Do you have release dates

[newtochast57]

My wife and I started out with me in chastity in March 2014, although my wife was at first reluctant and did not want to hold the key. We had a contract that stipulated that I had to be denied at least a week before and orgasm and no more than 21 days between orgasms. I had put that in the contract as one of the things that my wife was uncomfortable was denying me an orgasm. To ease her concerns in regards to my denial I made sure that every time she did deny me I was profuse in my thanks to her for denying me.

At the start my having the key was a benefit as I was using a CB6ks and it took a while to get the best fit of ring size and gap. Less than two months later I had a JB from MM which I was able to wear 24/7 right from day one.

In May for our anniversary my wife agreed to hold the key (I have an emergency key in a sealed envelope which has never been opened). I gave her the MM security key on a white gold chain which she wears on her neck all the time except to release me from the cage. In addition she told me that she wanted to do away with the contract and that she would determine when I would get an orgasm and she would not tell ahead of time when that would be.

Since that time it has usually been up to 3 months between releases. Although that is a much longer time between releases than most guys would accept it works for us. The reason it works for us is that when I am denied and brought to the edge of orgasm the feeling is awesome, in particular if I really am so close that I have to struggle to hold back to prevent the orgasm. The longer period that I have been denied the better this feeling is.

When I am allowed to have an orgasm the feeling is beyond awesome and it is better than any orgasm I have ever had BC (before chastity). The only problem with having an orgasm is despite the good feeling during it, there is a letdown after and it will take often take at least a week or more before that feeling starts to go away.

Every couple is different and although this works for us it may not work for others. We have been married 30+ years (both in our late 50’s) and I don’t know if 3 months between releases would have worked for us in our 20’s. For some couples this would be too long between releases yet for others 3 months would be nothing.

This past March we celebrated our first year in chastity and discussed the past year and what we wished to do going forward. We both agreed that for the past year not only has our sex life been the best it has ever been but our relationship and love for each other is stronger than ever. I have also made it clear to my wife(KH) that it is still up to her to determine when I get an orgasm and that if she desires longer periods of denial it is up to her.

[Jedi]

Generally my wife will set a not before date, meaning that I will not be released before that date or event occurs. One of the longest was an October day when my parents told us that they were taking our family with them to Hawaii the next June. My wife looked at me and whispered "well, now we know the soonest you will be unlocked!"

For my current period, which started in March, I have been told that I will remain locked until after our family vacation (fortunately in mid May) because she want's to make sure I have the proper submissive attitude while on vacation.

[Caged55]

My KH just informed me that II shall have NO expectations of release, nor release dates. She will use me sexually when and where she wants, and only allow me to change from my JB to a CB3k for air travel.

I was told that chastity will be a permanent part of my life, she loves the atttention she gets, and te control fits perfectly in oour FLR... whilst I will be unlocked for sex, I have no "orgasm date" other that it should be around a month, or shorter as she permits, or wants... but its out of my hands and her control is total. Orgasms and release(s) must be earned through obedient, submissive and pleasing behavior - period, thats how it will be...