Two months ago my wife told me that she would like me to wait until New Year's Eve for my next orgasm. I told her that it was her call and so I was locked up. In the meantime my wife has talked about never letting me cum or perhaps just on our wedding anniversary because the other holidays have no emotional meaning to us. Yesterday my wife asked me if I prefer our sex night to be tomorrow or this coming weekend. She did not mention an orgasm, just our normal sex night where she teases me and has her own orgasm.
The way she was talking was as if she is not planning on letting me cum until she feels that she has too. So far, I have lost my desire for an orgasm. Unless I am stimulated I stopped thinking about cumming after week 4. Personally I feel that I can go on like this indefinitely but at my age, Prostate problems are very real and those who cum a lot seem to have less prostate problems in the studies I read.
I know that by what I say and do indirectly tonight I can let my wife know that I am fine waiting longer or need an orgasm. Right now I am torn. I love to cum but hate how I feel afterwards. Plus I am unable to wear a chastity device due to a fungal infection so if I do not cum, I have to resist getting sexually stimulating for a few more days and it is getting harder to do with all that I see on TV and internet.
If I act like I do not expect an orgasm and are not eager for one, the next possible release date would be Valentine's Day and I am not sure about that either as last year it was just an extended teasing night because my wife felt that by not having an orgasm I was showing my love for her. At this point I do not know if she even plans on giving me an orgasm or if she will if I act like I expect one due to what she said two months ago.
How about you all? Is New Year's Ever a big night for orgasms or not?
Who is going to cum on NY Eve and do you want to?
Who is going to cum on NY Eve and do you want to?
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle
Re: Who is going to cum on NY Eve and do you want to?
I'm a solo chastity guy and I plan on cumming at midnight. I've been locked up for almost two weeks and have a New Years resolution to last a month in 2015. I've already unlocked myself, but, don't know if I'll make it to midnight with the amount of alcohol I've drank so far. I guess if I pass out before 12, I'll just lock back up again and see how long I last.
Re: Who is going to cum on NY Eve and do you want to?
Not me. All I got was oral and all of a sudden she stopped and ruined my orgasm. No pleasure at all but a lot of cum which she fed me. She had a toe curling orgasm that left her feeling like rubber. Once again she made me think I would have a full orgasm but she lied.
The worst part is that I still cannot wear my cock cage for a few more days at least.
The worst part is that I still cannot wear my cock cage for a few more days at least.
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"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle
Re: Who is going to cum on NY Eve and do you want to?
Not me. I haven't had an "O" ruined or otherwise for 54 days. She was going to give me one before locking me in my new jailbird 40 days ago, but chose not to. I have no idea how long I'll be going without one.
Plenty of sex, alternative as it may be, but no orgasm and for the last 40 days it's been locked sex.
Plenty of sex, alternative as it may be, but no orgasm and for the last 40 days it's been locked sex.
Re: Who is going to cum on NY Eve and do you want to?
Got really close.
Got home from work and took a shower.
We ate Chinese take-out with a couple of drinks, then snuggled on the couch to watch a movie.
The next thing I knew, I woke up around 9:00 PM, woke her up, then it was off to bed for the evening.
Sheeesh! Us old farts!
The New Year came anyway.
Got home from work and took a shower.
We ate Chinese take-out with a couple of drinks, then snuggled on the couch to watch a movie.
The next thing I knew, I woke up around 9:00 PM, woke her up, then it was off to bed for the evening.
Sheeesh! Us old farts!
The New Year came anyway.
Re: Who is going to cum on NY Eve and do you want to?
grubber wrote: The New Year came anyway.

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