Took a break

[mellykh]

....... and be forgotten about. End of the day I just need a hug and a bit of attention, not too much to ask really.

If you didn't notice, your keyholder feels the same way. (I do)
Mellykh

[Tame Lion]

My wife and I have a similar sort of relationship. We sat down and discussed activity between orgasms. I let her know that it was easy for me to feel forgotten. She decided that she needed to make a schedule for herself, so she plays with me every other day. She has written that she does it, not for me, but for her; to keep her actively involved with me sexually. I am very grateful for that.

In terms of sending food back, I confess I do that sometimes. It almost always is due to one of two things: the meat is over or underdone (happens a lot in chain adult restaurants that my wife likes), or it is cold (probably because the server let it sit on the pass too long). Otherwise, I eat what I am served. There are a few times in Chinese restaurants that the kitchen doesn't get my request for no spice. Then, I am breathing fire when I ask for a replacement.

[StartingOut]

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[Lockedchef]

We are very much partners and equals in our marriage and the chastity game doesn't define who we are as people.

If we both aren't into this then I'm taking the cage off.

Chastity requires a lot of work and communication most people don't understand at first when they get into it. I can imagine there is a lot of pressure and responsibility in being an active keyholder for someone. Right now I don't want to force that undo stress on her if it is more work then fun.

It isn't fair to be mad at or disappointed with someone when you won't tell them why.

You're entirely too sensible and reasonable-minded. Are you sure you belong in this group?

I'm quoting Tom here but to point it out to you Startingout. He actually took the time to read both of the posts I made in the topic I started and picked out the sensible and main points.

I was getting very annoyed with your presumptuous post until your little note at the end. It is for half the reason that you mentioned that a break was taken until her and I spoke some more. I'm a husband and father first and foremost. The sex game that this is comes way down the list which I mentioned already. Telling me to take care of my family and other things first before and to "Rescue her" as you put it really was an asinine comment. My wife wouldn't have been able to get her Master's Degree without my support and more importantly I wouldn't be the man I am without hers. One thing is for sure none of us need rescuing. Just seems like you missed the point of my post entirely.

The real point of the post was that her and I needed to have a conversation about this before it continued. Maybe that was meant to inspire other people out to talk to their partners any time you are having these feelings. If you choose this as a lifestyle it is constant and evolving so keep talking to each other. One of the most important bits of advice about chastity I can give is if you aren't having fun take the damn thing off reassess things and decide if this is for you.