[tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni

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Re: [tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni

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Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am Well I just lost my post so here I go again.
Ugh I hate it when that happens! This was still a fantastic read anyway!
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am If anyone gets anything out of this it’s communication, communication, and more communication.
Yes!! This is what makes our chastity worlds 🌍 go round with our partners in a way that is mutually beneficial! It is truly at the crux of the matter isn't it?
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am I went to bed a bit pouty last night. She had not done the ribbon thing. I got mad and demanded the key and unlocked claiming I was done with it.
This is very good raw stuff here, Mr. Tongue+! I applaud your vulnerability here for showing us the human side of what we do. It's important for the newbs to see and to realize that it will happen, and that it's ok! Good show!
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am After we talked I realized a small miscommunication lead to an unnecessary misunderstanding.
Ah! Here we are again at the crux of the matter... communication reigns the day!
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am Fact is my head is transitioning to a subservient head space. Neither of us saw this coming.
Big facts!!

This does CHANGE a guy. It can change us in any number of different ways, just depends on us and our own personalities.

For me? It eliminated my solo masturbation habit totally. It doesn't feel like it once did at all. It feels completely different for me emotionally.


Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am It’s extremely difficult for her to grasp how I am changing.
It was for my Wife initially as well. Now She "rolls with it! You gonna be just fine!
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am Long story short I eventually found myself naked and on all fours cleaning the wood floors in our bedroom.
A fine result of the communication that seems to have straightened out the little misunderstanding :)

Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 amMr. Wanky was stiff as a board and drooling steadily
Oh the leakage! Yep that is really fun, but I guess kinda bothersome if you are naked and trying to clean the floor? Hmmm
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am When she noticed the drool she said, Omg you are really enjoying this!
I bet 98% of the KH's absolutely ADORE to see us leak!!
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am I think I may soon have the cleanest house ever.
#BCWYWF?

Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am Then a smack on my ass with her back scratcher. (Essentially an ouchie stick). Then she would scratch my balls with it as I cleaned with an occasional swat. As I cleaned we discussed this new sub space dynamic and her adjustment to it.
OK THIS had to exacerbate the drool and leaky behavior exponentially no? The smack n scratch?? 🤭😝
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am Afterwards she rewarded me with some neos.
Ok I'm not sure which I enjoy better...the daily leaking or the daily Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms...I love them both equally...but in very different ways ❤️🤭🤣
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am She allowed me to nurse her breasts. But kept her sleep shorts on. She said I needed to be reminded as to what it was like back in the day when her pussy was out of business for the week. At one point she was using her fingernails clawing everywhere except my cock. I found myself dry humping the open air. I thought for sure I would dribble my load. All it did was ooze until it went soft from exertion.
Just teasing the crap outta you!! This is hot stuff..sleep shorts kept on...my Wife loves to sleep bare bottom, oh man I could see Her punishing me this way...
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 10:12 am Occasionally she would clean the drool up and have me lick her fingers clean.
#Reduce #Reuse #Recycle 😝😝😝


What a fantastic update! Sorry the ribbon 🎀 leash didn't happen. But thanks again for showing us that we can all struggle to with "this" at times and react a bit rashly....as you said, my friend...communicate communicate communicate
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Thing is she had the ribbon leash ready. She chose to not install it because she thought I wasn’t feeling well. I have a lot of digestive issues and post supper can sometimes be a problem.

Therefore the miscommunication we were both trying to feel each other out instead of just talking. Some of her struggles are with me not topping from the bottom (language she doesn’t understand) and her feeling I need to tell her what I need and feel. Quite an odd set of circumstances.

Statistically we should have never had a successful marriage. I am the oldest of 4 and she is an only. Two very strong personalities. So for me to have the need to go sub is a bit strange for us both.

Thanks for the feedback.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 12:05 pm . Some of her struggles are with me not topping from the bottom (language she doesn’t understand) and her feeling I need to tell her what I need and feel. Quite an odd set of circumstances.
Not odd at all as my Wife requires a bit of "stoking" to get Her "creative juices flowing" so to speak.
Tongue+groove wrote: Thu Jan 23, 2025 12:05 pm Thanks for the feedback.
You're welcome 🤗 😁
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So she tied one on last night, a ribbon that is. She thread it through where the ring and cage connects, tied it in a bow and says.

I like it, now be sure to keep it pretty. This is a present to myself to unwrap at a later date. It gives me something to look forward to. Speaking of which, I’ve been looking forward to your tongue all day. So much so that I showered earlier so I could groom myself very neatly.

