Ruined orgasm thread

[BethK]

From what I can see, "ruined orgasms" are one of the best things that I or we can get from MC.

Detailed accounts of our first experience with "ruined orgasms", from my side and from Anymouse's side, can be found on our blog at http://plainschastity.livejournal.com/1192.html, A one-word description would be "Wow!"

The experience of those has gotten better since that first time, as we've learned more - about using the objects we have to use, positioning myself relative to him for better ergonomics, such that I can do a better job for a longer period plus to improve my view to maximize my enjoyment of the experience. If you'd like to read what we've done or learned to improve it, follow the tag "ruined orgasm" on our blog.

[wspony]

My KH and me are also very new to ruined orgasm. We have done it on two play-sessions so far.
She stops her stimulation exactly at the edge. At this point the pubic contractions become involuntary and I slowly start leaking semen.... When we did it the first time, she was totally fascinated because as I stayed rigid and aroused and ready to ruin another one ... This is fascinating for me as well since after a normal orgasm I get flaccid and that's it ... not with a ruined one ... it stays ready for some more abuse After a normal fulfilling orgasm there is as mentioned this hormonal induced "what the f**** am I doing, wearing chastity and all that crap... " after one or more ruined orgasms I did not feel that way at all...

[Anymouse]

Detailed accounts of our first experience with "ruined orgasms", from my side and from Anymouse's side, can be found on our blog at http://plainschastity.livejournal.com/1192.html, A one-word description would be "Wow!"

The experience of those has gotten better since that first time, as we've learned more - about using the objects we have to use, positioning myself relative to him for better ergonomics, such that I can do a better job for a longer period plus to improve my view to maximize my enjoyment of the experience. If you'd like to read what we've done or learned to improve it, follow the tag "ruined orgasm" on our blog.

From my view, Anymouse is getting a good deal here.

As Miss BethK experiments, I feel a bit like Frankenchaste.

[BethK]

My KH and me are also very new to ruined orgasm. We have done it on two play-sessions so far.
She stops her stimulation exactly at the edge. At this point the pubic contractions become involuntary and I slowly start leaking semen.... When we did it the first time, she was totally fascinated because as I stayed rigid and aroused and ready to ruin another one ... This is fascinating for me as well since after a normal orgasm I get flaccid and that's it ... not with a ruined one ... it stays ready for some more abuse After a normal fulfilling orgasm there is as mentioned this hormonal induced "what the f**** am I doing, wearing chastity and all that crap... " after one or more ruined orgasms I did not feel that way at all...

Stopping (also called "abandoning") is the simplest method by which to "ruin" an orgasm. There are also other ways

• Pressing on the urethra

• Pinching the head firmly - but not as to cause pain

• Pressing very firmly on the prostate

• Covering the opening (Like put your thumb over it)

• Covering/smashing the entire penis with something such as a shot glass

• Slapping to cause a fast stinging pain in a sensitive spot such as the inner thigh

I haven't done the last two, but I've done 2 or 3 of the others at the same time, as semen can sometimes leak out around one of those methods of stopping it. I'm always amazed when the pulsing stops, and I let go, how much of a spurt there is. It's also amazing that as soon as that happens, I can start again, and create another... and another... and another...

The last time we had a "ruined orgasm" session, he remained erect for around an hour, including through a cool shower. Had it been "on the table", he was erect enough to have penetrated me. By then, he said it was "numb" though. I tried a few things, and he was telling me the truth. Masturbation in the shower would have been both useless and impossible.

Beth

[Tom Allen]

Mrs. Edge squeezes as hard as she can down at the base. She, too, is often surprised to see fluid flow out when she's done. I have to explain to her that it's a plumbing problem: even though there's no pressure in the lines at the end, the little bit of fluid still needs someplace to go, and it's not a failure on her part.

I think, though, now that she's more experienced at it, that she tries to time it so that she ruins it half a second *before* anything would come out. We've discovered that, for me, anyway, it's even more frustrating than stopping the flow once it's started.

[Anymouse]

We're looking to acquire a shot glass to see if that works.

Since June 18, O's: me-0 Miss BethK: uncountable

[Atone]

We're looking to acquire a shot glass to see if that works.

I like to do shots, especially tequila. This would be ok too.

[Anymouse]

We're looking to acquire a shot glass to see if that works.

I like to do shots, especially tequila. This would be ok too.

I don't know if I could do shots while she is ruining an orgasm.

And her doing shots might be dangerous (she might break it off or something; I am quite fragile and easily broken).

And with her proclivities lately toward being more of a domina during intimate relations, if I fill up that shot glass I am not sure what she might do with it (donate it to a sperm bank is not likely on the list).

James, in his CB-6000S due to the heat.

[BethK]

Tom: I realize that the squirt is the expected result from this "ruined orgasm", especially when I've felt the prostate desperately trying to release fluid.

I've been known to stop just before the pulsing/orgasm/fluid starts, but I don't consider that to be "ruined orgasm". I believe a better term for that is "edging". That is another of the pleasurful side effects of male chastity. Perhaps that's the topic for another thread.

As ruining an orgasm as well as causing a (ruined) orgasm takes both of my hands, I don't think I could possibly do shots at the same time! I suppose I could do shots after or between ruined orgasms. I don't know what sort of a mixer seminal fluid would make or what kind of booze it would go best with?

Beth

[poor]

Serve it straight, the moment he has locked himself back up. (If he's quick enough it even might be warm.)