

thanks, both good sudgesstions. yes this is the careful what you wish for phase, thats why I do this

i dont like being in chastity, which is why i like it so much

[reeve]

Learn to enjoy it. I've noticed the first 2-3 days are the hardest to get into it for me.
As a device is being customized for me we play the game on the honor system wich I seem to fail a lot of times but only the first few days.

I've noticed that after that I still feel very horny but I could keep myself from jerking off.
Also from that moment I start hoping I'm never allowed to cum
When my JB is done and sent to me I'm gonna ask for a whole month of denial!

The important thing is; are you next to going crazy enjoying it?

[reeve]

How's it going now? Are you in for 15 days or have you've been granted release ?