Putting a finger in my mouth and her green eyes lighting the room she says.

Do you think your tongue is up for the task?

Me. Yes ma’am very much so.
Her. Are you sure? After all it’s very wet down there and it will definitely get much wetter.
Me. I’m sure I’m up for the task.
Her. I’m going to soak your beard and your going to smell me all day tomorrow. Are you sure you can handle it?
Me. I’ll do my best.
Her. Good boy. And one other thing. Don’t even consider your cumming as an option. Just forget that you even can because your not. Ok?
Me. Yes ma’am, understood.

She flat wore my tongue out. And yes with all the washing possible I still smell her and love it.

On another note she did examine my floor cleaning job and was pleased.

This morning before she left for work circumstances had me on my knees putting her shoes on her. I started dripping immediately. Before I was allowed to stand back up I had to describe in detail what I had done to her last night. Something strange has happened to her. She now refers to her clit as her little dicky. I had to use the same reference.

Some other simple things I have recently noticed.

She has referred to our bedroom as her bedroom. And this morning for some reason I told her to leave the bed and that I would make up ‘her’ bed. I didn’t even realize I said it until afterwards.

In a conversation about which floor I would be cleaning I referred to the rugs to be washed as ‘my’ rugs.

A real biggie is that while rotating laundry this morning I found myself hanging up her dresses, I’ve never done that before. She came in snickering and saying, I’m getting addicted to having you as my house boy.

At this rate I’m going to have to get up even earlier to make it to the log woods.

Oh, well I’ve got to get going. I need to get the floor done so I can make a parts and shop supplies run.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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At supper last night I was told that she wouldn’t be opening the ribboned package none too soon. In her words “you made my little guy sore and he needs some recovery time.

There was that label again. Not sure why she has started referring to it as her little guy, but it is a bit arousing for some reason. I didn’t know you could wear it out with just a tongue.

Short post today. I need to get a floor done and change linens on the (her) bed. Then off to the log woods for a short afternoon.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Tongue+groove wrote: Sat Jan 25, 2025 9:54 am
Not sure why she has started referring to it as her little guy, but it is a bit arousing for some reason. I didn’t know you could wear it out with just a tongue
Yep I've done that a few times on the Missus myself. Did you know that the clitoris is like a tiny glans? I'm sure you did, but just an interesting thought. It's a nice thing to find the unexposed 'pubic bone" of the clit and work that with the tongue first before going for the round exposed portion...just drives my Wife crazy....have fun!
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Did you know that the clitoris is like a tiny glans? I'm sure you did,
Yup been down there playing for 40 years. I think it all stems back to one night her teasing me while edging me. She kept giving me a verbal description of what her little boner felt like. And telling me I wouldn’t get to play with it for quite awhile. Ever since then it’s been her little guy.

Not sure why but it has been arousing. Maybe because it’s just something a little different.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)
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Tongue+groove wrote: Sat Jan 25, 2025 2:04 pm
Did you know that the clitoris is like a tiny glans? I'm sure you did,
Yup been down there playing for 40 years.
From my time of reading and posting on these things, what never ceases to amaze me is ya never know who is reading these things and what n00b may gain some insight!

Bless you and your experiences you recant to us Mr. Tongue+!
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Had a good afternoon in the woods yesterday. I only cut 3 trees one pine and two cedars but I got 9 fine logs all in the 12 and 14 feet range. I plan to mill these for the material to build a building for my portable band saw. I’ve been told the cedar 6x6’s are worth over $100 each if I would haul them into the city. That’s a huge savings since I need 8 for my building.

When I got in Mrs. G was out gathering eggs and feeding chickens. We took a ride around the cows and watched a two day old calf exploring his new found ability to run and jump. Exciting times the weather is warming. Now we have to get through tornado season.

As for chastity I’m waiting for her arthritis pain to calm due to a front moving through. She did tie another ribbon on me. This one is long thin and dangly, she wrapped it around everything where the ring sets. So the bow is on the integrated lock with tendrils hanging on both sides. I have to hold it out of the way when I urinate. Such a simple reminder of her continual presence.

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KnownAsHerbert wrote: Sat Nov 23, 2024 4:43 am I woke up in Herbi space this morning. That complete lack of feeling apart from a (not unpleasant) awareness that I was hard. Absolutely nothing you can do about it in the Nub is there?
Finally I find where "Herbi Space" is :mrgreen: