What is a ruined O

[Xrcrash]

Okay, still new to this whole deal so banking on experience of the " old timers". What the hell is a ruined? And even more so what's the point in having one? And the biggest question of all, what effect does it have? Does it cause a drop in the arousal? Or does it cause more frustration?
Thanks for the help in advance.

[Michele]

A ruined orgasm is ejaculation without the contractions or pleasure of the orgasm. For us, they are seriously frustrating to cagedmonkey. I edge him and edge him and just as he thinks he's going to cum I ruin it and causes tons of frustration. For him it does not cause a droop in arousal, rather it increases his horny. Leaving him extremely horny and frustrated is exciting so that would be my point haha

Hope that helps!

[locked4her55]

What the hell is a ruined?

This has been discussed quite often here so I would refer you to type in "ruined' in the search function.

And even more so what's the point in having one? And the biggest question of all, what effect does it have? Does it cause a drop in the arousal? Or does it cause more frustration?

My wife has given me a few ruined O's in the past and it is frustrating not to be able to achieve a full satisfying O. A ruined O for me basically keeps me "horny" without any let down. Could be an age thing but after a full O it takes me a few days to get back into the swing of things.

Many of us here are not only practicing Chastity but Tease & Denial too

[RegularJoe]

Plenty of info in this forum and on-line about ruined orgasms.

Essentially it entails your sexual partner stimulating you just short of orgasm, often repeatedly, until you experience a rather joyless and passive ejaculation. On occasion, after a considerable period of enforced chastity (several weeks to a couple of months) I have also experienced a spontaneous ruined orgasm, often while providing oral pleasure, no doubt triggered by my extreme sexual frustration ....contrasted by the immediate and intimate observation of others freely enjoying sexual pleasure and relief. Physically it hurts a bit because I can feel the bars of the JB digging into my swollen cock.

I don't find them pleasureable; in fact they induce, in me anyway, a sort of sadness....a deep sense of loss. The frustration remains but, for a day or two, I am left without the 'rush' that sexual frustration provides. I'm sure it's a biochemical phenomena.

[CuriousGeorge51]

My GF is enjoying teasing me with a ruined O. Right now I have been released for about 2-3 weeks. She wants me to have as many O's as I want knowing that any day now I will be locked away for 30-60 days. I have a feeling she will give me a ruined O any day now and then promptly have me go back into lockup. She is enjoying being my KH more and more and keeping me on edge. Giving me 2-3 weeks of freedom will make the next stretch of lockup even harder.. chuckle

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

For me it's a release of semen with no satisfaction , my arousal level and desire for more stays high. As my KH says I remain a good boy , no attitude change. For me I'm still horny as hell and want more , this is the edge I desire wanting and not receiving. Until I was locked I would J/O looking for the ultimate orgasm now I know it was a lost cause. The orgasm was always great but left me with an empty feeling never fulfilling my fantasy , a ruined orgasm or no orgasm keeps the excitement level in high gear , and the fantasy lives on.
teased denied and always horny.