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[BenjaminV]

Hi I'm Ben and my wife and I are interested in experimenting with male chastity. We haven't bought a device yet. All of them that we have looked at seem to prevent erection. I'm not sure of the point of that.
We are interested in contolling my orgasms while I pleasure her and then finally after I have made her kum many times then me getting off. To us part of the appeal is me getting extremely horny but not being able to kum. I'm not sure if a device that prevented me from getting an erection would be pleasurable for us. Does anybody make a device that allows erection but prevents orgasm? Like I said we are new to this and haven't actually tried it yet but the idea sounds exciting to both of us.

Thanks,
Ben

[RegularJoe]

Ben, if you wear a device that lets you get erections it will do nothing to stop your orgasm, unless you get a belt that totally encloses your groin....preventing sufficient contact stimulation for orgasm. The cage enclosures prevent erections...and while they may not completely prevent male orgasm, any such will likely not be very satisfying.

You know, there's nothing wrong with you providing orgasms for your wife, and waiting for her to give you permission for your own...when she sees fit. Whatever works in a relationship is cool. Tease and denial doesn't necessarily require a male chastity device.

[TwistedMister]

We haven't bought a device yet. All of them that we have looked at seem to prevent erection.

Depending on your size, and the device, not all of them necessarily completely *prevent* erection. I'm just a hair over 6" when fully erect. I have a CB3000. When flaccid, it takes a bit of lube to slide the cage on (width factor) but I don't go quite to the end of it. When aroused, of course, I fill it completely and there is a feeling of restriction/compression; and there are several inches of erect tissue *behind* the device- almost erect but just not quite. In this condition the sensitive bits for which stimulation is needed to produce orgasm are [mostly] shielded. Manual efforts to produce orgasm are fruitless, although after a month or so of denial I can get sensitive enough that oral stimulation *could* produce an orgasm if Mrs. Twisted wanted to...but it would be at least partially 'stifled' due to the restriction of the base ring. Mrs. Twisted seems to find it rather amusing to get me to the point of desperately wanting her to 'finish it' and then stopping.

[Atone]

Does anybody make a device that allows erection but prevents orgasm?

The only device that comes to mind requires a prince albert piercing. Take a look at the PA5000. There are also several similar type designs from both Steelworxx and Lori Lancer. Here are a couple of links.
http://cb-x.com/pa_5000_details.html
http://chastityforums.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=7
http://www.chastitytube.com/device.html (look at #5 or #8a)
http://steelworxx.de/The-Tube-Jacket-on ... -119p.html

Another option is a KTB. It will allow an erection but it will be very painful, probably won't want an orgasm if you are erect. I never tried in mine, even the thought is painful. Here is a link to the one I have. http://www.malechastitynow.com/KTB-with ... grade.html

Final option that I can think of is a double locking cockring from Steelworxx. I have one that allows a fairly comfortable erection but I did have a ruined orgasm in it once and it was extremely unsatisfying and rather painful. I have no desire to do that again. The penis ring has to be sufficiently small for that to be the case though, if it was a bit bigger then a normal orgasm would be possible. Here is a link to the one I have. http://steelworxx.de/Double-Cockring-(w ... )-37p.html

[Tom Allen]

Does anybody make a device that allows erection but prevents orgasm? Like I said we are new to this and haven't actually tried it yet but the idea sounds exciting to both of us.

We have one of these life-like Vixskin extensions, and it's fun to play with. Obviously it allows for erection, but the sheath material is thick enough to prevent stimulation. The Ox Balls version looks to be even sturdier (no link at the moment), and it's available in clear.

Not exactly chastity, but good for T&D.

[Atone]

My wife was just asking me what I wanted for my birthday, I think I might put one of those on the list.

[poor]

Another nod here for the Locking Cockring from Steelworxx. To date I have not ejaculated with it on (although I have been provoked into a retrograde orgasm). However the erections I endure whilst wearing it look as painful as they are to experience which doesn't sound much like what you are looking for.

Perhaps an Ox-balls Cock Sling?

[BenjaminV]

Thanks for the replies. In response to Joe, I don't think I would have an orgasm without some kind of stimulation. If I did have a spontaneous orgasm that would be OK but at my age I think that would be rare. If I did my wife might like it. Or did I misunderstand what you said? Don't most of the devices prevent any type of stimulation?
Couldn't they just make a bigger cage? I have an average size penis so does anybody make a cage that would allow me to have an erection but prevent any touching? That is what we had in mind. I have no interest in any type of pain or humiliation or anything like that.
My wife and I like to play games like we roll a set of dice and if the number five comes up I have to make her kum five times before she does anything for me. We have some other things we do too but we both think it would be very sexy if we had some type of bondage device so that she would feel more in control.
Anyway, thanks for the tips and keep them coming.

Thanks,
Ben

[locked4her55]

Tom,

Thanks for the info on Ox Balls. I just placed my order.

http://shop.oxballs.com/DUDE-cock-sheat ... FKS901.htm

I made a poor attempt at a cheaper version last year which didn't go over too well with my wife. You get what you pay for. Between strapping on the harness and a penis sheath that looked more like a wax candle, well she told me after one use to put it away for good.

My hope is that this one will be a better experience for both of us.

BenjaminV,

Not sure if this might work for you but I thought I would make the suggestion.

http://www.madame-dura.de/product_info. ... ertel.html&

Good Luck

[RegularJoe]

Thanks for the replies. In response to Joe, I don't think I would have an orgasm without some kind of stimulation. If I did have a spontaneous orgasm that would be OK but at my age I think that would be rare. If I did my wife might like it. Or did I misunderstand what you said? Don't most of the devices prevent any type of stimulation?
Couldn't they just make a bigger cage? I have an average size penis so does anybody make a cage that would allow me to have an erection but prevent any touching? That is what we had in mind. I have no interest in any type of pain or humiliation or anything like that.
My wife and I like to play games like we roll a set of dice and if the number five comes up I have to make her kum five times before she does anything for me. We have some other things we do too but we both think it would be very sexy if we had some type of bondage device so that she would feel more in control.
Anyway, thanks for the tips and keep them coming.

Thanks,
Ben

I also didn't think that, at my age, I could experience a spontaneous orgasm...until I'd spent weeks in a cage waiting for release. I don't know about anybody else, but with my wife's nightly stimulation...plus orally servicing her to orgasm, I am on the edge of ejaculation nearly continuously. Sometimes, I go 'over the top', and experience a ruined orgasm...some short-term relief, but basically still left horny.

I don't know if a big cage would work for your purposes. Experimentation is expensive. There's a large 'tool-box' of sex toys sitting in our bedroom that attests to that fact. You're fortunate, as I am, that your wife enjoys sex.

For quite some time, prior to the cage, Beth would stimulate me, demand oral satisfaction, come, and deny me relief....roll over, and go to sleep. It may have been more maddening than wearing a device...laying there with a pounding boner....knowing that if she caught me jerking off there'd be hell to pay......I don't know...my married life is more complicated than most...to put it lightly.