Anyone does a 'rules-off' -day?

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Anyone does a 'rules-off' -day?

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For example, in some big Theravada Buddhist monasteries there are 1 or 2 days a year (usually connected with some festivity), when the rules towards elders (the hierarchy) don't apply. This could be an interesting tradition also in a Master-slave relationship. :idea: I'd like to know if such practice exists already?
However, it certainly DOES NOT mean the roles being swapped! The Master is still a master and the boi is still the boi, but on such a day he'd do anything he would want - like talk to the Master without saying sir or asking permission, he could choose to complain or make suggestions of his own, or not - and act as he wishes towards the master. For the Master this could also be very beneficial: how the boi would act could be more informative indicator how pleased the boi actually is about his Master, than the small gestures he is restricted to otherwise.Traditionally in those monasteries it is a carnevalistic thing, it's not about committing real sins, but might be brotherly pinching the nose of an elder or so. This means the monks understand the real meaning of the day, which is to reinforce the rules, not to weaken them. Masters, you surely don't THINK your bois are more stupid than those monks (even if you might say so)?

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Re: Anyone does a 'rules-off' -day?

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I'm not sure if this is what you mean, but my wife and I schedule regular suspension of chastity play. It was the last 4 days of each month. We just changed that to every other month, which give her almost 60 days of control at a time. We are both getting more acclimated to this lifestyle. (Sorry Tom, I just couldn't resist)
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We absolutely do this... it's a "honeymoon" of sorts, no cage, no denial, I don't have to be in charge of everything, sex whenever, erections whenever, no punishments... I'm still in charge of when those times happen and for how long they will happen but it's not like they everyday. We definitely do not switch roles - that's something else entirely. The thing that doesn't change is the flr part, I still run the relationship. The control over him sexually is let up. :)

Hope that helps :)
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We have never done a "rules off day". It's never happened because we really don't exercise a "rules on day".

I guess we keep it simple. She keeps me locked for my own good and to keep me wanting her. There's no Master/Slave stuff going on here. We treat each other with the respect we both deserve.

Not knocking at all what others choose to do. It's just what works for us.
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I'm similar to that. No real rules. I just stay locked until she wants sex or whatever. No sir or ma'am. I do housework but so does she. Really more of a romance thing, cause I do stuff that I did when we were dating, and I don't want a day off from that.
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I feel breaks are key to chastity play. We normally go for Afew hours day of no "yess mistress""no slave" but still locked in. As for not being caged. It's up to her and idk when or for how long those are. I've been locked the longest yet so far and she states no release from the cage anytime soon. :D but used to be 1 week in and 1 week out sorta.
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