Doesn't like cunnilingus

[CaptivatedCaveman]

I agree with TwistedMister.

My wife says if I don't spend enough time on the rest of her body first, then she is too sensitive for oral sex. It's like you have to get the water boiling first before you throw the pasta in.

Each woman is different. Keep experimenting and communicating openly. And remember, in the end it just might not be her thing. And if that's the case there isn't much you can do about it.

[Atone]

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Alternatively, if I've gotten her off this way she becomes extremely sensitive *afterward* and pushes my head away...

my wife is like this only once she is done we are completely done. It has always been that way, even before chastity. The difference is that before I could masturbate afterward, she would usually go to sleep. Now I get to go to sleep too

[velcrofist]

Thanks people. This has turned out to be very reassuring and also exciting to think of new directions we could go in from here, learning to please her and do what she wants rather than trying to fit a certain pattern.