Hello
As a quick introduction, I have been checking in to the keyheld BlogSpot for about 3 yrs off and on. I have been practicing orgasm denial with my wife for about 2 yrs on the honor system but we have decided that a device may be best moving forward. I did try one of the cb devices but don't feel as though I will be able to wear that. I decided to look around here for some feedback on devices. Thanks for creating a forum for such things.
"Hello world" thread
"Hello world"
59 year old male here, married, living in Surrey..
I have a TV mistress who I adore, she keeps me locked in chastity 7x24 being allowed out for two 5 hours stints a month. i.e. I am let out for play and teasing every two weeks. Tho I have gone for 4 weeks before.
The crack is my wife does not know, and I sleep in the same bed as her.
Seriously.
I have a TV mistress who I adore, she keeps me locked in chastity 7x24 being allowed out for two 5 hours stints a month. i.e. I am let out for play and teasing every two weeks. Tho I have gone for 4 weeks before.
The crack is my wife does not know, and I sleep in the same bed as her.
Seriously.
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello and welcome to you Katesboy, Makenshi, gsb19041 and o_kneel
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My boys are Wearing: Jail Bird (cm) Steelheart (a)
Owned Devices: MM Jail Bird (x2), MM Spyder, MM Locking Double Cockring, Steelworxx Revenge
Click here for Our blog & Podcast
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello all,
I'm a 28 year old male from Europe. I have a loving girlfriend and consider myself the luckiest guy for having her.
We have toyed around with a CB6000s and the longest she has kept me locked in was 10 days, as we are relatively new to this. Our experience of being sexually frustrated and lusting after her (for me) -- and having frequent orgasms and granting tease and denial (for her) -- the was so intense for us both that we agreed to continue with our little adventure.
As of writing this, I have had my last orgasm yesterday and am locked up again. I have ordered a Holy Trainer v2 Small (black) a week ago and we're both very much looking forward to it, as the CB6000s is both uncomfortable and tedious to puzzle together.
I'm thrilled about what the future holds for me and am excited about exchanging thoughts with you guys!
Best wishes!
I'm a 28 year old male from Europe. I have a loving girlfriend and consider myself the luckiest guy for having her.
We have toyed around with a CB6000s and the longest she has kept me locked in was 10 days, as we are relatively new to this. Our experience of being sexually frustrated and lusting after her (for me) -- and having frequent orgasms and granting tease and denial (for her) -- the was so intense for us both that we agreed to continue with our little adventure.
As of writing this, I have had my last orgasm yesterday and am locked up again. I have ordered a Holy Trainer v2 Small (black) a week ago and we're both very much looking forward to it, as the CB6000s is both uncomfortable and tedious to puzzle together.
I'm thrilled about what the future holds for me and am excited about exchanging thoughts with you guys!
Best wishes!
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello everybody. I just went ahead and used my real name since if anyone finds me here there is nothing to be embarrassed about, I will just refer to my wife as K, We are brand new to the whole male chastity thing. We have both been married before, have only been married for 5 years, and our children are grown. I am 57 and K is 40 years old.
This whole thing was an idea I initiated, and she is still getting comfortable with the idea, bu there had not been much hesitation on her part. She is attracted to the promise I have made to her and to myself of eliminating my tendency to come across as needy for sex, and wanting it is just the wrong time for her.
I recently was laid up for several weeks due to an injury, and after we went for three weeks without being together, but with her at my side lovingly tending to my daily needs, it became clear to me that I have always been less than fully considerate of her when I have desired sex, even though I do probably come off as more polite and less demanding than many men do. So I go up the nerve to take up the idea with her, for her benefit, and for my own in being less selfish.
We have agreed to start out on the honor system, in an effort for me to learn to be more attentive to her desires than to my own. I find that it's surprising, when I take the time to look at myself, how self motivated I have been. She loves sex as much as I do, but so often she has given me what I wanted without my realizing that I have been pushing her into being intimate when she really was not in the right frame of mind to enjoy it. We hope to create a deeper and more rewarding intimate life by having me practice chastity for her benefit. We expect to move towards acquiring a chastity device soon, but as of now are just in the mode of making an emotional adjustment and a practical and feasible plan.
I look forward to hearing the thoughts and experiences of others here. Thank you for operating this forum.
This whole thing was an idea I initiated, and she is still getting comfortable with the idea, bu there had not been much hesitation on her part. She is attracted to the promise I have made to her and to myself of eliminating my tendency to come across as needy for sex, and wanting it is just the wrong time for her.
I recently was laid up for several weeks due to an injury, and after we went for three weeks without being together, but with her at my side lovingly tending to my daily needs, it became clear to me that I have always been less than fully considerate of her when I have desired sex, even though I do probably come off as more polite and less demanding than many men do. So I go up the nerve to take up the idea with her, for her benefit, and for my own in being less selfish.
We have agreed to start out on the honor system, in an effort for me to learn to be more attentive to her desires than to my own. I find that it's surprising, when I take the time to look at myself, how self motivated I have been. She loves sex as much as I do, but so often she has given me what I wanted without my realizing that I have been pushing her into being intimate when she really was not in the right frame of mind to enjoy it. We hope to create a deeper and more rewarding intimate life by having me practice chastity for her benefit. We expect to move towards acquiring a chastity device soon, but as of now are just in the mode of making an emotional adjustment and a practical and feasible plan.
I look forward to hearing the thoughts and experiences of others here. Thank you for operating this forum.
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Welcome to the world of chastity bpit & stirling. Looks like we have two new members anxious to get started with their chastity journey. Your descriptions describe what many of us desire to achieve with our keyholders. Enjoy your beginnings and feel free to chime in often. 

