My first year of chasity

[Atone]

I actually finished my first year of chastity back on July 9th. I have been wanting to figure out what my average period of denial was but honestly have just been to lazy to make a spreadsheet to figure it out. I was motivated today by a blog post by Harry Haversackers (you can see it here http://whatthefuckdoesharryhavetosaytod ... ve-it.html)

It turns out I shouldn't have waited so long, there really weren't that many entries in the calendar that needed to go in the spreadsheet.

Total Orgasms allowed - 7
Average # of days between orgasms - 52
Shortest period between orgasms - 2
Longest period between orgasms - 190

If you throw out the highest (190) and lowest (2) the average period was 34 days

Here is the raw data (in days) 45, 2, 190, 25, 61, 22, 17

The short period was the very first release. That was an orgasm "honeymoon" as suggested by Sarah Jameson in BCWYWF. We quickly decided that was not for us and went to releases being just one orgasm for me.

I think I might have had more chastity devices in that first year than I did orgasms.

CB3000
Mature Metal Jailbird (1 3/8" x 2.5")
Mature Metal Jailbird (1 1/8" x 2.25")
Mature Metal Pet Trap (1 1/8" x 2")
Modified the Pet Trap to have Jailbird style cage on the end
Mature Metal Jailbird (mixed ring sizes 1 1/8" at the base, 1 1/4" at the end, 2 1/4" length)
Kali's Teeth Bracelet
Steelworxx locking cockring
Steelworxx Steelheart

yep, more devices than orgasms even if you only count the Pet Trap once.

It is a little like the mastercard commercial - A year of great sex and a fantasy fulfilled - Priceless

Looking back on the first year I have to say it was pretty good. I had all the orgasms I wanted and only two that I didn't want (the one mentioned above, and one other time where I wish my wife had waited a bit longer). Amazing how normal it seems to me to say that now.

I went through a lot of devices but each one was a learning experience. The one I wore the most was the smallest jailbird. The one I am wearing currently is the Steelheart and it will be the longest soon (it might be already but I don't keep track of that). The only device that I never could get quite right was the Pet Trap. It was an amazing device, very compact and very comfortable. I just couldn't keep the penis lined up right in it and it became a hygiene issue. I couldn't wear the KTB for more than a couple of days either but I never expected to be able to, that was more for the pain play and to have something that I could wear if my balls became stressed (which happened a couple of times a while back).

I am thankful for everyone on this forum, it has really made figuring out how to live in chastity a lot easier and a lot of fun. I would have never thought of so many of the fun things we do on my own.

Sorry for rambling on, thank you all,

-A

[wishful4]

My congrats! It's amazing how us chaste males are keenly aware of the time we have been locked. I commented to my spouse/KH about how long it had been since my last release. Her comment was, "who's counting?"

[Belle]

Congrats! We hit our year this week, but we took a couple of months off due to real life problems. I agree with your comments about this form. You guys are what helped me stick with MC, as I had many reservations. It was wonderful to see people of the non-chastity mansion type living this day to day.

[Belle]

My congrats! It's amazing how us chaste males are keenly aware of the time we have been locked. I commented to my spouse/KH about how long it had been since my last release. Her comment was, "who's counting?"

I can never remember either, but I know Jnuts keeps track. I often ask him how long it has been when he is pleasing me, kinda rubbing it in a bit I guess

[danj]

Congrats, Atone. Sounds like it's been a great year!

[Atone]

... "who's counting?"

I can never remember either, but I know Jnuts keeps track. I often ask him how long it has been when he is pleasing me, kinda rubbing it in a bit I guess

I definitely keep track but only remember in a general sense. If I want to know for sure I have to look up the last time I was allowed an orgasm.

I would love it if my wife would rub it in a bit by asking how long it has been, that doesn't really interest her though. She does like to rub in the fact that she is going to get to cum but I am not, I like that too and will take what I get. Occasionally she will tease about how long it is going to be before she allows me to orgasm. That I really, really like, I wish she did that more often.

-A

[Atone]

Congrats, Atone. Sounds like it's been a great year!

It has been a great year. Chastity came along at just the right time in our relationship that not only did it work for us but it has allowed us to really grow in our relationship.

-A

[Atone]

Congrats! We hit our year this week, but we took a couple of months off due to real life problems. I agree with your comments about this form. You guys are what helped me stick with MC, as I had many reservations. It was wonderful to see people of the non-chastity mansion type living this day to day.

Congrats to you as well. I was glad when you guys returned.

I have to agree about the other forums. I like to visit the other sites from time to time but I just cannot relate to the way they experience chastity, just not my thing.

-A

[danj]

I often ask him how long it has been when he is pleasing me, kinda rubbing it in a bit I guess

I wish my wife did that. Bet Jnuts loves it!

[Harry Haversackers]

Congratulations, Atone...

Here I thought I'd see a bit of friendly ridicule when I mentioned that I actually keep track of all of our chastity related data using a spreadsheet, but I see here that most of the males involved keep track one way or the other.

Our first year ended earlier this week. CH, my wife, was rather thrilled when I told her, and doubly thrilled when being told was accompanied by flowers and a "First Anniversary" card. The year has actually zipped by fairly quickly, and has, without a doubt, been a lot of fun for an old married couple. So much fun, that I expect we'll keep it going for the foreseeable future.

Once again, congratulations, and thanks for referencing by blog

Harry