Where we had two days a week devoted to sex with an orgasm for her one day and both days for teasing and edging me, now she can initiate sex whenever or infrequently as she wants. Sometimes she can go weeks without wanting sex with me. For those who do not know me, my wife is bisexual for a preference for women. She still likes sex with me but just not as often as you does with women so she can go long periods of time without feeling the need to have sex with me. She thinks penises are ugly and cum is disgusting and this works our well in a chastity lifestyle. She does not have to play a role, just be herself without feeling guilty about not meeting my sexual needs and frequency as she has in the past.
So her loose plan is to not give me any full orgasms, unless they happen by accident which only happened once last year. She will give me a few ruined orgasms when my balls are full because she loves to tease me and get pleasure from my frustration during a ruined orgasm. Intercourse is off of the table as it was during the last 20 years during our BDSM lifestyle. I still have to sleep in the guest room even though my wife no longer has a full time girlfriend. I am used to it and kind of like sleeping alone and do not miss intercourse as my wife is tiny and my 7" hurt her and she got lots of yeast infections. I did not like having intercourse where I had to be very careful. It just was no fun having to control myself during the heat of passion so I do not miss it much although lately I do.
So our version of chastity is separate bedrooms, no intercourse and no full orgasm. I must wear female panties and soon, a bra, each day under my clothes. I have been assigned some household chores and each evening I turn into my wife's servant who fetches whatever she asks for. I am expected to be locked up 24/7 without her asking me or checking me to make sure. I am fine with that because I am the one who asked to be locked up in chastity, not her. Why cheat myself? The last thing is that she administer's domestic discipline mostly with a leather strap, crop, flogger and soon to be added, cane. Since she cannot threaten me with no orgasms, she threatens me with severe butt beatings and if there are no bruises or welts, she keeps doing it until there is. No enjoyable paddling scene for fun anymore. She makes me cry and beg her to stop and then does it more as I count off the strokes.
This is our new life. It is different than our BDSM life in that there is a lot less pain and humiliation involved. My wife no longer has her girlfriend around to dominant me even worse than my wife did. She has been talking about getting a new girlfriend to see how I would react to two women teasing and having sex with her unable to use my penis. My wife has always freely shared her girlfriends with me with no restrictions but now would like to try to use another woman to tease me with no hope of ever enjoying sexual pleasure from her. That would be a first for me.
So what about you? How long between orgasms and what other kinky areas of your life is chastity used. I know it is big in cuckold play and feminization plus D/s. Even though my wife and I have tried pretty much everything you find in FetLife, we always played as a team. She never was with a guy unless I was there but she quickly realized that she does not want to be with other guys, just girls. I could have sex with any of her girlfriends and even women I brought home with me as long as it was in our home when my wife was home to watch, join in or have sex with me afterwards.
Do you just do chastity or is is part of a larger fetish. How man orgasms do you get and which kind. I remember when we started and thought 2 weeks was long term chastity and now we do not even consider it chastity until a month has passed with no orgasm of any kind for me.