Happily secured since 4/2010 
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273

Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello all,
Firstly I am not a spambot, neither am I a number, I am of course a free man
Why am I here? Well, quite simply to learn more about chastity, and the lifestyle. I expressed an interest in it to my Mistress, (ok truthfully I begged and begged and begged) and she sent me here to learn a bit more before I mentioned it again.
So, not too sure what more to say at this point, time to dip in to the forum and see what is what I think.
Chris
Firstly I am not a spambot, neither am I a number, I am of course a free man

Why am I here? Well, quite simply to learn more about chastity, and the lifestyle. I expressed an interest in it to my Mistress, (ok truthfully I begged and begged and begged) and she sent me here to learn a bit more before I mentioned it again.
So, not too sure what more to say at this point, time to dip in to the forum and see what is what I think.
Chris
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello World
I am a real person.
My husband and I have been adjusting to male chastity on and off for close to a year. We started and then backed off for a while and have restarted. Some aspects have been great and there have been difficult moments. I would like to be a member of this community because I have questions and sometimes would like to bounce ideas around. He states his desire to be caged and I prefer him that way, but things do go amiss.
I am a real person.
My husband and I have been adjusting to male chastity on and off for close to a year. We started and then backed off for a while and have restarted. Some aspects have been great and there have been difficult moments. I would like to be a member of this community because I have questions and sometimes would like to bounce ideas around. He states his desire to be caged and I prefer him that way, but things do go amiss.
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Welcome lytton & abitofasmile to the Forum.
lytton, if truly you want to be placed in chastity then you can forget about that free man stuff.
abitofasmile, It's great that you want your husband caged. That's half the battle. You will need to let us know what is going amiss. Lot's of experience here that may be able to help.
lytton, if truly you want to be placed in chastity then you can forget about that free man stuff.

abitofasmile, It's great that you want your husband caged. That's half the battle. You will need to let us know what is going amiss. Lot's of experience here that may be able to help.
Happily secured since 4/2010 
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273

Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Thanks for the quick reply, over zealous response with too much info....just happy to find others with more experience and all.
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