I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old

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I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old

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I'm tired of reading how many people assume that if you're interested in chastity you are:

Interested in cuckolding
Want to be a sissy maid
Are seeking forced-bi
Don't get to have sex

I'm sure there are a dozen other ones, but those are the ones that just grate on me. I'm very grateful for those outspoken men in chastity (and the women who enjoy locking us) who stand up time and time again and say "nope" to these assumptions.

And to be clear, I'm not judging anyone interested in any of those things, or the M2M chastity folks either. There's room enough for all of us, but I just find it so tedious that people assume X because of Y.

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I wish we had a little emoticon for "banging head against a wall."
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Aarkey wrote:I'm tired of reading how many people assume that if you're interested in chastity you are:

Interested in cuckolding
Want to be a sissy maid
Are seeking forced-bi
Don't get to have sex
No, No, No & No!

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Guy shows up at a mob party dressed as a maid. Another guy starts teasing him, but his buddies pull him away. "What are you doing? That guy's a maid man!"
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Aarkey wrote:I'm tired of reading how many people assume that if you're interested in chastity you are:

Interested in cuckolding
Want to be a sissy maid
Are seeking forced-bi
Don't get to have sex

I'm sure there are a dozen other ones, but those are the ones that just grate on me. I'm very grateful for those outspoken men in chastity (and the women who enjoy locking us) who stand up time and time again and say "nope" to these assumptions.

And to be clear, I'm not judging anyone interested in any of those things, or the M2M chastity folks either. There's room enough for all of us, but I just find it so tedious that people assume X because of Y.

/rantmodeoff
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Tom Allen wrote:I wish we had a little emoticon for "banging head against a wall."
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You can add married to your list. Everyone says that once you get married the sex becomes infrequent. :)
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Aw, but I like most of the things on that list. :-D

Might be the first time I proved a stereotype.
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aliceinbondageland wrote:Aw, but I like most of the things on that list. :-D

Might be the first time I proved a stereotype.
I don't have any problem with folks liking those things, my problem is when people assume that we ALL do.
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